Little Mx "I Don't Have A Favourite"

18+ | aroace | most evil person you know

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Bamboo Hatted Kim looks like he fumbled some baddies

it’s still funny that the Mf that looked tuff as hell and aura farmed while distorting was some awkward looking dude with that stupid project moon smile

He looks like that because he is fumbling baddies, and the reason for that is he keeps going after lesbian baddies. Like I can't blame him for it but dude,,,,,,,

but yeah! I like how it bamboozled everyone sdkjgnsdg his smile is Yi Sang levels of stupid I think we should blow them up

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Can I get a big Mac, a large boke, a 6 piece bhicken nugget, and 3 bhocolate bhip bookies

what the fuck is wrong with you

why is this the first thing you tell me in the morning

what happened to saying good morning, hi, how are you???

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How are you doing today Velvet?

I truly hope today is a good day for you for me, you, and everyone else.

And what about tomorrow? Well..

I'll see you tomorrow.

- 🪼 / Patron Librarian of Social Sciences

(// "Tomorrow" and "Goodbye" is a fragile word for me, I fear Genshin and Hsr had its hands on my life no matter how many times I leave)

I'm fiiiine. How did the patron librarian of social sciences find me though,,,

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if u listen to music, what are your fav songs for the summer-y vibes? any reccs?

uhhh sorry to disappoint you but I'm a big doomed yuri lover so all I've been listening to is signaling by anythingbecomesmoe (and yararara. and mis-take)

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heartbreaking. devastating. i'm joking but i get it </33 you don't have to if you don't feel like it, just the knowledge that out there there is someone who understands vil enough to not mischaracterize him even when he's in the role of a yandere is good enough ahem ahem even if i may not be able to read it for myself (i would love to read your writing though, based on what your friend has written :eyes:) -vil anon

I'd actually love to write for twst but it's just ehhh... any time I watch the twst anime I do want to write for it because I miss my chud villainlings </3 but that feelings doesn't linger

I do want to post Vil stuff here at least

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I JUST READ YOUR ENTIRE RANT OH MY GOD i agree i so very much agree!!!! by textbook definition a yandere would be someone mentally/emotionally unstable (thus, the yan- suffix!!) people are so addicted to writing yanderes as soft for some sort of 'moral high ground' because they only want the "positive" sides of a yandere and not the "negative" side, which is? dumb?? like: wow.. does it make you feel good to strip the most important traits from a specific trope just to make it digestible for you? is the thought of a yandere too disturbing, so you had to erase the parts people deem 'immoral' or 'unjustifiable' from them? at that point, i think they shouldn't be writing for them because that's disrespectful to the concept of yanderes!! people only ever "explore abuse" when it involves things that can be romanticized which really!! makes!! my brain!! itch!!! badly!!!!?? if you can't write yanderes in their full entirety, don't bother trying to. removing core parts of the concept and adding "oh, it's a softer version so yaaah!!" is plain stupid </33 uuuee.. people often love putting down works where the writers don't actively try to romanticize abuse bcs then it's 'problematic media'. they allow 'specific' forms of it as long as they can excuse it to be romantic and cute, when abuse shouldn't be written in such a light. it should be shown completely, without removing certain elements just to make it seem 'great' or to cater to an audience that can't handle it. as a victim myself, it just feels so disrespectful when they write 'soft yanderes' or they try to make their disgusting acts sound and feel romantic, when it shouldn't be at all. okay that was kind of derailed a little itty bitty bit but hi could i mayhaps... have your friend's vil fics.... blinks cutely -vil anon

Yeah, yeah exactly!!! I'm so glad someone else gets the problem jksdgjskjdgsdg

only thing I have to say is that while yanderes did start out as a mentally/emotionally unstable thing, it's very important to know that someone doesn't have to be mentally/emotionally unstable to behave the way yanderes do.

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Jia Qiu Relationship Headcanons

- Well. First off, he is just a  gentle giant. I definitely think it takes him a long time to fall in love, and he would have to trust / know you a lot. I don't see him just being into casual stuff. So by the time you do get together, you pretty much have already been on the verge of being in one. And then this leads into:

- I've seen a few things on here where he uses old courting methods, like giving you gifts, which I thought was so sweet. I love that. That's so him. I think he would be discreet, especially at first, unless you're  oblivious, but in that case he would also be making the first move I'd imagine, even if it might start subtle. 

