Hi Lisa, huge fan here. My wife and I have been talking about letting her fuck another guy. The thought of it turns me on and our role-play are hot as fuck! My only worry is whoever she ends up fucking might fuck her better than me and she might want him more than me. I don’t want to screw up our relationship, but at the same time we have had a lot of fun talking about it and role-playing it. I really want to see someone’s cock in her mouth and sliding in and out of her pussy. How does Mr. C handle it it? I guess what I’m asking is maybe your perspective on what goes through your mind and emotions when you are getting royally fucked by someone else. What is going through Mr. C’s mind and what is it that turns him on so much when you’re getting fucked by somebody else. How it makes him feel if they are doing a better job then he does or maybe they have a nicer cock that you like than his. I wouldn’t mind getting Mr. Jay’s perspective or joy’s for that matter if possible. Whatever you are willing to share would be most appreciated. Thank you in advance For answering whatever you can. 
I'm glad to see you role-playing and enjoying it. I'm also glad to see you being honest with yourself and with her. Let's get into some of your specific questions and comments.
First and foremost, you are not the best lover for your wife. Mr. C is not the best lover for me. I'm not the best lover for him either, just like your wife is not the best lover for you. Let me explain before we move on. There will always be someone out there who can scratch the itch a little better, has something that aligns with your kinks, or has attributes that turn you on more than your wife. It's the same for her and me, as well as others. It's going to be different and new. New doesn't equate to better, but it will feel refreshing, especially if they are skilled. You have to get over that. Think about it, if you were allowed to have sex with someone who was equally hot as your wife but had an attribute your wife didn't have, that's going to add a little to that experience, right? It doesn't mean you don't love your wife less, or you'll leave her because of it. Sex is just sex, and it's temporary.
Think about this, you buried deep in your wife while she excitedly replayed the events of what she just did. It's obvious she loved it, yet here she is with you on top of her, buried deep inside her, while she intimately shares the details with you. Even after you cum, she gets you hard again to keep sharing while it blows your mind away. Take a moment to think about how powerful of a message that is. She's not with the other guy sharing this special moment; she is sharing it with you. Yes, he used her like some little slutty fuck toy, but who did she come home to share how she was used by some random guy who couldn't give two shits about her because he got his while, at the same time, not realizing she was getting hers for both you and her in order for you to have this now intimate, but the insatiable replay of events where it's not a fantasy because you can smell him on her, feel him in her, and most importantly, feel the emotions she is sharing with you. After all, she knows she did something for Daddy, and Daddy is really pleased. Think of it in those terms; I think it will help with any insecurities you might have.
Never make her feel guilty for doing it, enjoying it, or suggesting to you to try something he did to her. It doesn't mean you suck as a lover; it means she liked what she did and is giving you the answers to the test on how to increase your ability to please her. I get so tired of hearing guys ask or say, "Where did you learn that?" or "I don't need you to tell me how to eat you or fuck you. I know what I'm doing." It's so idiotic. It's like get over yourself because A) it's not always about me learning something or doing it with someone else, but it might be that in the heat of the moment, I wanted to try something because it seemed like it might be fun, or B) I never said you don't know what you are doing, but I do know what makes me feel good. So, if I mention something like do it this way, or whatever, it just means you have me really hot, and I want it hotter because I know right at that moment what is going to push me over the edge. Quit getting a bruised ego and just do it. I don't get upset if a guy guides me on how to suck his cock. Not everyone wants their balls sucked. Some want them licked instead. Same with how to jerk his cock when helping him cum on my face. If he takes control, I don't get butt hurt over it because he knows best how to maximize his cum shot all over my face. Sorry for the rant; it needed to be said, though. I've had guys almost make me cum, and when I say I'm about to cum, they change what they are doing and go to their power or money move, which destroys whatever momentum I had in cumming. Quick PSA, guys; if a woman says she's about to cum, keep going; don't change what you are doing. I learned that with guys, too. I don't change what I'm doing if they are about to cum. Okay, end of rant and PSA, lol.
