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Things not to say to someone ttc

1. Just relax 2. Calm down 3. It’ll happen when it’s meant to be 4. Be patient 5. I know how you feel (when you’ve never experience fertility issues, fertility Meds, schedules, etc.) 6. Pray about it 7. Why are you trying artificially when you can try naturally? 8. What you’re doing is a sin 9. Why would you want to be a single mother?! 10. Stop acting so crazy/emotional/etc. 11. Getting pregnant is easy 12. Why aren’t you pregnant yet?

Just fucking don’t say them.

I’m back!

Hello my dears. I’m sorry for my absence.

As you all know, in February I found out I was pregnant.

At the end of February I had a miscarriage and had a terrible experience at the hospital with said miscarriage. I’ve been grieving and healing since then. But I’m back now!

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Are you still on tumblr?

I am. I took a break for a while!

How is the therapist who had cancer? I saw that you planned on keeping in touch, do you still talk to them?

Hi anon. As far as I know she’s doing well!

After years of trying, I finally got my positive test! I am so so happy!

#bfp #pregnant

Read if you’re tired of diet talk

The New Year is here and many people are pledging to honor themselves in 2019. I’m all for some self love, but what I hear time and time again has nothing to do with self love, and in fact has much more to deal with body shaming. Diet culture is no doubt a very real component of our society. And every January many of us must suffer through other people proclaiming their love for a specific fad diet that works (swear it), only to fall off the diet wagon in a few weeks. If you’re like me, you probably hate hearing about diets, weight loss and anything surrounding body shaming and diet culture.

For me, it’s because I have an eating disorder. I’m not ashamed to admit that and I’m certainly not ashamed to admit that when I hear you bragging about how much weight you’ve lost (rather unhealthily I might add) it triggers me to want to use disordered eating behaviors. Spare me your line about how eating disorders are a choice. They aren’t, they’re mental illnesses. Also spare me the line you use about how I don’t look like someone who has an eating disorder. You can’t tell by looking at someone whether they have an eating disorder or not. All bodies are different and that is completely OK.

Talking about your diet actually makes people feel bad about their bodies. Now, this may not be your intent, but I bet that someone feels bad about their body when overhearing your diet talk. Why? Because you’re basically shaming your body. You’re saying that your body is too big, too much or too whatever to withstand being in this world. This is body shaming at its finest. The person that hears you body shaming may feel like they need to measure up to YOU and your standards. Be kind to yourself and to others and remember that your body is magnificent vessel designed to carry you and take up space so that you can fill the world with light.

Diet talk is uncomfortable. Look, I get it. Maybe you want to eat healthier or need to lose a little weight for health reasons. If this is true for you, remember that talking about diets and body sizes in front of groups of people is uncomfortable at best. You are responsible for what you say and do, and that includes the way you talk about yourself and other people. Also, remember that even if you want to lose weight and eat healthier, your body isn’t wrong the way it is now. It’s absolutely still a beautiful vessel. And if you’re losing weight to become happier, let me tell you, that’s not going to happen. Happiness doesn’t come from weight or body size. Happiness lies in the type of person you are, in the joys you have in the world, in the passions that fuel you.

Let’s get something straight right now, diet talk is freaking boring. Not only does it make other uncomfortable and feel out of sorts, but it's literally the same old lines over and over again. Why do you want to talk about the same stuff over and over? There are so many other things we could talk about besides body size, weight and diets. Tell me about your dreams, your goals, your passions! What makes you get up in the morning (I’m guessing it's not your diet)!

If you’re one of the people who wants to honor themselves in the new year, start with eliminating diet talk, body shaming and weight stigma. Find out what makes you feel alive and honor yourself that way. Do something that honors your body and shares your light, because you are not a number on a scale, you are a human being with purpose and passion.

#stop weight stigma #ed recovery #diet talk #tired of the bullshit

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2) and he asked to pick me up, (I had sent him some pictures too while at the party- just a tease) and told him I was super drunk, he said it was fine and told me hed pick me up, he did, and we fucked at his house and in his truck. I know I have a sex addiction anyway and not v high self worth, but today, I couldnt stop thinking about it and feeling so worthless about it, how do I combat that with normal thinking again? How do I deny him next time he asks knowing Ill want to say yes in themoment

Honestly I would suggest talking it over with a therapist and exploring why you have this sex addiction and where the lack of self worth comes from.

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Dear Universe

I now open my arms wide to accept abundance in my life.

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I am enough. Who I am is enough. What I do is enough, and what I have is enough.

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Reblog if its ok to message you during this holiday season incase Im feeling lonely or out of place during family events because no one should be alone on Christmas

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