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April Fool’s Day is in a few days, and I just wanted to make this clear. This blog is safe, and I can promise you no screamers, nothing emotionally abusive, no fake posts, and nothing to intentionally trigger dissociation. You are safe here.
hey i mean no harm by this but let's not demonize psychotic people in this community, okay?
like, calling nonsharers "delusional", or saying "i'm not delusional i'm just nonsharing" (paraphrasing a meme i see a lot), or saying "if selfshipping makes me delulu than i'm delulu" (again, something i have actually seen).
some of us are delusional. some of us experience hallucinations and delusions and paranoia.
some of us are genuinely 'insane', and throwing people like us under the bus to 'defend the community' isn't going to help anyone at all. it only hurts us.
Hey. this blog is archived but I have more followers on this one than my new one so here I am with another psa to the Selfship Community.
So, real quick, if you post selfship art you got from a comm, regardless of where you got it from, please for the love and respect of the actual artist who drew it for you, don't be ambiguous about the fact you didn't draw it and that you got a comm. Credit the artist openly. Say the artist's url name in your post. Do NOT just use some cutesy emoji with a link back to the artist's page ESPECIALLY if you are posting their art without their watermark attached to it.
Artists deserve recognition for their work and many artists need it to spread their work to supplement their income. Heck. Some artists rely completely on their comm work for their income.
It's really skeevy seeing selfshippers refusing to openly acknowledge that the art they're posting isn't something they drew. I get it's your blog space yadda yadda yadda but when you pay or even just request that someone to draw for you, you don't get to use that defense to justify omitting the fact someone out there that ain't you made that for you.
Also just be soooo for real why wouldn't you be excited and happy to clearly state who the artist is? Why wouldn't you wanna link their blog or their website? Why? Real talk. There ain't no reason not to.
Anyway. Back to my Hermit hole that is my new blog 🖖🏽
Ultra Specific F/o Poll!
My F/o has pink bantu knots
My F/o is a SpongeBob character that isn’t SpongeBob
My F/o can walk through walls
My F/o’s main color in their design is a color they hate
My F/o is the story’s unreliable narrator
My F/o is canonically double jointed
My F/o hates black olives
My F/o lives or has lived in a trailer park
My F/o is in a musical but doesn’t sing
None of these
Multiple of these
Results/Girl what are these questions 😭😭
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black self shippers who ever feel insecure. you are loved. you deserve to be loved. and you will continue to receive love. you deserve to be seen, you deserve to have your voices heard, you will not be erased from this space. every day you share your love, your heart, your creativity, your passion is a blessing. thank you for having so much love to share and continue to do what makes you feel happy.
Hey everyone! I’m still doing polls and self ship content but I may put that on hold for a little bit because I’m about to start up my classes which I’ll need to adjust to and I have a wonderful irl girlfriend that I want to give my attention to as well.
But for now, here’s a poll!
Where would you and your F/o go for a first date?
The aquarium
A carnival
A fancy restaurant
An arcade
A picnic in a beautiful meadow
The beach
To the mall
An art gallery
A charity auction
The ren fair
A cosplay event
You both stay at home
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Pick a place for your F/o to kiss you
Lips
Forehead
Top of head
Neck
Collarbone
Back of hand
Shoulder
Stomach
[Censored]
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Does your F/o prefer cooking, baking, or eating?
Cooking 🥘
Baking 🍪
Eating 🍽️
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Which Steven Universe song reminds you of your F/o, S/i, their relationship, or anything related to your selfship?
Strong in the real way
Stronger than you
What can I do for you
Love like you
Here comes a thought
Do it for her
Escapism
Other friends
Let us adore you
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I feel like I should say since there's been a recent uptick in a lot of communities I'm in/see stuff from a lot of white people pretending to be Asian, but you are not welcome here if you are in anyway stealing from Asian cultures for clout or the aesthetics of it
This includes if you're white and you give your self inserts Asian names, I truly do not care if your f/o is from an anime, you should not be using an Asian name under any circumstances. I hate that whenever I see someone using an Asian name online, I feel like I have to start searching their account to see if they're actually Asian or just a white person who likes the aesthetic of it bcs far too many white people will use Asian names here just bcs it sounds cool, with no regard for the actual cultural meaning behind it. Meanwhile actual Asian people will be mocked for their names, or treated like their names are too hard to learn to pronounce, or discriminated against based on their names
Asian cultures are not a fun little costume for people to dress up with. They aren't just a nice aesthetic, they aren't just a thing you can borrow from bcs you think it sounds cool
How would your F/o describe your physical appearance?
