For self shippers with intellectual disabilities:
Your f/o doesn't see you as stupid or incapable. Quite the contrary, actually! Living with you has shown them what a brilliant and amazing being you are, in multiple different ways, some of which you don't even notice yourself.
Your own way of navigating life is incredibly impressive and fascinating to them. You're always helpful and resourceful, even if you don't realize it. Your f/o is always grateful for your input and assistance.
Your f/o knows your potential! You've always been much more clever than yourself, and others, give you credit for, and it doesn't go unnoticed by your f/o. If you're comfortable with it, they'll praise you whenever they can.
You deserve to feel proud of your accomplishments, big or small, and if you can't do it yourself just yet, your f/o will always cheer you on.
Your f/o doesn't think that grades or work defines your worth. Even if you don't get all correct marks or if you feel like you don't do enough in the workplace, your f/o will always remind you of your worth as a person, who they love more than life itself.
Life can be hard on it's own, so you won't be allowed to make yourself feel worse about things that are out of your control. Your f/o knows that you deserve better than to put yourself down all the time.
Your f/o supports your passions and talents. If anyone in your life has ever made you feel like participating in what brings you joy was "a waste of time" your f/o will do anything in their power to get those words out of your mind.
They're your biggest supporter and are always captivated and entranced by everything you show and teach them about! Your skills and knowledge don't go unnoticed or left without praise, they're incredibly proud to be with someone so mesmerizing.
proship/darkship/neutral DNI