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omg ok without spoilers, WHAT did you think of hereditary?? i thought it was so scary / good right up until the very end when they like....switched the whole concept of the movie?? Like i thought it was about the evil shit you inherited from your fam / the way shit festers within you but it ended up being something totally different that was lowkey lame. what did you and j think of it????

I think we had the same feelings. Also at the end we were like WTF DID WE MISS THIS PLOT THE WHOLE TIME and felt really confused so we were like looking for deeper meaning and it really just wasn’t that deep ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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how did you get this url????

It’s actually a really great story - some douchey dude bro had it and wasn’t using it and I messaged him and was like “I could make this URL great, you should free it up” and of course he was like ABSOLUTELY NOT FATTY! And then continued to just be a jerk and one of his friends saw and messaged me and was like “hey I can get that URL for you. He’s a jerk and it would be perfect for you” And the next day she was like “here’s the URL LOVE YA” 😍 I cannot for the life of me remember her URL (cause she’s changed it a couple times) but AN ANGEL A BABE A TOTAL LOVE 🐛 BUG helped me get it ❤️

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Hi, what has been the best sex you and J have had since you started dating and went public with your relationship?

What in the hot fuck did you think I would respond to this with? Like did you REALLY think I was going to describe us fucking in detail to you??? PAY MEEEEEE

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Hey I think you and j should start a gaming thing on twitch! The whisper challenge vid proved that you two are so hilarious and sweet and I think it would be fun to see the both of you play Mario Kart, Smash Bros, or Kingdom Hearts. It would be a way to fill the day, bring in traffic and revenue, and open up conversations about the queer gaming community!

this is adorable and such a good idea and also we don’t even own a gaming system and I lose interest in games after I play them like twice lol

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did you maybe get a new tattoo on your upper arm under the flowers? also i thought you were growing your hair long? either way, love the new cut!!

I DID get a new tattoo! it’s like a moon phase thing but also has a sun in it? lol it’s just pretty. 

I was going to grow my hair long and then I realized that I am OLD AND GRUMPY AND DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR THAT SHIT <3 

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INTRODUCING: PRONOUN PACKS!!

I am so so excited to announce these pronoun packs for y’all. I moved from a suuuuper liberal progressive area in Massachusetts to the Midwest and Ive noticed being misgendered so much more. As a nonbinary person, its been really hard not feeling ~seen~ every single day when the world assumes my gender. But how do you explain gender 101 to strangers? Who has all the time and energy for that?

So we made these cards, included in the pack along with real cute stickers and buttons. The cards are a gentle way you can hand something to a service worker, leave on a restaurant table, or discreetly remind a family member, that they misgendered you, and encourage them to use non gendered language instead!

Available for preorder now in they/them, he/him, and she/her - shipping out in a couple weeks. 10% of profit goes to TransLifeline❤️

https://fatgirlflow.merchtable.com/accessories

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we just went to drive to see the sunset but it happened too fast and we got there and it was gone and all i could think of was that i wish i could text god and tell him to put the sun back in the sky so corissa could see it set

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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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INTRODUCING: PRONOUN PACKS!!

I am so so excited to announce these pronoun packs for y’all. I moved from a suuuuper liberal progressive area in Massachusetts to the Midwest and Ive noticed being misgendered so much more. As a nonbinary person, its been really hard not feeling ~seen~ every single day when the world assumes my gender. But how do you explain gender 101 to strangers? Who has all the time and energy for that?

So we made these cards, included in the pack along with real cute stickers and buttons. The cards are a gentle way you can hand something to a service worker, leave on a restaurant table, or discreetly remind a family member, that they misgendered you, and encourage them to use non gendered language instead!

Available for preorder now in they/them, he/him, and she/her - shipping out in a couple weeks. 10% of profit goes to TransLifeline❤️

https://fatgirlflow.merchtable.com/accessories

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What does makeup mean to you? I use it as my self care time, and @Target Beauty has everything I need #Ad. I try new things, take a minute for myself, and do a little mindfulness. I love using brushes that are luxe and feel great on my skin, and seeing how my highlighter looks after swiping it across my cheek feels like some kind of funky meditation for me! Check out my stories for some of my faves! #TargetBeauty” [Link in bio]

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Have you ever read Man’s search for meaning by Viktor Frankl ?

I haven’t! 

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Hello!! I just watched your Youtube Whisper Challenge with JJ, and I have to say it has made me totally fall in love with both of you! Hilarious and so wonderfully adorable. I'll be following you on social media now! You both make me have hope for my future romantic life, and that I can love myself as I am.

this is so so sweet thank you so much!!!! <3 

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Hi! I’m a 21 year old girl from a small town. I’ve always thought I was hetero but I’ve been having doubts about my sexuality(it’s not the first time). I’ve been with a guy before and have had crushes on guys that I’ve bonded with. I’ve wondered on multiple(a lot of) occasions what it would be like to be with a girl since jr high and have had sex oriented dreams with girls in them as well. I was wondering if you could help me understand this a little better? -💛

sexuality is fluid and you might be attracted to both/any/all genders!!! It never hurts to try new things - if you’re unsure of your sexuality just make sure you’re upfront with people you date so that they know what they’re in for ;) 

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I AM SO INCREDIBLY PROUD IF THIS COLLAB!!! Click the pic and go watch the vid 😘😘😘 Why don’t we talk more about aging in body positive circles? I’ve had to really challenge my thinking on so many things that I do to achieve “beauty” as I’ve gotten older, so I’m partnering with @Target Beauty to share my story about how I use beauty to FEEL good #Ad. My values around how I treat myself and my beauty routine have changed so much since my 20’s… I’ve got this amazing happy life, and I don’t want my beauty routine to feel like some tedious thing I’m doing for others. I want to do it for me. I want to do it because I feel my most gorgeous when I can just BE ME. #TargetBeauty

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👋 hey hi 👋 im Corissa! If we haven’t met or if you’re new here there are a few things you should know about me/this space . My blog (fatgirlflow.com) is about learning how to be body positive and challenging my thoughts about bodies. I believe above all else that our bodies are political and that the marginalization of people in fat, disabled, brown, trans, and queer bodies is systemic and pervasive. I BELIEVE THAT BODY POSITIVITY IS A MOVEMENT AND NOT A FEELING . I do not believe body positivity is something you ACHIEVE, rather it’s something that is practiced . How do we practice body positivity? We reject diet culture. We challenge our beliefs about what “good” and “bad” bodies look like. We examine the intersections of class/race/sexuality/gender to learn how we can more effectively advocate for a culture that believes in body positivity . Body positivity is not self love. It isn’t about YOU or how you feel. It’s a movement to create a cultural shift toward justice for all bodies . We talk about a lot of stuff here, but we’ve got to all come together on this one if we want to really make a difference. So.... let’s do just that. Welcome to the #fatgirlflowfam 💕#plussizefashion #selflove #bodypositive #bopo #loveyourself #itsamovement 📸 @halliesigwing

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ok i usually don’t share vids on tumblr but i feel like ya’ll will like this one 

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I always feel terrible when my tumblr is just Instagram posts cause I’ve been mia

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You know how fat people are ALWAYS told that their back pain is due to “all the extra weight their carrying”? I just read this book called Healing Back Pain about the psychological elements of pain; I’ve had back pain for my whole adult life and now it’s gone. The book is so amazing because it examines the cultural/emotional elements of pain- so important for fattiest whose bodies are constantly blamed. I 100% recommend it to anyone who has even minor neck, shoulder, or back pain.

I am definitely up for reading this but I’m also hesitant to discount people’s pain so I hope that’s not what this book does