Beautiful
Handsome
Good looking
Stunning
Radiant
Elegant
Jaw dropping
Brilliant
Perfect
Says nothing because they’re too flustered
Says nothing because your looks were too much and they fainted
[Proship Dni]
So I’ve noticed in the reblogs people wishing for other options so here are some others!
Or would your F/o call you one of these?
Cute
Pretty
Adorable
Hot
How would your F/o describe your physical appearance?
Beautiful
Handsome
Good looking
Stunning
Radiant
Elegant
Jaw dropping
Brilliant
Perfect
Says nothing because they’re too flustered
Says nothing because your looks were too much and they fainted
[Proship Dni]
Happy Juneteenth to all African-American selfshippers!!!
Friendly reminder that your beloveds would always always ALWAYS fight for you! They’re proud to call themselves YOUR partner and they refuse to allow someone else to put you down or mess with your life due to their own prejudices. Hand in hand and head held high, they’ll gladly shower you in their affection and spoil you to show how much they care about you and they won’t hold back their love for anyone. They don’t care what other people think! How could they when the most important person in their world is right next to them💜💜
How well can your F/o handle spicy food?
Loves spicy food but can’t handle it
Loves spicy food and can tolerate it
Loves spicy food and takes it very well
Hates spicy food and can’t handle it
Hates spicy food and can tolerate it
Hates spicy food but takes it very well
Has no opinion on spicy food and can’t handle it
Has no opinion on spicy food and can tolerate it
Has no opinion on spicy food but takes it very well
My F/o doesn’t eat
Results/other
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Pride Month Promo!
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🩷Hello! I’m Patty (any pronouns!) and I’m a bisexual, sharing self shipper who’s still figuring things out! 💜 I like fashion, horror, art, video games, and just being silly! 💙 I’m trying to be more social in the self ship community so feel free to say hi or gush to me in my inbox at any time!
🩷💜💙Here are my romantic/queer platonic F/o’s and my hc’s for them!🩷💜💙
Rio Ortiz 🦋(Romantic) - Bisexual
Alice Abernathy ☣️ (Romantic) - Pangender + Bisexual (The urge to make her butch is taking over my brain aaa)
Sado 🃏 (Romantic) - Lesbian (gender? Who knows!)
Momo 🦩(Romantic) - Bisexual
Michaela 🌒 (Queer Platonic) - Aroace lesbian
I follow from: @miraclecereal
Here’s my main self shipping blog if anyone is interested! (No pressure!)
Happy Pride Month! Pick an affirmation you may need in these trying times 💕
Your F/o will still love you even if your gender/sexuality changes
Your F/o respects your identity even if they don’t completely understand it
Your F/o knows they can confide in you about their gender/sexuality
Your F/o would be patient with you even if you are questioning your identity
Your F/o would respect your decision to come out or stay closeted to people
Your F/o wouldn’t tell others about your gender/sexuality unless you were ready
Your F/o will support you if you want to medically transition or don’t want to
Your F/o loves the name you’ve chosen for yourself because you chose it
Your F/o loves you because you are you
Your F/o focuses on who you are now and not who you used to be
Your F/o would never accuse you of faking anything or being attention seeking
Your F/o would apologize if they accidentally used the wrong pronouns or name
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(I feel the need to say that some of these affirmations are for trans people but I am not trans so if any of these are actually hurtful please let me know! + If there’s any affirmations that you guys would want to see on another poll let me know and I can add them to the next poll!)
What is something that would remind your F/o of you?
An orange soda
An overcast sky
A jar of random, mismatched buttons
A bowl of colorful pom-poms
A word search
A lighthouse
A teacup with floral patterns
The smell of a library
The first bite of a juicy peach
The feeling of a hairdryer
Scratch and sniff stickers
Cherry pie
[Proship Dni]