- In the same way, I think he also really likes to receive gifts. He's very sentimental and gifts are stuff that would last forever (hopefully) so then he takes super good care of it, no matter what it is. Then I imagine you should be careful gifting him something like clothes and jewelry, especially if its expensive (he would take anything even if you just made it out of twigs anyways) because he would subconsciously use it less out of fear of losing it, or something happening to it. 

- So yes he loves very, very, very deeply, and gets very attached. Like I said though, it just takes a while for him, which is reasonable. He is also nonchalant about it. He just doesn't always express love in conventional ways, but you'll always know he loves you in some way.

- I just don't see him being all over you all the time, especially in public, but I also don't think he cares either. Like yeah he would still hold your hand, and kiss you or something, just not fully making out, and I don't see him initiating it, you'd probably have to hold his hand first most of the time. 

- Random thought: he would get really flushed if you kissed the scar on his face (or anywhere else he definitely has a ton) but that would be so cute. And then he would also kiss you back somewhere, probably your hand, especially if you have a noticeable scar there too.

- Adding on to that if you caught him on a particular night, maybe he would let you trace scars on his back, or arms.

- He would maybe tell you about them if you ask, probably not all, some are so old he probably doesn’t even remember anymore.

- Also, despite his improvement, and leaving behind his resentment, the incident definitely never left him still. Yes, again, he's still pretty calm about it nowadays, and doesn't affect him anywhere near the way it used to, he just lived a rough life for a long time after anyways. Sometimes you will see that more aggressive side of him come out that he has repressed for a while. (Not directed towards you) 

- So sometimes he gets particularly broody too, I’d imagine. It's really rare but it happens. And he has a few other old stress habits that might resurface but  in a milder way. He probably draws circles on his hand or runs his nails (gently not like scratching) down his arm. And it might even take you a while to see that side of him, but given the fact I said he'd have to trust you a lot and know you a while in the first place before getting involved in anything romantic, maybe you will get to see it pretty early on since it won't be like you've only known him for a month before getting serious? He really wouldn't show it to anyone else.  Zilu has probably noticed just because she's got good senses, and Zigong is smart, plus they're around all the time so it's probably just them + you that has seen and noticed it. But even still, they've just not seen it to the same extent as you, not anywhere near.

- Then he probably also gets a little clingier than normal. If that's the right word. I definitely don't think he would want to be alone during it, given the sadness stems from being alone and losing the ones he loved. 

- You being there would just remind him he isn't that alone. I see him getting deeply sad over it, but it passes, and I don't see him getting angry or snappy at people over it. Like I mean he wouldn’t get angry over it, if he does, he wouldn’t take it out on you either, he would just internalize it. But at this point, I think he’s done getting mad over it. Like I said, just not anymore. In the past definitely, but he’s a lot more content with it now, and instead, he just gets sad.

- Like seriously he is not as nonchalant  as he seems. He definitely loves his person incredibly deeply. He doesn't even have to always say it directly. Sometimes he just points out little things that remind him of you, maybe he just saw a particularly pretty cloud, or a flower. He sees the beauty in everything.

- He's pretty busy too. I imagine sometimes if he ever has downtime, maybe he would sketch something or even write a poem, or letter even. I don't see him being crazy for poetry, but if he gets bored and yearns enough then he would make something small.

- On that note as well, I feel like he likes fancy pens a lot, and ink. He also probably likes cute plates? He's old okay. But I feel like he has a really nice collection of writing utensils, mostly pens. 

- He's not really a big talker at all, but he can be. It doesn't matter though, because at least when he talks, it's really meaningful, and he still shows he cares. Like trust me he cares so hard, but he's just like the kind of person who is silent for a while but when he talks it's worth so much anyways. Like Yi Sang. But he is just like that. If you want him to talk more he would, but I don't imagine you asking for that since like I said what he does say makes up for it. But I mean if you asked him to talk about something he likes, he definitely would.

- And then he's also really patient. Maybe to a fault tbh. You could talk for hours about something and he wouldn't tell you to stop. Even while he's working although he would maybe listen/reply less, you could just keep going.

