TADC just gives me more affirmative proof that people cannot protect abuse victims despite how simple it really is. Don't be friends with an abuser, don't downplay anything, don't side along with them in case they have "a point" or to see "their story". It's always about their story and their point but never the direct effects that had. Never the victims. Always about Jax abstracting and how to save him, never gangle or ragatha abstracting (because I'm very sure the narrative wouldn't save them anyway. I mean it always felt a bit backhanded anytime gangle or ragatha was on the verge of abstracting, helping them feels more "Oh my God just get over yourself" than "hey are you okay? 🥺")