phantom tooth

[fohlen]

perhaps when i want to scream into the void i come here

[nevver]

[nevver]

Circling the Sun, Clare Woods

[fohlen]

i want more snail mail penpals !!

[fohlen]

song without words, rod mckuen

[fohlen]

i apologize to anyone to had to follow my secret side blog from 2013-2014 when i was in my first serious relationship that was extremely volatile that i blogged about constantly

i don’t think anyone that followed it is active on here anymore but still i am putting my apology out into the universe

i look at who i was then and just feel sad for her

[fohlen]

just hung out with an old friend from middle school and tell me why i am blushing so hard from him saying “i like hanging out with you let’s do this more”

you??? want to be??? FRIENDS?????? with me???

[fohlen]

for the record without context this sounds like he was flirting with me but i can assure you he was not

[fohlen]

i am so embarrassed about being a post hardcore girlie but it’s my truth

[fohlen]

just hung out with an old friend from middle school and tell me why i am blushing so hard from him saying “i like hanging out with you let’s do this more”

you??? want to be??? FRIENDS?????? with me???

[fohlen]

just watched the 2005 pride and prejudice and…wow

[fohlen]

hi

[fohlen]

hope everyone is alive and thriving

[fohlen]

hello is this thing on???

how do you come back after so much time? this is how i guess! 

[thecolorblockcurator]

Marisol Ortega

marisolortega.com

[hundondestiny]

I really hate how “your partner shouldn’t be a psychic” has evolved into “you cannot expect your partner to be intuitive to your needs or wants at all” because that’s… quite frankly ugly and a really good way to make your relationship feel like a chore. 

I pay attention to the things my partners like and Store That™ in my little brainspace until it becomes useful. My bf likes tea. We were cleaning out an office full of stuff yesterday and they had some tea leftover they would’ve thrown out, so I took it home to him. Wow! He didn’t tell me he needed or wanted that, but he appreciated it because it’s something he likes.

Not everything has to be some grand gesture to show your s/o that you’re into them and you’re paying attention to them. I recall someone saying they wrote down things about their S/O and their interests so they could look back and remind themselves since their memory sucked. Things like that matter.

And I think it’s really cruel to tell people, and especially women who this type of shit is always put towards, that they aren’t allowed to want romance or spontaneity because it’s an “unreasonable” expectation. It really isn’t. Healthy communication does not inherently mean constant hand-holding. 

[nevver]

Closeness lines over time, Olivia de Recat

[stolenchapstick]

[nevver]

Waiting for the end of the world, Lorraine Sorlet