diamond girl

this blog is lowkey abandoned now, follow my personal blog instead @chaoticdisasterfemme

[fobfemme]

Sophie, will you be my one and only?

[fobfemme]

ive come to the realization that every blog about real people on this website is shit. i just want to look at actual content but every blog is either made of 90% nsfw rpf or every other post is about how rpf literally caused wwii. just,, please i am so tired everyone shut the fuck up

[fobfemme]

happy birthday to literally the only man that matters

[fobfemme]

dsm v: most people with excoriation disorder pick at home when nobody is around

me:

[fobfemme]

someone PLEASE talk me out of buying a spirit box 

[fobfemme]

water signs be like. gay

[fobfemme]

pete wentz really wrote the gayest lyrics imaginable and then threw in the words “makeup” or “girl” and thought everyone would buy that it was straight

[fobfemme]

love how i’ve been dissociating for like the last three days straight. this is fine 

[fobfemme]

is there discourse? what happened?

no there’s no real discourse people are just really fucking stupid and don’t know how to use words, but. no there’s not really any new discourse that hasn’t been talked about a million times before

[fobfemme]

hewwo gays i got tagged by @ksaksscaryteeth to make a playlist out of my url and i can’t pass up the opportunity to force people to listen to my music so:

f: Freak Show by Set it Off

o: One Day Robots Will Cry by Cobra Starship

b: Billy & Anne by The Altogether

f: Folkin’ Around by Panic! At the Disco

e: Emelina Right or Wrong by The Altogether

m: Mascara Tears and Vanilla Spice by Fearless Vampire Killers

m: Midnight Thoughts by Set it Off

e: Everyone But You by The Front Bottoms

soo i think most of my friends have already been tagged but i tag @tromborn and @gernnany if y’all feel like doing it and haven’t already been tagged!

[fobfemme]

i really wish that you people were required to take a 10 question quiz and write a five paragraph essay to prove you know what “terf” means before you could make a post using the word

[fobfemme]

It’s only fair that I take you where that’s not true anymore

And when the storm is through, we’ll know what to do

But you can walk in my tracks ‘til we’re home

[fobfemme]

in class today our prof talked about the option of being a traveling surgical technologist and how it pays really well and they’ll give you money for like. Literally Everything including food and housing and plane tickets and all that

and god i spent the next five minutes not listening to her lecture bc i was thinking abt the idea of having a gf/wife that i can travel the country with while she works from home or is self employed or smth so she can come with me to all these places and i’ll make enough money so we can live comfortably and happily and see the world !! god that’s the dream

[fobfemme]

i’m exactly 4 years clean from self harm today thats p cool

[fobfemme]

Silence, Cis.

this ask is so funny to me because i have no idea what it’s in reference to

[bocaburgerchainz]

So brendon has done some shitty things in the past, yeah, but he's done a lot for the lgbtq+ community and a lot of the shit he says is meant to be taken lightheartedly.

if u consider brendon urie coming out as pan enough to cancel out his past misogyny, actual sexual misconduct/assault allegations, and the fact that in the exact same in which he comes out he says that he believes people (especially people of color) being outraged by roseanne barr’s racist tweets the exact same as people being racist and violent towards athletes of color for protesting racially charged violence in the united states by not standing for the national anthem then what i take it to mean when you say he’s done a lot for lgbt people, what you MEAN is, he’s done a lot for white middle-upper class cis same gender attracted people, and other lgbt people who don’t fit that demographic can pretty much get fucked

if your idea of progress being made for lgbt people is white/cis lgbpq people bending over backwards for white cishets at the expense of gays who are considered less palatable so that those cishets will be like “hm i guess not all gay people are bad. but i’m still transphobic and racist and classist etc” then i am not sure we are part of the same lgbt “community”

also the concept that someone saying or doing something which contributes to/perpetuates violent systemic oppression not needing to be considered bad/offensive/gross because the person saying those things “aren’t being serious” is so stupid bro. you cant be a person in a position of privilege saying and doing things which are easily contributing to the oppression/marginalization of people you have privilege over and then be like “oh but it’s just satire” and expect to be absolved. that just means you’re racist/homophobic/transphobic/misogynistic/classist/ableist/etc etc etc AND you don’t understand the concept of satire

[bocaburgerchainz]

also he called ryan ross a dyke and then straight up murdered that bitch which is like objectively not great

[fobfemme]

full offense but when are y’all going to stop making up a million different types of oppression and realize that it’s just misogyny and male entitlement