Don’t use money AGAINST your kids either. Don’t EVER tell them money is tight when it’s not, and they KNOW it’s not. That’s another way for them to not trust you or to feel guilty when asking for anything.
Also don’t use money as a guilt tactic for them not doing something or not agreeing with you.
“I buy your food and your clothes and this and that and this is how you repay me?”
They didn't ask to be born, you made the choice to have a child and take care of them as a responsible parent. Don’t throw that guilt on them and make them feel like shit over what they couldn’t control.
I really didn't know what Pisay was back then. I took the NCE without even knowing what it is for. When my parents found out that I passed, they pushed me to it. I was rather nonchalant about it, but when I got to the campus, it was like love at first sight. Trees and plants everywhere, away from the bustling city. Besides, I’ve known Goa since I was a kid (I have relatives around the Partido area). That’s when I decided to agree.
ayoko na mag english lol hindi ko kinaya
Noong first year, nadala ko ata yung elementary habits ko (eager syeah) pero kasama dun yung short temper ko. Medyo loner ako noon at iyakin pa. Grabe pa yung nahahatak na atensyon nung pagkamaliit ko eh hiyang-hiya naman ako. Nevertheless, sa tulong ng batch mates ko at lalong-lalo na ni Kuya CJ (the rest of 2k12 na rin hehe), nalampasan ko naman. Naalala ko yung time na sinabi sa ‘kin na DL ako at di ko man lang alam kung anong ibig sabihi nun haha.
As the years went by, unti-unti akong nag open up sa iba, lalo na sa batch mates ko. I have to admit, hindi ako mahilig makihalubilo sa ibang year levels, pero thankful ako sa older batches for being so kind to me and sa lower batches na may respeto naman. Salamat sa social life hahaha. I treat everyone pretty much equally (kaya medyo loner ini, pero ang advantage naman madaling makahalo kahit kanino).
Salamat sa lahat ng memories! Special shoutouts:
Rai - thank you for always being there for me :) thank you for everything, really.
Marino - salamat sa pakikinig sa rants ko at pagiging karamay bawat umaga (palagi tayong late nagigising!)
Ana - salamat at kahit di tayo naging magkaklase, close pa rin naman tayo haha salamat sa moments lalo na nung stressera ako sa thailand xD
Denise - chixxx salamat sa lahat ng random daldalan lalo na abt photoshop shz at kung anu-ano pa hahaha
Jaina - super responsableng vp. rant mate na rin about UST and UPM hahaha
Joy - salamat talaga sa pagpapasensya sa ‘kin lalo na pag wala akong gana gumawa ng research shz. ate chill, wag ioverstress ang sarili. ;)
Edo - baba brother, kadaldalan ko about gaming. salamat na rin sa pagtanggap ng random hugs ko haha
Ade - salamat sa kahaveyan (?) at sa signature tawa mo haha salamat na rin sa str at LoL moments xD
Peter - kasama ko nung 2nd yr pag breakfast. saka yung pag grab mo sa kin pag by pair ang stuff ngayogg 4th yr haha thanks sa fun moments :))
Edward - mas adik pa sako sa gg. anyway salamat at may kadaldalan ako abt them hahaha
Arroyo JM - salamat sa pang-aasar, really. xD it helped me lengthen my patience. salamat din sa random convos at words of wisdom xD
JC - pasensya ka na kung naiinis ka namin, pero thank you talaga sa pasensya at pakikisama sa kin :)
Bianca - nasnap man ang 8 year streak nating pagiging magkaklase, nadagdagan pa naman ng dalawa haha thank you at naging mas close tayo this high school compared to elementary
Seth & Al - salamat sa pagtuturo sa ‘kin pag ‘di ako nakikinig sa klase o nakakatulog ako XD super patient pa
Dwayt & Master - salamat mga almost destiny (iniwan niyo ako huhu), sa pagdadaldal at pang aasar sa ‘kin pag wala akong magawa hahaha salamat na rin sa pagiyatiyaga sa pagtataray ko XD
Mao, Rico, Lex - palaging game sumayaw haha salamat sa pagsama sakin hahaha
Marose, Diane P, Mae - this trio rly helped me out lalo na nung naging close tayo nung sampa. daldal pa mooore
Rich & Erwin - kadaldalan anytime. salamat sa pagsama sa kin :3
Kalvina, Gwyn, Marianne, Venes, Xyeanne, & Charity aka O6 - salamat sa random daldalan at pagtanggap sa ‘kin pag breakfast. ika nga ni Papa B, O6 + Francis lol jk
Ida & Lyra - mga game rin sumayaw haha salamat
Ian & Papa B - di ko maexplain basta salamat sa daldalan abt random games at kpop hihi
Ivan & Annette - yung panglalait at pagtataray niyo will never be forgotten XD
Pat, Rhea, Diane U - madalas kong kadaldalan noong Eme at Plati days. shz mamimiss kong ang karandoman natin
Bryan, JoEd, Mel, Sarah L - mga kasama kong kabatch pag naga volleyball haha salamat sa pagtiyatiyaga sa mediocre sets ko at pagiging good teammates in and out of the court hihi
Armil, Dexter, Rupert, CJ, Larkin, Ebio, Jethro, Tonette, Mikay, Leanne - 2k18 volleyball peeps. salamat sa vball kada hapon at nagchallenge sa ‘kin para mag improve thanks sa lahat medyo pro naman tayo tingnan pag naglalaro haha (kahit walang proper training)
Marc, Ed, GB, Simon, Ralvina, Jeremy, Joules, Benedict, Rolly - 2k19 & 2k20 volleyball peeps. salamat sa lahat ng games :D
