a cautionary tale

[lichgirlboobs]

these are the people i'm supposed to respect as intellectuals

[villainessbian]

"The real problem is misandry but trans women are men so you should shut up and let me talk" is. certainly something we're gonna hate

[femalegrandma]

It should be self-evident, but "doll" is a transmisogynistic slur.

TME people love it because they can get away with calling trans women crossdressing gay men, while pretending to be woke and supportive.

Similarly, queer TME people often "transition", among other reasons, so they can get away with saying the t-slur and f-slur, even though nobody (including the transphobic government and their straight cis boyfriends) will ever see them as f*****s.

Nobody is sending birthday boys to camps, because they're effectively cis women.

Repressive transmisogynistic governments don't mind the existence of quirky gender-conforming women - in fact, AFAB people "knowing their place" and avoiding HRT is their literal end goal.

[agpgigarapehon]

the more i use this app the more i understand how TMEs view biological sex. they genuinely do think that biological sex is immutable and no matter what a trans woman will be a biological man and a trans man will always be a biological woman. this view is why they think trans women (in their eyes biological men) have privilege over trans men (in their eyes biological women).

in their eyes, seeing trans women as men is not wrong or transphobic, its seen as an unarguable truth. it is simply just "rude" to actually point it out. its like pointing out a womans weight to them - while its true a woman might be larger, it would be rude to point it out

[godly-girlfailure]

is there an infighting problem or are you just tme

[zzzeezeezzz]

Being a trans woman means you arent allowed access to womanhood or the supposed good/positive masculinity often claimed by trans masc folks. This idealized and positive masculinity is one that is supposedly above all negative traits of masculinity and the patriarchy in society that influences it. Trans fems are conversely allowed only access to the negative aspects of masculinity as inherited from patriarchy. We are referred to as being male socialized whenever we do something negative. We are overshadowed in discussions about womanhood and our claims to it are seen as dubious at worst and partial at best. Trans fems are allowed neither womanhood or the idealized manhood that trans mascs are. Instead we are seen as men in disguise waiting to enact our underlying patriarchal socialization. While trans mascs are seen as forging a new masculinity/manhood. One that is both divorced from the patriarchal expressions of masculinity in our society and one that is inherently linked to an experience of "womanhood" and its associated oppressions.

[sailatina3]

Very funny that the people who think bro/dude is not misgendering are the same people who think calling them "whiny" IS misgendering.

[doe-eyed-disaster]

the statement: "a legal theory was proposed in which trans women could be targeted without violating the Constitution because other women and other trans people are excluded from our specific oppression, which suggests that transmisogyny is real and that transmisogyny affected and exempted are meaningful categories for analysis of our material conditions."

the response: "you are sowing divisions in our community by saying this. everyone has to get on board to fix things, which will only happen if you stop bringing this up. you are crazy, paranoid, and confused and the more you talk about your problems, the more we'll blame you for the violence that's done to you."

[transgendervoiceproject]

I’m the satire version of you and even I wouldn’t post something this cartoonishly transmisogynistic

[recoveredcombatsister]

oh were still doing trans infighting? dont you know we have bigger things to worry about than trans men being misogynists? theres bigger fish to fry than policing the misogyny of trans men, you know. The Enemy hates us all equally after all. we should really be ignoring how misogynist trans men are to trans women so we can join together against The Enemy. you know, The Enemy? misogynist trans men arent The Enemy, silly, you should be kissing them instead so we can Join Forces. your oppression by misogynist trans men doesnt matter, because we need to combat The Enemy. shut up about trans men and their misogyny. shut up. why wont you let them be bigoted to you. misogyny against trans women isnt like Real Misogyny. just be a good tranny and shut up and take it. theres more important things than you

[femalegrandma]

Are you doing ok?

To a degree

[femalegrandma]

I may or may not be a woman (whatever that means), but I certainly have mental, psychological and, most importantly, medical needs that are being erased by the so-called queer community.

I'm not transgender, I'm estrogen-gender or HRT-gender, whatever you want to call it.

Our voices are being silenced.

[femalegrandma]

[sailatina3]

Remembering the time a trans dude sent me unsolicited pics of his vagina while I already had lesbian in bio. And these are the same dudes who think its transphobic to tell them they have male privilege.

[femalegrandma]

[tankie-transfeminist]

Reminds me of this post by @corpsehusk-creaturedoll

This is transfeminism!

[girrrlpurrr-deactivated20141026]

[cdigoddess]

[femalegrandma]