a cautionary tale

[femalegrandma]

[sailatina3]

Remembering the time a trans dude sent me unsolicited pics of his vagina while I already had lesbian in bio. And these are the same dudes who think its transphobic to tell them they have male privilege.

[femalegrandma]

[tankie-transfeminist]

Reminds me of this post by @corpsehusk-creaturedoll

This is transfeminism!

[girrrlpurrr-deactivated20141026]

[cdigoddess]

[femalegrandma]

[femalegrandma]

[femalegrandma]

You can't be tma (transmisogyny-affected) if you're able to use your natal birth sex to escape transmisogyny whenever someone mistakes you for a trans woman.

Trans women don't have this luxury and transmisogyny against us is systemic and inescapable.

Even for passing trans women who are post-op, there's ways to out us and bureaucratic links to our agab that can be (and are) weaponized against us.

This is why trans men, AFAB nonbinaries and yes, a lot of "intersex" people who claim to be trans women but are biologically and legally TME shouldn't be allowed to dilute and colonize our unique experience of oppression.

There's already words tothay describe what you're going through (regular misogyny, transphobia etc) and you don't need to lie and pretend you share our experience because you want to feel special.

Every word specific to trans women gets either appropriated until it means nothing or demonized and "transmisogyny" is attacked from both sides. Sorry, but we're not gonna let you do this.

[femalegrandma]

[femalegrandma]

[femalegrandma]

[ewaneneollav]

[femalegrandma]

[prairiedeath]

[gwendolyn-of-loxley]

TMEs really will just defend their love of Harry Potter up and down. They act like it's cute, like it's innocent and quirky. Fuck 'em all.

[femalegrandma]

I'm very close to calling myself an estrogenized male with she/her pronouns or something equally ridiculous because I want to escape this insane transmisogynistic prison known as queer/LGBT "community" and wish for my trans sisters to escape as well.

I'm tired of TME parasites invading our spaces, no matter what we do they appropriate and twist our language, dehumanize us, spread transmisogyny, erase our history, try to abolish medical transition and even the very concept of our innate gender.

This keeps repeating like a neverending nightmare no matter what we do.

This is the end.

To my trans female friends, I'm a woman and a trans woman.

To everyone else, I'm just a man (or whatever you want to call me), certainly not "queer" or "LGBT".

[femalegrandma]

Something I noticed a long time ago: if you spend enough time interacting with a transman or theyfab, sooner or later they will let you know that they view trans women as men and are jealous of us for this reason.

This happened to me and a lot of my transfem acquaintances and it seems like a law of nature at this point. Given enough time/familiarity, it will happen.

This is not a new observation, but the reverse isn't true - trans women who view ftms as women and try to emulate tboys do exist, of course, but they're more of an exception than the rule. There's nothing close to this level of transmisogynistic obsession that TME people have.