FIRST UNICORN

F.L.A.B.B.E.R.G.A.S.T.E.D

[firstbunicorn]

mentally i’m here

[firstbunicorn]

I'M GONNA FCKN MAKE IT

BELIEVE ME

YOU GONNA SEE ME AMONGST THE GREATEST

THAT'S MY DESTINY

THE ROAD MAY BE BUMPY

I'LL GET THERE

STRONGER THAN EVER

SUMMONING THE STRENGTH OF ALL MY ANCESTORS

REACHING THE HIGHEST PLACES

PROVING MY SELF DOUBT AND MY INSECURITY WRONG

FULFILLING THE EXPECTATION'S OF WHOM BELIEVE ME THE MOST

THINGS GONNA WORKOUT IN THE END

AND THAT'S A NEAR FUTURE

STARTING FROM NOTHING REACHING BEYOND THE STARS

[firstbunicorn]

what about me?????

what about me and you together

something that could really last for ever

[firstbunicorn]

not even gonna discourse about today's events

just that i still a fucking fool after 6 years

SIX FUCKIN YEARS !!!!!!!

[firstbunicorn]

never thought i'd go through all this

seeing her suffer is excruciating already

yet just even thinking about losing her

that's something i can not bear

i'm not able to put in words how that makes me feel

dealing with the lost of a parent is something almost inevitable

i'll never be ready

nonetheless now and under these circumstances

i honestly don't know if i could handle

the cogitation is noxious

makes me nauseous

as if i wanted to puke my heart out

[arowitharrows]

The single/taken binary is just so limited, I wish there were a term that conveyed "not in a relationship" as easily as single does and "not available for a relationship" as easily as taken does.

[mordcore]

"unavailable"?

[arowitharrows]

I mean yeah, that could work, and there are many other terms that could fit in theory. But in my experience any answer that doesn't fit the single/taken binary is immediately questioned, challenged, or dismissed.

[mordcore]

oh okay. in that case it might be helpful to refuse to explain or be defensive and just say "no" (i love saying yes or no to or questions. because it can be correct (mathematically) but not socially expected)

"are you single or taken?" "no <3"

[arowitharrows]

Oh you're right, no is a good answer when given both options. I'll try that next time ^^

[disasterdemi]

Actually wait hang on

So we've currently got:

And as a polyam aro I feel like we definitely need words for the other two boxes 😭

[disasterdemi]

Maybe this though

[arowitharrows]

I was wondering how polyam people feel about the single/taken binary, I'm sensing some more aro polyam solidarity here!

[araccoonthatlikesmurder]

What if

[louve-garoue]

What if :

[theallart]

Andy Warhol, “Hammer and Sickle with Vibrator”, 1975

[ginger-ale-official]

C

[ginger-ale-official]

Cummunism

[animatedtext]

[anxietyproblem]

[firstbunicorn]

its weird how its all rushing back

thought was completely over what the fuck it was

so many layers to unravel

confusing and confounding

was never able to really wrap myself around this

[dor3-deactivated20220605]

soup brain

[firstbunicorn]

. literally me .

[dor3-deactivated20220605]

[onlytwitterpics]

[abeerahk]

[s-gellar]

[vikingfighter-deactivated201909]

When someone uses an abbreviation and I have to look it up

[reginasphalanges]

its the end of an era