- He's knowledgeable too, and probably yearns for more education so he would be very much willing to learn about what you like. And if he's not busy, or if you ask, then he would tell you about stuff he is interested in, or whatever he's learned that day, whatever he’s working on, something he noticed, something silly that happened, really anything. He would really enjoy talking about his day, especially if you're hanging out in the evening. 

- Since he's busy, then you're probably getting most of your attention in the morning or at night. 1000% he's an early bird, but if you're also getting up early he would get up even EARLIER. 

-  A morning with him would be super nice though. Especially if you both get up early to get extra time in. He's really not rushed with anything he does. I already said he's incredibly patient, and probably enjoys doing things slowly and carefully. You can do his hair in the morning, and maybe he would do yours if he could,  he just has so, so, so much hair. It would be so fun to swim in. If you asked him to do yours in some way, he would definitely learn. I’m sure he can do a few things to himself, or from being around his younger siblings, but if it's something he can't do, or you like it done a specific way, then he would let you show him for sure. 

- In the same way, I think if you had a long day or something, and you asked him, he would give you a bath. Who wants to take a bath when they're in a bad mood? No One.  But mostly he would just wash your hair for you. He just likes to take care of you a lot, especially if you're having a rough day.

-  Idk what breakfast he would eat. I definitely think he can cook too, and would have no issue with doing it, but he's not really.. amazing at it? Sometimes it turns out really good, and sometimes it doesn't. And he drinks tea of course, not really a coffee person. If he wants caffeine/energy he drinks caffeinated tea. But in general, I just think he enjoys herbal, floral, fruity flavored stuff like that. Idk. Maybe that is just his breakfast.

- Imagine if you learned how he liked his tea and made it in the morning for him.. so cute (other way around would happen too)

- Adding onto that again to say he's definitely observant, and will learn little stuff about you like that very fast, and keep note of it if he can. Especially for gifts later. 

- For his little habits, he straightens his clothes a lot (I imagine he doesn't like them to be wrinkled or unkempt in general, he cares about his appearance for sure, just nothing like insane, but you know he's a "noble man" so yeah), or fixes his hair a lot if it's in his face (it is). He used to bite his nails a long, long time ago, but he doesn't anymore. 

- I don't really see him being really fidgety either, just mostly small stuff like that, like I said, unless he is stressed, then maybe he'll regress into a milder form of the old habits. Also, if he's reading something and is getting tired, he will slowly tap his hand on something, like the table. 

- I feel like he also has shaky hands for some reason. Just naturally.

- He's really warm, I had to say that, but you have to sleep a foot away from him in the summer. 

- Back to more general affection stuff. So other than gifts, like I said, he's sentimental, so I think he enjoys quality time a lot too when he can get it in, which is indeed normally during mornings and nights, but if you both had a day off then he would almost 100% make sure he could just dedicate it to  doing something with you, doesn't matter what, literally you could sleep together for 24 hours straight) and he would be happy as a clam. He's such a yearner, he just loves you so much. Billions must love ❤️

- And as for physical touch, he doesn't at all mind it. I just don't see him being INCREDIBLY physically affectionate, at least not all the time. If he feels playful or something, or more clingy, then yes, or if he knows you particularly really enjoy it, he would do it more often. Definitely also does it more often as time goes on.

- He is also quite verbally affectionate I'd say, again just more in a non conventional way. He would probably rather write something, and sometimes he just says something so beautiful, and so poetic and romantic that you're just stunned, and he just kind of goes on like nothing happened. Does he know it affected you? Maybe! 

- For more physical affection uhh sorry hes such a fucking chud yearner (¡£sorry) that he just admires every bit of you a lot, so I wouldn't say he really has a specific body part that he likes most, but maybe hands if I had to say. Or face of course! I don't see him as a chronic lip kisser either. Wouldn't it be so cute if he kissed the top of your head or your eyelids. Which he definitely would. Back to hands then, I think he would also kiss the individual fingers and your palm, not just the top of it.

- Now back to night time since I did morning time. Well I keep saying he's the biggest yearner so again, he might be a lot closer to you around that time, especially if he was to come back more tired than usual.

- It’s just nice to unwind with him pretty much anytime. He’s just so calm and chill that I feel like if you had a bad day, his energy would cancel it out (unless you both had a bad day then uhhhh Yore fucked) but again I feel like his "bad days" are usually not so much agitating and infuriating, he just gets a bit more sad and resigned. Now it's not like he never gets pissed off or something, he's just way better at keeping that in and getting over it, and most of his negative feelings would be gone by the time he gets back and sees you.

