How to stop being a loser and actually get your shit together (HONEST AND NO BULLSHIT)
1. Be HONEST with yourself.
Cut out the bullshit, stop the lies and excuses for whatever reason you had to stop/postpone your original plan. You made the plan FOR A REASON.
Quit bitching like a loser and PULL THROUGH.
Always finding excuses on why you "couldn't" proceed with something YOU WANTED is foul behaviour, at this point always finding excuses should be your full-time hobby.
If it is not a sin, why do you feel so guilty/bad about it? Why do you feel shame and no desire to do anything afterwards? Everytime you fuck up your plan because you "weren't feeling ready :(" you basically say NO to your happiness, it's an endless loop, you deny yourself and then you feel like shit about it, ofcourse you have no sense of motivation if you're constantly proving yourself how much of a loser you truly are, get your act together for fucks sake.
Do you want to do this forever? The same plans and goals that you could've reached MONTHS and even YEARS ago??
Is being a lazy bum more important than actually getting shit done and getting rewards from it??
2. Get goals.
Don't be aimless, find goals and actually achieve them. It's not hard setting goals and pulling through, key is to put in the ACTION, ideas are useless if they aren't even manifested into reality, YOU ARE THE ONE that has to actually put in the effort, it won't just fly to you if you're lazing at home all day doing NOTHING, yes NOTHING. Is sitting and watching TV a hobby? Is being on your phone all day a hobby? Be real with yourself.
3. Clean out your space
Don't neglect your hygiene and most importantly CLEAN YOUR ROOM. A clean space is the foundation of a good start to getting your shit together, don't be nasty and have piles of shit in your room, don't give me any bullshit excuses for behaviour like that.
4. Learn to say "no"
Let people be disappointed with you, let people be angry at you for not acting like a constant doormat for them, the more you practice this, the less you will give a shit about it, why the hell should it be your problem? It isn't and will never be. In life, many people will dislike you, even HATE YOU for no fucking reason. Should you feel bad about it? Fuck no, why should you care?
5. Stop being such a pussy
"Oh they're gonna think this and that.." -..and??
"Oh but I'm not good at this.."-.. AND??
100% of the shit that you BELIEVE in is bullshit. Stop living in your head and just DO. You'll survive it so stop acting like the world is gonna crash and burn down if you aren't "perfect" for one second, and for the record, that SHIT doesn't even fucking exist. start NOW do NOW. Time is running and all you're doing is wasting your time and youth, you think you'll have more energy and motivation when you'll be 50?? You think you'd be proud because you spent 99% of your life doing absolutely NOTHING?? And being scared of EVERYTHING?? What's TRULY the worst thing that could happen and ask yourself if you're actually being honest with yourself. And quit downplaying yourself, you don't look "humble", you look real dumb.
6. Don't be a loser
Take risks for fucks sake, get rejected, go OUT. Try new things, join certain clubs, let yourself experience life. Without risks you won't have ANY cool stories, imagine always just staying in the same old space as you currently are. You'll have no progress, no growth, no ACTUAL experience in life, nothing. When you'll be in your death bed you'll only be able to say that you wasted your fucking life away staring at your fucking phone.
You were always fucking ready, but your excuses were more important than your overall potential.