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Requests: CLOSED

I have decided that I’ll open flag, label, moodboard and icon requests!

The only rule:

Do not request anything fandom-related! I’m not in any fandom at all so I might do them wrong

What I can do:

Flags(I can do on other templates, these are just my recent ones)

Moodboards

Icons(I draw them myself so it might take some time)

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Heteroflexible

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A term for those who experience attraction to dissimilar genders in any capacity, but but is occasionally attracted to the same or similar gender. This is a flag remake.

Tagging: @radiomogai @secretariatism @angelomour @genderaverse @marcyie @forestcoric-mogai-fox

Pinterest Archive Post

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whoopsie-collective

shoutout to gnc transmascs who "just look like cis girls" and gnc transfems who "just look like cis boys" you are gods strongest soldiers

transfemboygirl

people are very not normal, mean and cruel in fact, towards any transfem who still connect to boyhood/manhood. or towards those who are fine being called a boy/man even while transfem. people act like it's a betrayal or a sad thing. people act like one transfem being fine with it is somehow misgendering all transfems. genders are complex and we should not be gatekeeping what others still do or don't connect with. trans people are allowed to be trans in complex ways, or gnc ways, or out of the typical binary ways. trans people can use whatever terms they want, they don't have to abandon everything they used before they learned other labels fit. people are allowed to still connect to communities and terms they've had for years, even ones that seem contradictory to another

⚠️ Do not use they/them if talking about me to others in reblogs/comments. I have neopronouns in my pinned post ⚠️

alienlike

the "transfeminist" discourse on this website is so like... white trans women need to be more aware of the fact that asians assigned male at birth are often perceived as more feminine than their white counterparts. if you're black, it's the opposite. they speak like everyone starts out the same, but that's just not true. you, as a white person, are far more free to explore femininity/masculinity than people of color are.

alienlike

they also don't seem to understand the ways in which cis women of color are forced to interact with western ideas of gender. the darker your skin is, the more masculine you're often thought of being. i said this the other day, but not all cis women get to enjoy the cliche soft femininity filled with flowers and rainbows. darker-skinned women are not handed femininity on a silver platter. maybe take that into consideration the next time you try to pull some theory out of your ass

syzygyblvd

this. another reason why the TMA/TME binary doesn't work. cis black women are far more likely to be transvestigated, but I'm supposed to believe they're exempt from experiencing transmisogyny? no, that's fucking bullshit. everyone can be affected by transmisogyny, or transandrophobia, or just transphobia period. even perisex cis people.

discoasphodel

this is something i see missed a lot in white transfeminist spaces and that i'm grateful for the chance to hear folks discuss. i think the tma/tme binary also fails to support our two-spirit and transgender native relatives whose genders and gender presentations are violently policed and managed by colonialist gender standards.

and it abandons ALL native people who experience this gender-coercive violence. a cisgender lakota man whose gender is wičháša is cisgender and yet also white colonial violence will be done against him on the basis of his gender expression. he will be policed on his hair and sacred braids, he experiences increased risk of violence and sexual assault, he lives with the effects of trauma and their relatives alcoholism and addiction and suicidality, and ultimately has a far higher likelihood to attempt suicide. or be murdered.

Indigenous people continue to honor the Mniconju actor and call for justice

this is not a hypothetical lakota man. justice for Cole Brings Plenty now, and remember that your campaign to guarantee freedom from medicalized coercive assignment of sex and gender needs to also defend the gender expression of native peoples.

the crisis of MMIW and MMIP directly reflects how limiting and violent white colonial expectations of gender and sex are for First Nations, pueblos originarios, indigenous, native, and American Indian people.

#important

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Various gender terms with no known flags (part 31)

Privagender: A gender personal to you that you’re not so comfortable outside people seeing/acknowledging for whatever reason (besides being closeted or fearing oppressors). this can be anywhere from not wanting to be called x gender to wanting people to ignore that you’re x gender at all.

Usually you have another gender as well that isn’t private, but you don’t need to.

Propegender: Varying between very feminine boy, very masculine girl and/or a gray area in between.

From the word “prope”, which is Latin for ‘near’ or ‘not very far’, as the gender rarely strays too far towards either binary.

Protogender: Feeling like one’s gender is incomplete or in its early stages.

Gendernocturne: A gender that is individual to the user and typically similar to “genderminor” and is closely connected to nighttime.

Gendersonata: A gender that is individual to the user and typically allegro, or could be described as “fast” and “lively”.

Immemorgender: After the latin word “Immemor” which means “To Strum”: A gender which associates itself with the strumming movement of stringed instruments like guitars, banjos, etc.

[Full list of terms are in the google docs if you don’t want to wait for the next posts]

[Link for A-K] and [Link for L-Z] and [Link for text only]

If any of you know if there’s flags for any of these already, please send a link to it so we can add it to the gallery! And if you know who coined it so we can properly credit them (and that includes if it was anonymously posted or the blog deactivated).

genderarryire

Propegender flag Propegender - a gender that describes a state in which one’s gender is varying between very feminine boy, very masculine girl and/or a gray area in between. – Already made? Consider this an alternate flag!

cybergirl-cathy

A letter to my fellow trans sisters – transmisogyny is certainly awful to experience and ruining society as we know it, but the solution is not to project our frustration onto trans men and non-binary folks as if they are somehow causing the problem and not the cisgender dominated patriarchy.

Let's be honest with ourselves, us trans women grew up as teenage boys; not that we were boys but that society saw us as boys. Young men are bombarded with misogynistic propaganda every single day, and nobody is immune to that. If you think you're the exception, you're wrong

Internalized misogyny doesn't just disappear when you start taking estrogen. You have to actively, critically examine the beliefs you take for granted and unlearn the bad ideas society has taught you. But so many of you have assumed, just as TERFs do, "well, I'm a woman now, so I can't possibly be sexist," and then start talking about so-called "TMEs" the way incels talk about women (including us!)

Stop making death and rape threats against trans men (especially children, that's fucking gross)

Stop using misogynistic slurs against trans men and enbies ("transandrocunt", "zipper-tits", "theyfab" etc.). Surely you can see that's no better than when we get called "shemales" and "sissies", right?

Stop pretending that growing up as a girl first has zero lasting impact on a trans man's psyche, especially if the man in question grew up in the global south or underprivileged rural areas

Stop pretending that trans men being ignored and invisible is privilege and not erasure (we've already had this discussion years ago with bisexuals having "straight-passing privilege")

Stop all of that. You're making online trans and queer spaces worse for everyone, yourself included. Transfeminism and anti-transandrophobia aren't opposites. They go hand-in-hand! In fact, they're the exact same thing. You're never going to break the gender binary down if you keep acting like being a trans woman is more valid than other genders

Trans women, stand up for your brothers and enby siblings instead of beating them down, especially in this day and age when governments around the world want to fucking murder and detransition all of us. When they speak, say it louder!

If you're already doing that, I love you and you need to keep doing it until we make the world a better place for all trans folks <3

United we stand, divided we fall

ur-fav-stranger

also to be clear: everyone of all genders is subject to misogynistic/transphobic/etc that gets internalized to varying degrees! its just that if youve spent time as a "boy" (prolly especially in developmental years) you get extra turbo blasted by it. unfortunately simply being a woman and transitioning doesnt immediately make you feminist (see: every cis woman whos still crazy misogynistic) and thinking that youre enlightened just being being any particular gender is a trap. everyone needs to examine their own biases and that includes women, cis or trans! lets all be (trans)feminist together <3