“eating out my boyfriend” and “sucking my girlfriend’s dick” are two extremely powerful and blessed sentences
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“eating out my boyfriend” and “sucking my girlfriend’s dick” are two extremely powerful and blessed sentences
sub: dom me, tell me what to do me: brush your teeth me: eat well me: go to bed me: treat yourself with love and respect
jokes on you that’s what i look for in a dom
stone femmes—
I really hope that someone has told you that you don’t have to be perfect to be perfect. There is so little out there about stone (also known as high) femmes, and the community is much sparser and harder to find, and since it is often on the Internet it’s got that awful glow and perfect spin that we put on all our identities to make them seem a little more perfect and smooth, a little more romanticized and clean than real life. Don’t get me wrong, I can’t possibly over-romanticize the dynamic with a high femme. What worries me is that everything I’ve found out there about stone femmes make it seem so easy to be a high femme, and I hate watching the women I love struggle with problems they feel they shouldn’t have. Four points I think are the most glossed over with high femmes, and that I’ve seen distress my past girlfriends and current wife the most: •You don’t have to instinctually know your butch’s boundaries and instinctually know what to do or say at every given moment by virtue of us both being stone. You don’t have to instinctually know what a stone butch can handle and enjoy in bed because guess what? Most stone butches don’t know where the hell our boundaries are until we find them. •Please don’t beat yourself up when—WHEN—you accidentally trigger your stone butch. It happens. She didn’t know it would happen either. It’s part of life for the both of us. You can’t be expected to know everything about her, and it’s not your fault, and we know that. You’re not a monster, you’re not terrible, you’re not selfish or dangerous, you’re not the problem, and most importantly, you are nothing like the people who have hurt your butch before. Please, please go easy on yourself. Forgive yourself. Please. •You don’t always have to doll up and be super feminine or vintage or pink or fishnets or heels. You are just as high femme and beautiful when you’re bare faced in sweatpants and a t-shirt with uncombed hair as you are when you’ve got red lipstick and a beehive. You don’t even have to be classically feminine at all—you know your femme. Your femme is nobody else’s femme, and makeup or dresses or heels don’t have to be part of your femme unless you want them to. Just like stone butch isn’t an inherent super-butch aesthetic, high femme isn’t an inherently super-femme aesthetic. •You can have your own boundaries. Obviously you have some, since you’re stone, but you don’t have to like anal penetration, you don’t have to like your butch going down on you, you don’t have to like sucking a strap on, you don’t gave to like strap ons, you don’t even have to like any penetration at all. Some high femmes enjoy being open to anything, and all the power to them! But it’s not a requirement to being a femme or a stone femme, and where your boundaries lie is not something that makes you more or less of a high femme. Everyone has the right to whatever their boundaries are, and being a high femme does not require you to love it all. There are many, many more things that need to be said about high femmes, but these four are the ones that I—a stone butch married to a stone femme—most need to say today. Much love.
Thank you for writing this
This clever rope-cuff allows her to grasp the rope when she struggles so it doesn’t injure her wrists.
I keep forgetting to learn this one...
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the gloves
it had been raining and the sun was shining hotly on wet pavement as we wandered past the tiny boutique up the south end of King Street that afternoon stroll after lunch. the shimmer of dark velvet in the window, the deep shadows within were too tempting to pass - I’d always hated the sun straight after rain, smarting my skin as it burned all the wet from the air and making the world too bright to stand.
she held the door and then my elbow as we stepped inside, passing from the street into the cool dimness like mirages that glitter, then fade away, the folds of my red skirt undulating against the flannel of her trousers, grey and worn softer over time. I could see straight away this shop was too expensive for me, racks of delicate frocks set sparsely against the walls, gleaming antique furniture housing display cabinets and wicker baskets filled with old jewelry, gloves, and other aged miscellany. this was a boutique, coasting on the trend for retro fashion, carefully teasing out aspirational desire in luxurious fabrics and the evocation of post-war femininity.
but we lingered, admiring the pretty dresses with impossible price tags, new repro alternating with true vintage, a butch and a fem in a suit and a dress in styles that harkened back to the earliest days of our culture. I glanced at her, the precise part in her brylcreemed hair, the knotted-tie at her neck, the way her handsome features seemed carved in relief against the velvet wallpaper. she made me catch my breath, like a picture. she smiled at me and reached out to a dress printed in red roses against black, drawing a panel of taffeta between long, blunt fingertips.
“this would suit you,” she said, and I preened, glad that she thought so, but turned away. I had already looked at the price tag - over two hundred dollars. I didn’t like to look too long at things I couldn’t have. I had felt a little that way when she appeared first at the Femme Conference, pristine and polished in perfect suits she had sourced over decades in vintage shops and second hand markets. suits made for men who had been slight in stature, fitting her perfectly, time worn but immaculate - their acquisition a labour of love and patience, perfectly accessorised with shirts, cufflinks, ties, handkerchiefs, socks and even shoes, none of them new, all of them an eloquent statement to who she was. then she had seemed symbolic of everything I was sure I couldn’t have, handsome and reserved, attending the panels and parties with appreciative composure.
she pressed her fingertips against my back, in the hollow above the curve of my buttocks. her touch rippled through me and my nipples pricked, a pulse throbbed deep in my groin. I was looking at old jewelry; faceted crystals sparkling against lead backing, ropes of pearls turned rosy with age. looking and thinking about what I would look like wearing them, wearing them for her maybe, with nothing else but the glow of candlelight on my skin.
“here,” she said, and drew from a jumbled knot of colour in a nearby basket a pair of gloves, long, white leather.
they were buttery to the touch, the leather skin creased over time with a thousand spidery lines, criss-crossing and weaving over and under each other. I turned them over in my hands to look at the slits that ran the length of the wrist for ease of donning, fastened with tiny pearl buttons. late 1950s - a lady’s evening gloves, a vestige of true glamour laying across my palms, luring me with the promise I could be what I dreamed, could be the fantasy I fantasised about being through the conduit of adornment, if only I could -
“oh they’re gorgeous,” I gushed, holding them up to breathe them in, the pleasant, earthy scent of old leather. the pearl buttons seemed impossibly dainty, adding to the allure. “I’ve been looking for white gloves - “
the fluttering tag read forty dollars. too much, but they were so pretty.
“let’s see if they fit,” she said, and took them from me, leather sliding supply from my hands. I watched as she readied one, nimbly unfastening the buttons, cufflinks winking as her wrists turned. the pad of her thumb rubbed the curved cheek of one pearl and my cheeks got hot. she proffered the glove towards me, holding the mouth of it open, her fingertips curled around the edges. my breath was shallow as I slid my hand in, the velvety lining like a caress across my knuckles.
slowly, carefully, she eased the snug leather up my arm. turning it over in her grip, she bared my wrist, pale as moonlight in the dim, to her gaze as the slender sleeve caught across my knuckles. breathless and still, I waited, watching as her fingers dimpled the delicate leather, light as kisses against my skin beneath.
another tug and abruptly the glove slid home, the slit winking on my wrist as it shifted into place, the press of her hands warm through the hide. at once I was struck by a bolt of intense arousal, my groin turning molten as she cupped my gloved hand in hers, almost swaying where I stood. I lifted my gaze and her grey eyes were shadowed when they met mine. I knew she felt the same heat between her thighs, and flushed.
“oh, those lovely gloves!” the attendant flitted out of the shadows, heedless to what was going on between us. “they fit perfectly - are you going to get them?”
I had pulled my hand away from my lover’s quickly, as though we had been caught doing something obscene. I could feel my cheeks burning as I glanced down into my skirts, fumbling the glove off while my panties got damp.
“yes,” my lover said coolly, only the tremble of her fingertips as she took the gloves from me betraying her. “we will.”
I tucked my arm through hers while the attendant wrapped the gloves in sheets of tissue paper, pressing against her like she could feel the pulse that throbbed hard in my veins, welling straight up from my cunt. she didn’t look at me as she paid and thanked the attendant, taking the small bag with her free hand. but she ushered me out of the shop with a palm pressed urgently to my back.
I wore the gloves while she fucked me, the press of her hands hot against my wrists as she pinned them to the bed, her skin kissing mine where the slits winked open and shut in rhythm with her thrusts. I had never felt so decadent, lying beneath her like that, naked but for those delicate leather gloves and their pearl buttons rubbing beneath the heel of her palms, and understanding in one glorious revelation that it could be this simple to have everything I dreamed of - I was already everything she desired.
@santana.rocco17 +++++++ #RodeoHs
One of my favorite things about being a polyamorous dominant is telling my submissive (assuming this is within the boundaries of the dynamic of course), “have fun on your date/hookup but btw you’re not allowed to have an orgasm unless you’ve made them come at least [x number of times] first”
I’m borrowing this idea
How's about a nice creampie?
I’m lactose intolerant
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“Don’t let my tits stop you from calling me Daddy,” might be the hottest sentence I’ve heard recently honestly
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“how to engage in courting rituals 1950′s butch style in the bar” an essay by merril mushroom, published in common lives/lesbian lives: a lesbian feminist quarterly no. 4, summer 1982