Helping Keep the Feedism Community Safe

Hi everyone.  This blog is a means to anonymously call out toxic people in the feederism community!  If you are afraid to post about harassment you have received, send it to me in a DM and I will post on your behalf.  Please read the pinned post.  

[feedismbatman]

please read

Hey everyone, 

Due to recent events in the feedism community, I have made this blog as a way for people to report harassment or callout others anonymously so we know who is dangerous and who to block.  

How it works:  -send me screenshots of the person exhibiting bad behavior or harassment

-I will blur out your username and any other identifying information and post it to this blog 

-reblog those posts to spread awareness of who everyone should stay away from.  

I wish to remain anonymous and I will ensure that those sending me information remain protected.  

I don’t want anyone to feel unsafe, and since doxxing is not technically a crime right now, I wasn’t sure what else there was to do other than take preventative measures.  Please stay safe everyone!  

[feedismbatman]

Can the person who sent me an ask recently about some blogs they find problematic either message me with more information or send a follow up ask? I have seen one of them mentioned before but I'd like to have more information.

[tubbybunnysblog]

OK, serious talk time so there has been a person going around few different blogs including @feedismbatman specifically in reference to me and @jawwtin and other younger feedees. The person has expressed a “concern” about the age gap between him and younger feedist such as myself. I wanted to make it very clear that this human being and other older peeps that I have spoken to have been nothing but respectful, no matter the age and also the person who is doing this is being extremely reductive and infantilizing towards younger adults keyword ADULTS. 18 to 20 year old are adults and have the right to make their own decision not be questioned the notion that younger adults cannot make these decisions is inherently saying they are incapable. To this person, I understand your concern might come from your own past ideals and traumas, but please be respectful. Do not push your ideals onto other people just because you feel a certain way. Just because we are, we don’t know what we are doing and can’t read the signs. There are genuinely very predatory people on this app and in this community who are completely ignored.

I would also like to note that this person has not contacted me as I do not allow anonymous ask but if you have a personal problem, please do feel free to contact me. Just because someone is younger or in a submissive position does not mean that they are not a competent adult every day we make a choice to come on here and share our bodies and that choice should be respected every day we come on here and talk to different people and make friends and there is nothing wrong with that. Please remember to be thank you- bunny

Back to your regularly scheduled programming 🩵

[feedismbatman]

That takes care of that.

I appreciate the concerns that are sent to me, always. I try to practice due diligence by contacting the people involved to ensure that I am getting it right before making a post. I reached out to Bunny because I deduced that they were the one referenced in the ask I got about this situation.

Please continue to be aware of possible dangerous or coercive behavior but also don't hesitate to talk to the people involved. I would hope that no one here would take a good faith concern poorly and I think it's good to have the type of presence that allows for people to ask questions like this to the people with whom they engage in kink. Let's all just talk to each other more, when safe to do so.

Thank you to the anonymous individual who sent me an ask about this because at the end of the day, someone might appear to be positive presence but are still capable of shitty behavior.

Bunny, thank you for talking with me. Stay safe everyone.

[feedismbatman]

Do you think you could warn people about @/bellystuffingcontest for making Ai generated content?

While technically not illegal or anything, I don't think we should promote AI content. Based on what we know about how AI is trained and how it uses actual artwork to generate images, I will not support the use of it.

Maybe this is a polarizing topic, but if you want art, maybe just pay an artist.

[thaenad]

block and report: @stannn2607 posts stolen family photos possibly depicting a minor. @eatin-real-good posts and reblogs stolen photos of this nature.

@feedismbatman

[feedismbatman]

I'm not trying to be mean but there's no convincing me these are real.

Remember, if someone makes an offer that feels too good to be true, it probably is. Be safe.

[tubbybunnysblog]

Scam alert

Hey yall very not real account just popped up go ahead and block report and share, all that jazz

If you know the real creator lemme know so we can get them in the loop 😊

[mutualfattenlover]

@feedismbatman

[feedismbatman]

tfreex kindly pointed out that this is @cecehectori in the replies, just adding here for further visibility.

