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/SC/18/pansexual/im really not cool but sure whatever\

[finnleybug]

Hiya! in regards to can you have ASD an empathy you can in fact have both! I'm autistic and contrary to the stereotype i struggle with hyper empathy, to such a point that as a child learning about the Holocaust distressed me so much i was sick and would cry over my textbooks and as i wrote my essays!

Yet despite high empathy levels i am still 100% autistic. Don't let your therapists misguided ideas of what you 'have' to have in order to be autistic invalidate your autism. Most therapists aren't trained in autism and the varied ways it presents so they are doing little more then echoing societies (and their own) stereotypes.

thank you for that tidbit of inrfomation. Im now going to have the issue of getting him to actually have me tested. I tried to tell my dad that there are many differences in the ASD that no single person is the same and he says thats not true. but i appreciate you!

[finnleybug]

ASKS

im bored ask me things anything ill answer

[finnleybug]

can you be empathetic and still have ASD? Im curious my therapist was like no you show empathy so you dont have autism and im like but do you see me, man i cant show him how i am. I mask in public and let go when i leave. Just answer the question tho sorry i went ranting..

[finnleybug]

Friends anyone?

Okay i want some friends my age and im really scared to make friends but ig here is a bit about me. Name: LJ or Bean

Age: 16 1/2 (friends 15-17)

Im lesbian and my pronouns are she/her but anything works idc

Likes: Animals but im most passionate in learning and talking about wild animals such as bears and wolves and then some domestic like horses and rabbits. I love vanilla ice cream and choc chip cookie dough ice cream but only from Tony's ice cream shop. I love love love to write poetry and i love to do abstract art. I run a small business with my mom and I enjoy spending time with her. Im a nature geek so anything about nature intrests me but mostly astronomy, i know so much about it. I could walk out in my front yard and tell you all the wildflowers there and see all the trees and identify them and i can identify some constellations and so much more.

Dislikes: Inappropriate things such as well you should know. Uhm people who bad mouth other people. I dont mind have democratic friends but i prefer conservative that way we can talk about our views however i love to learn about other peoples views.

Well i think that about sums it up. Hmu if you wanna chat!

Adios

[finnleybug]

So monday i have to get a test, its for to see if i am on the autism spectrum and im super scared. Im not really sure why tho bc ye i am 16 soon to be 17 but ig im afraid people will see me differently.

[finnleybug]

i dunno how to feel

this makes me nervous bc i act what is considered normal ahhh

[finnleybug]

TDOV

To all my trans fam,

You are loved and dont let anyone ever tell you differently

You have a place in this world, you belong

Happy trans day of visibility!!

Sending love to all XOXO

[walkingbomb]

reminder to:

straighten your back

go pee goddAMN IT STOP HOLDING IT

go take your meds if you need to

drink some water

go get a snack if you havent eaten in a while

maybe wander around the house/stretch a little if you’ve been sat at the computer a while (artists especially: sTRETCH THOSE WRISTS)

reply to that text/message from earlier you’d forgotten about

maybe send a nice lil message to someone having a bad day?

[mouthfullofsxnd]

I just would like to thank everyone who ever reblogs this so that it somehow ends up back on my dash because I usually need the reminder (especially the drinking water one)

[tol-critter]

A reminder.

[finnleybug]

Me needing all of these especially take the meds and drink water

Stay safe and healthy folks sending much love from me and the farm! <3

[finnleybug]

Day in the life on the farm

It is day 21 of incubation, we started on 3/09/2021 and today 3/30/2021 we have gotten 3 chicks hatched. Im so excited to see our farm grow.

we have:

Rabbit/6

Polaris: Lionhead lop

Snow: Lionhead lop REW

Peaches: Flemish dutch mix

Ireland: Mini Black otter rex

Winter: Pedigreed Holland lop

Quinn: Lionhead Lop angora (soon to be a mommy)

Chickens: Roos/ Towanda, Cucco, Duck /Hens/ Jim, Tanna, Flower, Nugget, Dixie, Olive, Betty, Rue, Estelle, Bea, Sunny, Cher, Flipper

Dogs: Lucy, Roxie (Pit bull Golden retriever mix) (sisters December 21 2017)

Cat: Oreo (older than dirt)

Join me on the adventures!! Stay tuned for more info!!!

[finnleybug]

Help help im being repressed

Im all alone with no one here besiiide meee

Donkey stop singing!!!!