- He doesn't at all mind showering together either, in fact, he quite enjoys it. It's something nice to do together, either in the afternoon or morning. But like, good luck trying to reach the top of his head if you want to wash his hair.. and he might take up 95% of the tub.. His head probably touches the shower head. 

- Overall, it might not be the most enjoyable experience, but it wouldn't be horrible either, it just depends if you're willing to tolerate it. (He won't be offended if you don't.)

- And back to scar tracing, I definitely think it makes him sleepy. I don't know if he'd fall asleep on the spot or anything, but like he just loves and trusts you so much that he'd nod off while you do it at least. Probably the only thing stopping him is that thing when you fall forward when you get tired, and when it happens it jolts him (and you) awake. Woah!

- And for sleeping together, well first of all, who doesn't want to sleep on top of him? He really doesn't care, he doesn't have like a specific way he likes to cuddle or sleep. I think if you're a cuddler, awesome. If not, that’s fine, especially because I said too, he's so warm that in the summer it might be best not to sleep super close to him anyways! Unless you don't mind waking up sweaty.

- Personally, I do think actually he prefers to sleep next to you (especially if he's in a mood), even though he won't be hurt or offended if you don't want to for whatever reason. He's probably gonna be the one holding you most of the time, but again, if he's sad or frustrated, maybe he would fall asleep on your chest, or you trace his back while laying on your sides, until he falls asleep like that. Or if you played with his hair in some way too, he would fall asleep really fast. I definitely think he enjoys having his hair played with more than he lets on (as if he's not asking you to do it every morning!)

- He does also have a very loud dad snore, so have fun with that. On the bright side, it takes him a long time to actually fall asleep, so most of the time you'll end up asleep before him, and you won't have to listen to it, at least not for very long.

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Bamboo Hatted Kim x Reader (platonic; they see each other as friends)

AN: this man needs more content. Some misinfo may be present

SPOILERS

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Even after you left S Corp. to make deals with other districts in the city, it felt somewhat better than there. In there, it felt suffocating. Especially when Kim was branded before escaping with the help of Im.

Both of them, Kim Lib and Im Gyeong-eop, were the only you can call friends in that district. They were also hoping for change in the district but then again, when has chance benefited everyone except for the elites?

It didn’t take long for you to meet him again. This time, with a group that you don’t recognize but heard about lately.

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“Oh. It’s you, how… have things been, [Name]?” Kim started off with his laid back personality like you remembered but this time, it was lace with guilt.

“…fine. Been going to wings to either renew contacts with S Corp. or make new ones,” you blankly stared at him, it been a long time since you last saw him. The last time you saw him was when he was in that cell; wasn’t able to do anything otherwise you would be killed.

A coward, you told yourself.

“Mentor, who is this?” A woman who seems to be much younger than you came up, clearly on guard.

“A old friend of mine from S Corp., Aeng-du,” Kim introduce yourself to her which is true, you haven’t been in contact after his escape from prison.

“Greetings, young Aeng-du. From the looks of your uniform and Kim’s… you seem to be a colleague of his, correct?”

“Yes.”

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From there on, both of you caught up with each other, making Aeng-du feel less tense than before — after all, you proved that you aren’t a foe, someone who merely wants to catch up lost time with her mentor.

“I should go, Kim. And thanks, for this talk and now I must—“ you were cutted off after noticing something different.

“What did you see?” Kim asked with his body language saying otherwise.

“…Kim. You and your student mention you now work on distortion cases, correct?”

“Yes?”

“…I… have a feelingsomething happened with Im… I don’t know where she went but, she was sent out of the district from what I know. If you do see her, tell her that I said Hi,” and with that, you and Kim went on different paths once more.

You know you will see them again, but on opposite sides. Seeing how relax Kim is, makes you envy him in a way you never thought. But you know that any given moment or slip up will make you face the same fate as he did. This time, without anyone saving you.