Kuya CJ Landicho - aba syempre haha salamat po sa pag guide sa akin noon lalo na noong hiyang hiya pa ako hahaha
Kuya Lalas - salamat po sa lahat ng kwentuhan, PF moments, and the like. Super appreciated ko po yung pakikinig niyo sa akin para lumuwag ang loob ko
Kuya Akio - thank you po lalo na dun sa recent moments nyo with our batch, i felt like a freshman all over again :))
Lourdes - high school crush man ngaya hihi. di man masyadong nakausap, salamat sa pagiging inspiration lolol at sorry for making you feel awkward
Jairus at Sarah M - ang mga g7 na may lakas ng loob kausapin ako haha
Sir E, Sir Andrew, Sir Bare - ang teachers na inaasar ako pag may kasama akong babae na kaming dalawa lang. haha salamat po sa lahat
Sir Oro - thank you po sa pagtuturo ng arts & drafting, isang subject na gustong-gusto ko talaga. Kung medyo mas magaling lang talaga ako sa arts eh sana nag arki na lang ako xD
Sir Algabre & Ma’am Dheng - soc sci teachers! thank you po sa kaalaman at pag-aalaga :3
Ma’am Obusan - thank you po sa pagpupush sa’min sa research at competitions :D
Sir Narvs - first advisory class niyo man kami, i have to say you did a good job :D
Sir Barrio - two years kong adviser, thank you po sa guidance at daldalan lalo na ‘pag beadle ako xD
Ma’am TR - thank you po lalo na po sa pagtulong sa akin pag ang gulo gulo ng electron haha
Sir Jerry - thank you po for letting me experience being a part of the school paper. awesome english teacher too
napagod ako
Lol andaming special mention, kung pwede lang lahat na eh. Sa lahat ng wala sa lista, thank you pa rin for being part of my pisay life. One way or another, you have contributed to who I am now.
Gusto ko rin magpasalamat sa parents ko na super supportive kahit na medyo mareklamo ako minsan. Salamat po sa pagtiyatiyaga sa akin. At higit sa lahat, kay Lord, for guiding me in every step I take.
biglang balik english
PSHS - BRC has been a witness and a big part of my development, physically and emotionally. I have grown (tumangkad naman ako nang konti ah, di lang tumaba) and matured in the school. Pisay has been a great factor to me, and it has done more than enough to equip me for the next years of my life. Thank you, Pisay. Thank you for the four-year roller coaster ride. Thank you.
reblog and make a wish!
this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)
holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS.
WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????
ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE
Technically, I chose the course my parents wanted me to take, mainly because I didn't know what I wanted. And it's pharmacy, which is totally fine with me. I just knew what I didn't want - engineering and math related courses. We had this agreement that if I qualifiedfor the Intarmed program, I'll definitely enter UPM, otherwise, we would talk if I would enter UPM or UST (assuming that I pass both). I really hope I made it to the Intarmed program so that I wouldn't have to undergo all this drama. I passed pharmacy in both schools, UPM and UST. Of course, I want to enter my dream school (UST) 'cause the course is just the same. I know my wants wouldn't get to me all the time, but this time, I really want this to happen. I've been living my whole elementary and high school life under the pressure of my parents and relatives expecting me to excel in school. And I just want to say that I'm tired of it. Pressure off, please. It's not as if I'm not going to take my studies seriously. I want to take it a little easier. I just don't like reasons such as "Sayang ang talino mo kung hindi ka papasok sa UP," "Between Ateneo, La Salle, at UST, UST ang pangatlo," "'Pag UP, matalino, 'pag ADMU/DLSU/UST, mayaman," and a whole lot more. In reply to the second one - BAKIT?! MAY PHARMACY BA SA ATENEO O LA SALLE?! Let me get this straight - I don't like UPM's environment, due to the fact that it's right by the road and it's so polluted. Ang luma rin ng buildings. I just like UST better due to the better facilities and environment. Plus it's my dream school. It might be strange for you for me to say this, but never kong pinangarap ang UP. My reasons may be shallow for you, but it's my happiness on the line. Ano naman kung nasa good, ay, best pala, according to my aunt, school ako kung napipilitan lang naman ako. Anyway, I just wanted to let my feelings out. Alam ko namang hindi naman palaging masusunod ang mga gusto ko eh. Willing naman ako magsacrifice. Kung hindi kaya, eh di huwag. 'Di na kailangan ng harsh words at snide remarks. Tutal hindi naman ako ang tutustos ng pag-aaral ko. Naiintindihan ko naman. I've cried over this a lot of times already. So please, there's no need to judge my wants. It's as if they would happen, anyway. Matagal-tagal ko na rin gustong bumalik sa isang Catholic school since sabi niyo nag-iba ang ugali ko nang lumipat ako ng school...
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