YEH im depressed again woohoo

Much love to my followers though hope yall are safe and well

[finnleybug]

Special interests

Im adhd and wondering if im ASD, the reason being is because i have social issues, i stim, and i have special interests. Chickens, anything chickens, boots and flannel, graphic tees and my main one being SHOES. I have 16 pairs of shoes (2 vans, 3 boots, 2 crocs, narwhal slippers, converse, basketball shoes, hiking boots, dress shoes, 2 sandals)

[heathertrash10-blog]

Reblog if

It’s 104% okay to come to your DM and just say, “Hi, can we be friends?” And then start asking you random questions.

[n0tn0wbuts0on]

I promise I can have civil conversations!

[finnleybug]

Pwetty Pweease

[finnleybug]

Yo I just wanted to reassure you that a rabbit is not going to die from sitting in the rain. What’s dangerous is fully saturating a rabbit’s fur with water because it could catch hypothermia if it is unable to get dry. Rabbits live outside in places where it rains often, it does not kill them.

its not really safe bc say if they lived somewhere they got cold rain, it could be dangerous. I just dont like the idea of them being in water at all. They do live in outdoor places but they can burrow under to get out of the rain. So you see a rabbit cannot regulate their temperature in the cold weather. So therefore... just dont allow your rabbit to be in water at all PERIOD. -coming from the girl who has 6 rabbits

[missingteeth]

some cute and unique asks

1. have you ever been in love?

2. what are your favourite colours and why?

3. who was the last person you held hands with?

4. what is your zodiac sign?

5. how many times have you read your favourite book?

6. what are your favourite films?

7. what kind of weather do you like?

8. do you prefer sunrises or sunsets?

9. what kind of weather represents who you are as a person?

10. what’s your favourite animal?

11. what is your favourite song right now?

12. what is your favourite song of all time?

13. do you like sunny days or rainy days better?

14. have you ever been heartbroken?

15. what does the perfect kiss feel like?

16. what is your favourite poem?

17. who are you most inspired by?

18. are you spiritual?

19. what is your favourite plant?

20. what is your favourite feeling?

21. what is your favourite word?

22. are you an artist?

23. what is your favourite flower?

24. are you happy?

25. what are you thinking about right now?

26. what emotion do you feel most often?

27. what is your favourite season?

28. are you in a relationship?

29. are you an introvert or extrovert?

30. do you prefer the moon or the stars?

31. what is your favourite scent?

32. where do you feel most at home?

33. what scares you the most?

34. do you believe in soulmates?

35. what is your favourite thing about yourself?

36. what is the nicest compliment you’ve received?

37. who is your favourite music artist?

38. what was your first kiss like?

39. are you a sensitive person?

40. when was the last time you cried?

41. do you believe that love can last forever?

42. what do you think happens to us when we die?

43. have you ever broken someone’s heart?

44. what do you think about when you can’t fall asleep at night?

45. do you believe in aliens?

46. what is the nicest thing anyone’s ever done for you?

47. do you find it hard to trust?

48. are you secretive?

49. what colour are your eyes?

50. do you have a nickname?

[278vibes]

???

[suspicioushowell]

Sure, I mean I had a pretty horrible day

[rainethereaper]

I love doing these. ❤️

[childof-olympus]

Ask me? I love answering these things!

[finnleybug]

FEEL FREE TO ASK <3 <3

[finnleybug]

Anyone?

[finnleybug]

Im kinda learning Tagalog so if i fucked up lemme know <3 <3

Kamusta sa lahat at maligayang mga araw ng mga pangulo! Gusto ko ring magbigay ng isang baluktot na masayang araw ng valentines din. Sana ay nasisiyahan kayo sa buhay. Manatiling marumi <3 <3

[finnleybug]

Year of niu

Xinnian Kuaile! Being born in America i have always wanted to explore new cultures. This day I get to celebrate my second known culture. Even though have ZERO Chinese in me, my god mother, father, brother, and sister have taught me what I call my other half. I love love love Chinese (Lunar new year) This year is the year of the ox or in Chinese "niu" and the Xinnian Kuaile means Happy new year. So today you learn something new. No go on search up some traditions and enjoy yourselves today :) GOODBYE MY LOVELIES HAVE A GREAT DAY AND HAPPY NEW YEAR AND VALENTINES DAY FROM YOURS TRULY<3

LJ 02122021