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SO because i’m an idiot i managed to get logged out of my old blog so i’ve just remade here and reblogged all my old posts (except the bad ones)
I used to by Likemabinogion (or occasionally evgwyd, i alternated between which url i was using)
my art side (used to be @ev-gwyd-art)
Dismantling the Lies of Abusive Parents Masterlist
Resources
Giving you food and clothing is the bare minimum
You don’t owe gratitude for food and clothes you needed as a child
You had the right for basic resources
Parents shaming you for costing money is ironic and stupid
What it means when they say ‘This is MY house’
My house = my rules is blackmail
Children don’t owe absolute obedience for being fed and sheltered
Physical abuse
You are allowed to refuse any touch, not only violence
If they ‘don’t know they’re hurting you’, why do they ignore or punish you when you protest?
Hitting children is irrational and doesn’t work
You cannot ‘provoke’ your parents to abuse you if they’re not abusive
Why do parents actually hit, manipulate and traumatize children
Blatant Lies
Care, nurture and affection do not make you weak
They’re lying when they say it ‘wasn’t that bad’‘
You wouldn’t have grown up spoiled if not for abuse
You got too affected by it’ is a lie
Your parents are not ‘just too emotionally immature’ to understand abuse
‘You’re not living in the real world!’ is nonsense
You’re not worthless, a burden, ungrateful, or stupid, and your parents know that.
Constant undermining of your accomplishments is abuse
Not being allowed to talk about the past is symptom of abuse
Parents who want you to be happy vs look happy
You are not abusive for resisting abuse
When they claim ‘they didn’t mean it’, it’s still abuse
Your parents are responsible for their own actions regardless of how badly they try to shift blame on you
Psychological abuse
Blind Obedience is not required in a healthy upbringing
Disgust is a weapon abusive parents use on their kids
If they say they love you, but walk all over your feelings, they don’t
Parents don’t have the right to enter your room to scream at you
Parents insisting for you to be ‘tough’ are doing it to hide the trauma
Even if a kid acts like ‘they can take it’, it’s still abuse
Pretending abuse is discipline will leave children permanently scarred
It’s inhumane to control and shame children’s reactions to abuse
Why don’t you already know this? vs Teaching you necessary skills
Acting like they’ll change is escape sabotage
Parents are responsible for protecting children from harm
References to how healthy parenting looks like
Not being allowed to be angry with your parents is psychological abuse
If parents want you to act way you did when you were little, they’re dangerous
Threats about how hard your life will be later on, are bad for you
Lack of continuity and ever-changing rules will cause anxiety
Forced obedience will lead you to abusive relationships
Parents acting like you’re a ‘bad’ is a shame tactic to control you
There’s healthy and abusive ways to give children chores
Revisioning the past and insisting you remember it wrong is gaslighting
If your parents make you suicidal, they’re abusive
Parents threatening ‘they could be worse’ is abuse
Always assuming the worst intentions for your actions is wrong
Keeping children hostage in abuse is torture
If this hits home, also read Recognizing Abuse Masterlist
my drunk ass boyfriend has been making all my texts into shitty poetry he has titled this one You he’s bizarre and wonderful
my drunk ass boyfriend has been making all my texts into shitty poetry he has titled this one You he’s bizarre and wonderful
My boyfriend is. to put it delicateley. the big drunj.
imma guess this translates as “shut up your fuck you are the very attractive evan i dont even need to look at the other (thaev?) evan you are THE best one i know and i love you my fucking boyfriend boyfriend evan us (ur? you are?) best evan and I LOVE YOU” but ngl it still doesn’t make sense post-translating.
he’s an absolute chaotic mess and i love him
he’s rather intoxicated...
My boyfriend is. to put it delicateley. the big drunj.
imma guess this translates as “shut up your fuck you are the very attractive evan i dont even need to look at the other (thaev?) evan you are THE best one i know and i love you my fucking boyfriend boyfriend evan us (ur? you are?) best evan and I LOVE YOU” but ngl it still doesn’t make sense post-translating.
he’s an absolute chaotic mess and i love him
one of my biggest regrets is that when i was like 9-10ish everyone at my school was watching Victorious and for some reason all the girls thought it was cool to start talking like Cat. and desperate to fit in, i did as well. for like 2 years. yk. the 2 years where your voice tends to go from Very Squeaky Child to more adolescent-y? welll i spent those years forcing myself to talk from the top of my throat. And now, as a transmasc guy, i very much regretti that spaghetti as i am INCAPABLE of speaking from my chest >:( i fucking have voice dysphoria because of the nickolodeon show Victorious....
So in 2018 i wrote a “book” or a “comic” or whatever you want to call it for my friend and it was stupid and terrible and god-awful and has become a dominating feature of my life ever since. This year I remastered it in full colour over a 10 day period for said friends birthday, and as a result i think everyone needs to see it.
it’s about a murderous snail called Quentin getting revenge on The Evil Wizard Tortoinio Canoino (who bears a striking resemblense to my year 7 science teacher...) Here’s a link if you want to waste 10 minutes of your life reading it :) (which is totally worth it btw)
"if you want a HP shirt/necklace/earrings/whatever, make your own!!" except if you wear it in public, you're still promoting jkr
"if you want to read the books, just get them from your library!" except libraries pay attention to what people take out, and you are still supporting an author if you library their books
"just play the games!" money goes to her for that
"well, just stream the movies!" she gets money for that
"well, you can always only tell your friend group about HP--" your friends are people! you are promoting HP to other people!
JKR is transphobic. She hates trans people. Just the other day she tweeted something transphobic--specifically, transmisogynistic. In the past she's been transphobic to all types of trans people. She's also bigoted in many other ways.
There are better series. There are other series. Stop coming up with ways to keep the books and fandom alive.
Trans lives are more important than harry potter.
boyfriend finally stopped making fun of me for not knowing keanu reeves was neo in the matrix until the credits. Or for knowing that keanu reeves was john wick.
boyfriend has begun mocking me for not knowing hannah montana was miley cyrus
boyfriend now mocks me for not knowing johnny depp was willy Wonka
A repost of a repost but I had to see this so you do too.
new tag game: people who don’t have anime profile pics, if you had to pick one rn what would it be
rb to relieve the back pain of the person u reblogged this from
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ALWAYS REBLOG WHEN YOU SEE SOMETHING LIKE THIS PLEASE; ITS SO MUCH MORE THAN IMPORTANT TO PEOPLE. IT MEANS EVERYTHING TO SOMEBODY AND EVEN THOUGH YOU MIGHT NOT SEE THIS IN THE SAME LIGHT, SOMEONE MIGHT. INFACT YOU REBLOGGING THIS COULD STOP SOMEONE TAKING THEIR LIFE TONIGHT.
I noticed there isn’t one here for Ireland, so
Irish free suicide helpline: 01-116 123
last time i reblogged this, i got this ask:
so please, please reblog. this could actually save a life.
I just emailed my college submission interview tasks to my potential-next-year-teacher and started panicking and spiralling that i’d somehow done a typo and I wouldn’t get into college because of it so i told my boyfriend that i was freaking out and i-
This boy.
Fair, Mat, Trans
was showing my cis friend some top surgery before and afters and this..uh..ensued... :
