Okay but how awful would it be if he knew you were holding back and hiding your wants and desires from him and he just pins you down and won't let up until you're honest with him. He's firm yet gentle in his patience, reassuring you with sweet words and kisses. Even if you start to cry from the shame of wanting, he'll dry your tears but still won't relent until he hears your desires. Maybe he even plays the emotional angle, that it hurts to know you're not telling him everything, and he wonders if he's not trustworthy, that he isn't enough for you to be completely yourself with him.