lonely for only you

[remanence-of-love]

[thoughtkick]

“Good conversation turns me on. A connection between two people, a mental one first.”

— Brian Molko

[acreaturecalledgreed]

the concept and idea of “you can always start trying to be a better person” is extremely important to me both in media and irl and i continue to be deeply deeply disturbed by the trend on this site pushing that these ideas in media are bad writing or even morally reprehensible

because theyd rather someone stay terrible or just straight up die than become a better person 

from a compassionate point of view it’s deeply distressing and from a pragmatic point of view it’s outright frustrating

it’s fucked up. 

[falliblefabrial]

What is the most important step a man can take?

The next.

[inklesspen]

[babblingfishes]

I think part of the pushback about this is the idea that, to “redeem” bad people, their victims must first forgive them for unforgivable acts.

This is false. No one is obligated to forgive you. You can learn from your mistakes and become the best, kindest person on earth, and the people you’ve hurt still won’t forgive you, and you’ll have to accept that. And that doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to grow. Because we aren’t just “pure” or “sinful”, we’re complex.

[eviecahir]

[consecuences]

[consecuences]

[fecir]

[ofsparrows]

[uln]

respect your decision to grow. never go back to people, habits, and situations that made you miserable.

[thehopefulquotes]

“The universe created you for a reason, now go out there and find out what it is.”

— Nikita Gill

[sustancy]

[ignisfatuae]

[thereadmind]

[ijaazat]

january 2025 ; 1 2 3 4 my pinterest

[pure-light-and-love]

eye contact is sooo attractive.

[paolo-streito-1264]

Philip Trager. Broadway at 46th Street, New York, 1970s.

[butterflycharms]