Im sorry. For being a coward, Kim…

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can you do general Meursault dating headcanons please i love that french man

i've never written for meursault before but i will give it a shot!

general meursault headcanons

🫧you likely aren't even aware of his feelings for you until he lays them out very plainly. there were, most likely, clues. the slightest of indicators that he was interested. choosing to hang around you even when he didn't have to, looking out for you during missions even when you didn't notice. letting you insert yourself into his daily life, likely giving off the impression that he didn't care about your presence one way or the other when he actually greatly enjoyed you being there

🫧he'd likely only go through with a confession for clarity's sake, as he would prefer to know where the two of you stand and your own feelings on the matter even if he can somewhat infer what they are. it sounds more like a business proposal than an impassioned declaration of his feelings, but that doesn't mean they're not there. he just has a very... subdued manner of expressing himself in that way.

🫧a lot of being with meursault is just picking up on the smallest of his quirks. he isn't the most expressive to OTHERS. you, however, can gain the ability to read him very well once you figure him out. he seeks you out often, watches you closely. you can make out the slightest twitch at the corners of his mouth when you smile at him at the end of a long fight, or the way he leans just a bit closer when he's anticipating a kiss at a time you'd usually give him one.

🫧acts of service type of guy. he shows his love by trying to make your life easier, trying to be of use. he enjoys helping you out wherever he can, be it with chores or during the workday. he'll make your favorite meals or any foods that you just really want to try. and... he's surprisingly fond of gift giving? if you mention wanting something offhandedly, he'll get it for you if it's within the budget. he isn't going to figure it out on his own; you're going to need to tell him that just because you talked about it doesn't mean you actually need it

🫧cuddly. very much so. this man is like a space heater too. he doesn't typically initiate physical affection, but he never seems to have any issue with it when you do. for a while you might think that he's impartial. after all, he seems to just let you do whatever you please. until you notice that he just keeps inching closer to you. and staring. and waiting. and- oh. you forgot to kiss him on the cheek this morning! eventually he'll get comfortable enough to show affection in private, coming up and resting his chin on your shoulder to see what you're up to, or placing a hand on your back or waist

🫧he may not always have the advice you're seeking, but he is a pretty good listener, and you know he'll take whatever you say to heart. he'll usually try to suggest more pragmatic solutions if you ask, rather than anything more geared towards the emotional side, but it shows you that he's taking it seriously even if he's sitting there otherwise silent

meursault is a creature of habit, and you've become a part of his routine. you're, for lack of a better term, his person. where you may find safety and sturdiness in him, he finds reliability and a space to let his guard down within you.

watch canto 10 drop and all of this will be wrong lol. i hope this is a good offering to the meursault fanclub i tried 🙏

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do you write nsfw now? your blog says 18+ and you follow nsfw writers. last i check yuo were a sfw blog so thought might as well check before i send spicy requests

18+ because I am an adult and big into gore. Nsfw would go into a side blog but I'm incapable of writing smut no matter how hard I try so like, sorry to disappoint you broski lol

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Velvet di you like coffee

- 🪼 / The Patron Librarian of Social Science.

???? How did you find me what

I do like coffee when it's sweet and creamy though... I don't drink much but I hope that makes sense

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Going to reply to your ask properly Vil anon but unfortunately my friend's Vil fics are all private and in dms </3

I have their permission to write stuff based off of things we've talked about and they shared with me though!

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soft yanderes as a concept does not make sense to me..... like so you want the salad bowl with no salad? just the bowl?.. what makes up a yandere is their violent tendencies for the lengths they'd go for their darling whom they love vvvv much, so for them to remove an essentially very important trait? that's not even a yandere anymore </3 it's just a partner who's clingy and very in-love w their s/o -vil anon

Yeah! Yeah exactly!!! They're not even yanderes why are we calling them yanderes??? I think being a yandere would show up differently for every character which might make them not have certain traits that comes with being a yandere, but removing the yandere part entirely is something else I swear.

If the yandere isn't throwing a huge fit because I did something wrong or someone else did something wrong when it came to me then I don't want them and don't think they're a real yandere

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Rant about soft yandere I want to hear your thoughts. Esspecially since I’m going to be writing yandere stuff myself. I beg thee rant

Okay listen carefully now, my first exposure to soft yanderes was through Vil twisted wonderland. One of my friends had a really good grasp on his characters and they'd write him as abusive regardless of him being yandere or not. And like, I was so so spoiled by them that when I finally checked the Vil x reader posts on here I got slapped in the face by how ooc they all felt

This was exactly around when I came across a bit of soft yandere Vil posts and they were worse somehow??? Like people at least wrote yandere Vil as being shitty but now with soft yandere Vil they took away that shittiness and made him all nice and kind and the only "yandere" thing about him was him being overprotective now which???? Why are we even calling that a soft yandere be real.

