šæokay yeah, kinky sex is cool and all, but what about slow sex? the kind where you both really take your time to work each other up, to feel, to kiss, to rub, to touch? What about slow grinding? Touching through clothes? Putting your hand into said clothes. What about making out? Neck kisses? Face kisses? Maybe it leads down to collarbone kisses, who knows?
šæthen when the clothes start coming off, itās one at a time, slow and steady. Any hoodies/jackets/pullovers come off first, gently caressing each otherās bare arms as theyāre revealed. Then shirts, pants, underwear, etc. Not rushing anything.
šæthen when it gets to the fucking, youāre already so hard/wet that itās almost painful, but taking your time is part of the excitement. Maybe thereās gentle grinding, rubbing, touching. Nothing too incredibly stimulating, just slightly teasing. Then when the actual main event comes, the thrusts are deep and slow, until eventually, they get more passionate and youāre making out and making love and you feel so loved and safe and itās just you two (or more if you want) in the whole world, and nothing else matters.