it's an intro post!
Q1 2026 update:
Some basics:
39, Canadian
Non-binary, presents male (they/them)
Panromantic asexual
Neurodivergent
Into gaming, photography, being in coffee shops, mental health, yoga, writing, food, and other things too!
Into:
Weight gain
Stuffing
Mutual gaining
Feedism generally (as both feeder and feedee)
Soft feedism
Force feeding
Belly play
Tight clothes
Inbox is always open and I would never say no to a little encouragement!
Not into!:
Immobility or death feedism
Vore
Food prices, lol
Hi, I'm Tim! I play games and eat food, and sometimes take pictures and write. Let's be pals.
I have a wildly complicated relationship with my body and am here to meet and hang out with cool folks (like you!) while navigating my own body acceptance and positivity issues. I've been anywhere from 110 pounds to 180; I'm currently neither of those but a bit closer to the lower end. After gaining 50 in a year a while back, I made an effort to lose the weight and keep it off. I'm trying to establish healthier relationships with food and with myself and direct that energy and focus to other, better things.
I want to overcome my many insecurities and body image issues and discover a sense of body freedom that aligns with my love of food. I've always loved softer bodies, mutual gaining, and feedism, but have been working so hard my whole life to be the smallest version of me and I think I'm now realizing how constricting it feels. It's okay that I not do that. I'm here to make some pals in a safe and accepting space where I can fantasize about finally letting myself go.
I love how my body has changed since March 2024 (see above), and I look forward to exploring it as it continues to change. I feel like I have so much more capacity and confidence because all the mental load I was using trying to be the smallest version of myself has been freed up. I couldn't possibly describe how freeing it is to decide to not think about it anymore.