[feedismbatman]

Hope you're happy whoever reported my old blog, backstabbing lowlife

u good? if you have a problem, feel free to let me know. I won't be responding to these types of asks in the future.

[feedismbatman]

I'm going to share something briefly.

In the age of internet discourse, nuance is lost. I left this blog for a long time because I was afraid of making mistakes or causing accidental harm and having that overshadow the purpose of this blog. I am still very scared of that. It has never and will never be my intention to harm anyone or purposefully spread misinformation.

I am not saying I should not be corrected or informed when I do make a mistake. I appreciate when people do point something out or correct me or point me to further information. That is an important part of learning and moving forward in life, just generally.

I think I wanted to share this because most things in life do have nuance (with exception ofc) and I try to consider most sides of an issue before I make a post about it. I have made mistakes in the past (remember when I accidentally didn't believe it was Mary?) and do my best to ensure that I have all information before I make a post.

I am one person and I am going to make mistakes. I just ask that you give me the benefit of the doubt, as I try to do as well. I don't know if this post will be received well, but I felt it needed said.

[feedismbatman]

Fatboyeats2 is 16 and is a part of that server, btw

As I said, I don't think there's anything wrong with other teenagers having a server solely for them to explore the fetish/kink. The issue would come if there were adults in the server and they were discussing sexual topics.

So that blog is fine, no need to harass them in any way and if they are following you, just block them! Done.

[feedismbatman]

I see nothing wrong with other teens helping each other in my opinion... but anyway, think that blog's been shut down

yes I would agree. I think the issue comes where they're following and/or interacting with blogs that clearly state their age and ask for underage people to not interact.

They can definitely explore together; I don't think I was condemning that.

I also realized I needed to turn on time stamps for asks and when I did, I realized that ask was pretty old.

[feedismbatman]

Not sure if you care but "anonuklurker" is underage and ignores fetish blogs' DNI

He also runs a 13-17 discord server for fetish stuff.

Just kind of sketch

Well, I think its probably important to share because then people can block them.

Always a reminder to please not engage with or follow people in the kink space (or really in any sexual space and even be careful with regular spaces with adults) because

it's not a space for you quite yet

the people you follow could get in big trouble if they unknowingly interact with you

you open yourself to exploitation from bad actors

There's nothing wrong with exploring sexuality but you need to keep yourself safe and also leave the adults to their spaces. It can be frustrating but please understand that the internet is still a dangerous place.

[feedismbatman]

Hello all,

I've been absent from the community and I apologize. I would like to continue spreading awareness about fraud, harassment, and impersonation on this blog, if you'll still allow it.

I know that there are many people who have kept spreading this important information, and I'm grateful.

So with that, here's a clean slate for batman. Please feel free to continue sending me things that you find concerning and I will do my best to share with the community.

[thetumgang]

bro there's so many people now ☠️

[feedismbatman]

tag me or message me and just make sure to request any info be blurred/cut out and I will honor it, or you can cut it out yourself before sending.

[feedismbatman]

Hello all,

I've been absent from the community and I apologize. I would like to continue spreading awareness about fraud, harassment, and impersonation on this blog, if you'll still allow it.

I know that there are many people who have kept spreading this important information, and I'm grateful.

So with that, here's a clean slate for batman. Please feel free to continue sending me things that you find concerning and I will do my best to share with the community.

[anonukfeeder]

ahhhh... the English skills of a text support scammer!!!! Another one for you to block and report! Using @goodgirlgrow 's content

@feedismbatman for exposure as well

[oreocheesecakestan]

Y’all watch out for this guy I don’t know what he’s got going on but he’s def a racist weirdo. Go ahead and block kingdomxkai8877

[feedismbatman]

Pretty sure everyone already knows about this one, but if you don't, go ahead and block.

[feedismbatman]

user plussize1shoutouts seems to be making morphs without consent, and using people’s regular social media posts (ie, people outside the feedism community)

this was sent over 70 days ago and I owe people an apology.

Sorry for being silent on here. Life got in the way of consistently checking this blog. However, I have recommitted myself to this blog and will be checking it at least once per week, like I initially intended.