Before You DM Me
Read everything. If you can’t be bothered to read my rules, don’t expect a response. Instructions for messaging me are at the bottom.
1. I will NEVER DM you first.
Never. I might flirt with you, tease you, or even torture you a little through comments, notes, and reblogs… but I will never message you first. If you want my attention, you need to be brave enough to come to me.
2. If you want a response, greet me properly.
Start with “Good Morning, Goddess.” (Or Good Afternoon/Good Evening depending on your time zone.) Every new day we speak starts with a proper greeting. Also, make sure your age is visible and your blog isn’t completely blank.
3. I will NEVER ask you for tribute.
However, if you’re asking for my time, my attention, tasks, ownership, or you become too needy, I’ll gladly send you my PayPal, Cash App, or Bitcoin wallet.
4. Your payment issues are not my responsibility.
If you don’t have PayPal, Cash App, or Bitcoin, that’s something you’ll have to figure out. I don’t need to hear about your wife, girlfriend, bank, or every reason why you can’t make an account. Your excuses won’t change my boundaries.
5. Don’t send me anything without asking first.
That includes personal photos, videos, screenshots, or reposts. Use your manners and ask permission before sending me anything.
6. If you’re owned, that’s your responsibility.
You should have already told your Domme or Owner you’re speaking to me. I’m not keeping track of who belongs to who. If you flirt with me in comments, notes, reblogs, or messages, that’s between you and your dynamic not me.
7. Yes, I enjoy needy and desperate confessions.
If you’ve read this far, then you already know I enjoy when subbys admit their neediness and desperation. Do it respectfully and you just might get what you’re hoping for. And yes, I enjoy receiving photos… but ask permission first.
8. Ownership, training, and tasks are a separate conversation.
My time is valuable. If you’re seeking ownership, tasks, training, or a more personal dynamic, expect a paywall. Go back and read Rule #3.
About Me
I am Sapiosexual and Pansexual, and this blog reflects that.
I’ve been in the lifestyle for over 13 years. I’m a switch, which means I understand both sides of the dynamic and what it actually takes to live this lifestyle in real life.
And one last thing this is Tumblr. You do not belong to me unless we’ve established that dynamic outside of Tumblr.