Bonus thing I want to complain about real quick as well but in one of the soft yandere Vil fics I read, it said that Vil would refuse to kiss anyone during a movie and that he'd only ever kiss you and like no??? Wrong??? Vil wouldn't consider that a real kiss so why should he care and normal Vil wouldn't care about you kissing someone for a movie either because it's not a real kiss, but yandere Vil would be seething if you kissed anyone else for a movie while being okay with kissing someone else instead.

I... really need to write for twst and Vil especially bc he's so fun but edkjfdkjf anyway back to my rant about soft yanderes

I think it's one thing if you write a character as a full on yandere first then slowly turn them into a soft yandere as part of the yandere's redemption, but every soft yandere post I've read so far is just people romanticizing yanderes but wanting to come across as morally right by not wanting to make the yandere too bad

In general, over the time I spent online as a writer, I've come to believe that the whole yandere romanticization thing is bullshit made up by losers with lots of followers who want to bully anyone who doesn't write what they want to write. Some of the most horrific and realistic depiction of yanderes that left me anxious were written by people who romanticize yanderes. Not to mention that everyone I've seen who says shit like "don't romanticize yanderes" are either ableist losers who you'll find make out yanderes to be a mental health issue and thus demonize those who are mentally ill, or those who fetishize/romanticize yanderes but want to make themselves look like a good person.

Ever notice how most of the authors saying "I don't condone yanderes/Don't romanticize yanderes" only ever write for male yanderes? You know, the gender that they're attracted to? I'm sorry but the "exploring abuse" excuse doesn't hold up to me when there's plenty of abuse to be explored between familial/platonic relationships but these authors only ever seem interested in exploring domestic violence with male partners specifically. I don't think everyone who does it is doing it because they secretly romanticize yanderes but it sure is suspicious when that's what a majority of yandere x reader authors seem to be doing.

But yeah that's why I hate soft yanderes. They can be done right but most of the time they're a symptom of pretentious people who think they get to dictate what's right and what's wrong to do in fucking fiction of all places. If you have to tell your audience to not romanticize yanderes, chances are that all your readers are kids who are going to be influenced by how you wrote the yanderes anyway because they're kids. As a kid reading those yandere fics I can assure you that I rolled my eyes whenever I saw those "warnings" and they didn't do shit to stop me from romanticizing yanderes back then. Any author who does that is just virtue signalling or saying it just to make themselves feel good about being a ""good"" person without actually taking the steps to be one and it's so skjdmgksdgs

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nouuuu woobifying "evil" characters is like ?!???!?!? it kills them 😭😭 like yea sometimes slight oocness is necessary to come up with something, but to round an abuser's edges (it sounds so apathetic, im sorry, im trying to find a way to describe it with my poor english) so they're able to HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP?!!!! that's a whole different character atp 😭 or an au 😭

Depends on the woobification honestly, sometimes the evil character is turned completely nice to everyone and sometimes the evil character is still mean and abusive to everyone except the reader.

That second one is usually how soft yanderes are handled (and honestly I hate the entire concept of soft yanderes but I digress) and is also the way I'd be going about it

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I see your point on woobifying lol. Part of the reason I woobify Shiomi is because she reminds me of my mother at times. And how she was jealous of me when I was younger and took it out on me. But I really like your writing and part of how you don’t woobify the characters but also don’t make them too dark like some works I’ve read. Keep up the good work

I think having headcanons and treating characters according to those headcanons is fine! I personally make Lordlu switch back and forth being flirty with a loved one vs being particularly exasperated by his loved one, and to be honest I'm not above writing full on fanservice where the character is ooc and gives full special treatment to the reader <- hypocrite9000

The problem is more so like, if someone wants a scenario of their favourite terrible character comforting them then they should mention in their requests ahead of time if the character should be woobified or softer with the reader.

I think every character is flexible enough that you can put them in any scenario and make it work but I am going to try to make them accurate to canon if you don't tell me otherwise