Hi, I'm gay and in a relationship with my partner who is well endowed. He is the bottom in our relationship but for the last couple of weeks I've been training to be a bottom as well. I've finally been able to fit him in (girth wise). Now when he is in and tries to push further, I'm getting a dull but intense pain in my lower abdomen that ends as soon as he stops pushing. I can only guess this is because he is long and hitting the 'back wall'. Can I train further to avoid this?
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He’s not actually hitting a back wall as there are none in the anal tract. What you’re feeling is his cock hitting the first bend inside your ass. You’re going to need to get a really long and flexible dildo that isn’t very thick and start working on that first bend inside your ass until it’s loosened up. It’s not a difficult process, but it CAN be a long and tedious process depending on how flexible your sigmoid colon is.
It varies from person to person but after an inch (or sometimes a lot more) the rectum hits a bend/kink that folds the channel over towards the front of the body and to the left hip. It then heads upward to another fold known as the Splenic Flexure where it folds forward again and then slings across the abdomen to the right side of the abdomen. All these folds and bends are there to keep the shit from falling full weight against your asshole/sphincter muscle on it’s way out of your body.
When you see videos/pictures of guys plunging 2 foot (or longer) dildos into their asses, you’re seeing what practice and patience can achieve. When you see huge rosebuds you’re seeing the tract above coming out of their body. The bottom line is, you CAN get past this, but don’t rush it and if it hurts: stop, slow down and work on the angle. You will need to do this with a toy/dildo for a while until the bend inside is wide enough for your partners cock to work it’s way into. He’ll know it too because he’ll feel the head of his cock pushing through the bend inside like a second asshole (almost).
As you can see, you CAN work through all the bends. ;)
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