I rambled a bit there. Let's get to your other questions. How does Mr. C handle it? We communicate, we both love it, and I never give him a reason to doubt our relationship. How do I do that when I'm being passed around like some Asian whore that everyone rides like the town bicycle? Good question; he is always involved in everything; he always reclaims me when others are done using me; I don't do weekend getaways with anyone, I don't do dinner dates, regular dates, or anything where it appears I'm building a relationship with anyone. I don't stay the night. I am a fuck 'em and leave 'em kind of girl. Some guys get butt hurt over that, but I'm not theirs for them to get butt hurt over. I am there to use them as much as they use me. I might get butt hurt with them, though. 😉😉😉😈😈😈😏😏😏 I belong to Mr. C and go to great lengths to ensure Mr. C never forgets that. Mr. C treats me like his personal porn star. He told me long ago that if I cheated or left him that I was never really his to begin with. There's a lot of truth to that statement. However, there is no way I will ever leave him. I am his and always his no matter how many cocks use me. He once told me there wasn't enough cocks in the world for me to have and I accepted the challenge. I constantly see if that is the case. 😏😏😏😈😈😈
Let's be completely honest here, Mr. C's cock gets hard whenever I am up to my sexy shenanigans. It makes him happy, and I am too eager to make him happy. Even when I get my favorite cocks, I make sure to reassure my husband that he is my number 1, and it goes back to how eager I am to share with him how my favorite cocks, like Dominic, plow me into sensual pleasure beyond whatever words there are to adequately describe it. It only drives Mr. C more crazy, and it challenges him to fuck me better. It's a win-win situation. If Mr. C asks me a question about what he saw or if one of the guys is conversing with me and he can't hear it, I'm very transparent with him. I don't get upset or make light of it. I am straightforward and forthright, so there is no doubt between us. It's why he can read any message he wants on my blog. He doesn't do that unless I ask him to read one, but he is free to do so. He never interferes with what I do on here. That's how I know it works both ways.
What goes through my mind while I'm getting royally fucked is how good the guy is, and I am focused on the here and now with the guy, but always in the back of my mind is Mr. C. What his reaction to it will be like? Can he hear everything on the phone if that's what he's doing and whether or not it is killing him to not pull it out and stroke his cock? How good Mr. C will fuck me later when I tell him how good I got fucked and even more so if the guy really rocked me in ways Mr. C can't or hasn't before. If the guy has a great cock and the one thing I know that brings Mr. C to his knees, I want to fuck the guy again, or I want to fuck the guy again in front of him to show him what a good fucking looks like. Those are some of the things I am thinking about, and sometimes, the guy drives me so crazy that all thoughts are gone from my mind, and I just enjoy the ride.
Both Mr. J and Mr. C think about how the cocks look that I and Joy are about to have. Everything from size, soft, semi-hard, and hard. How Joy and I will approach getting them hard, or whether we will suck first and drain their balls before letting them fuck us. They often get to listen in or participate in one way, shape, or form. Sometimes, they are made to wait, which is a lot more challenging. They are under no circumstances allowed to cum while me and Joy are getting fucked. The only time they are allowed to is if Joy is taking care of Mr. C while I'm getting dick or if I am taking care of Mr. J while Joy is getting fucked. There are a bunch of other scenarios, but the bottom line is this, they almost need us girls to get fucked. It's addicting for all of us and works for all of us. There is a balance to try not to let it dominate our lives. We do a pretty good job, although sometimes it gets out of control.
Mr. J is a switch; he can be both sub and dominant and will play both roles. That adds some different dynamics to his and Joy's relationship, although recently we made Mr. C submit, which was so much fun. He was such a good sport about it. Anyway, depending on the role Mr. J is playing determines how he fucks Joy afterward. Either way, he loves it when Joy is sloshed, as he says, with cum. Mr. J and Mr. C love sharing us and can't get enough of it. Fortunately, Joy and I love being shared as much as we are. I love that we have not succumbed to "normal societal" expectations of what our sex lives should consist of. Ever notice that the people not getting sex are the ones dictating what is right or wrong when it comes to sex, kinks, and fetishes?
Finally, both Joy and I are pleasers. We also love cock. It took me a while to want and enjoy it as much as Joy although, she is still "extra" when it cums to that, lol. Anyway, we both are very hypersexual and probably have a sexual addiction because our needs are never met. It seems we can never get enough. Fortunately, we have husbands who have no issue with that.
I hope I at least answered your questions. I'm sorry I rambled a bit. As long as you and your wife communicate, establish ground rules, and treat each other with respect, if something comes up, then you should be fine. Do not make her feel guilty if you give the okay for her to fuck other men. If she isn't okay with you fucking other women, but you still want her to fuck other guys, then DO NOT ever throw that in her face or use that as leverage to fuck other women. You will destroy your marriage. You can't decide later if it's not fair. If you agree to something, then that's it. If later she decides she wants you to fuck other women, pay attention to the "Why." Because if she is doing it out of guilt or feeling obligated to let you do it, don't. It will only cause problems later. I promise you that. Use her, take out your sexual frustration and gratification on her when she gets fucked good by someone else, and don't mess it up with an opportunity to fuck another woman when you know she's not 100% okay with it. That's the best advice I can give you on this. Please don't hesitate to ask for more advice or clarification. I am happy to do so! 🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘
