Ppl here call me forg, frogdad or j dad (i have a lot of tumblr children)
I'm 22 yo duud from northern europe. Bi & poly.
I'm š«š®š·šŗ i speak also šøšŖš³š“š¬š§š«š·
I'm a car mechanic by profession, ballet dancer in my free time, studying to become an automotive engineer specialising in EV/H2 tech, training to join the air force in the meantime bc i wanna fix fighter jets :3
I mostly shitpost, yap abt my life (like 70% of it is exercise i think), and talk p vaguely abt my mental health and trauma, bc apparently talking openly will get u termed <3
But i will say as a warning I'm extremely health conscious and an exercise junkie if that sort of content might trigger u, block me. I do not promote anything therefore i am not responsible for your triggers.
I'm not specifying my flavour of mental illness but there's something wrong in there trust
Diagnosed audhd mf
Undiagnosed gym bro syndrome
I'm in a relationship w the one and only, the amazing, gorgeous @unfed-undead š
My blog is a safe space. I don't tolerate bullying (unless it's me bullying u)
@crux-sacra-sit-mihi-lux (my son)
@milomelancholy (my other son) i will carry this^ in my heart || his artwork:
Feel free to send asks if u need advice, support or j someone to yap to :] u can also ask anything from me, I'm v hard to upset
I have compassion but i don't baby anyone. If i care abt u I'll give u shit.
I'm leftist, environmentalist, feminist, punk, anti-capitalism, anti-AI, anti-HAES. I support š³ļøāšš³ļøāā§ļøšµšøšŗš¦
Personal responsibility, extreme ownership, relentless discipline
203 days nic free
My tags:
Forgs asks ā self-explanatory
Forgs frolics ā anything regarding ballet
Forgs pix ā pics of me, no face
Forgs fƶda³ ā food (fƶda means like.. animal food in swedish, i don't think anyone understood that except for my dear swede and finn moots)
Forgs car yap ā self-expl, p empty atm (i got got & haven't been posting car shit since)
Forgs doodles ā drawings, if i ever end up posting them again (same as above ^)
Forg hiking ā newer one, self-expl
Forgs monday motivational ā motivation, sometimes ott
Wtf is a digital footprint ā unhinged shit, mostly me being suggestive, all my best posts (/j) were under this tag and now they're all gone... sigh
Forg the exercise junkie ā yaps abt my excessive training
Frogvlog⢠ā little day in my life videos i make occasionally
Gallery on past pfps (drawn & edited by me pls don't steal)
what are your standards for a good parent because mine are impossibly high and i need other people 2 raise their standards because so many people have shit parents and say stuff like well they arenāt physically abusive so itās fine
He knows how to make me feel bad that's for damn sure
Even during these "manic" phases, when he's seemingly doing good ā not drinking much, getting work done, etc ā he manages to make me feel guilt for not being in his life
Like I'm a bad person for protecting myself
....
Am i?
Am i a bad person bc i don't believe in his recovery ..anymore
I feel like such a horrible son bc i haven't replied to my dad's msgs in 6 months. Last time i spoke to him was christmas. My sister still does keep in touch, idk how she does it.
He got another cat and a new car. He's still working on his genealogy for a book, i heard. He asked me if i want to go boating w him before summer ends.
It j feels difficult. Ik he's doing better now, but..... idk. When it comes to him i always feel like the little boy who j wants to close his eyes and cover his ears.
It's interesting how the older generations like to blame gen z for everything like "the young generation is ruined" girl u made us. U made this world the way it currently is. We r not responsible for any of it.
I esp mean like saying "young ppl r addicted to their phones" you made the phone, you made social media, you made the algorithm to keep ppl engaged, you created digitalisation, you made it impossible to function in day-to-day life without internet, you replaced books with laptops in schools, you put screens on fucking cars and refrigerators, you made everyone lonely
It's interesting how the older generations like to blame gen z for everything like "the young generation is ruined" girl u made us. U made this world the way it currently is. We r not responsible for any of it.
My PT made me do an unusual looking exercise (as she does), and so i was doing it on the turf in front of the windows to the mall and some guy, on the other side of the glass, at the mall, literally walked over to the window and stood there staring at me and we both turned to look at him and he j smiled and waved