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hornyposting -- ftm / they / 28 / QC / 5'1" in case you were wondering

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hello! this blog is for 18+ eyes only, and I'll only chat if you're 22+. i post spicy kink. general content warning for my grappling with sexual assault, transphobia and misogyny.

i'm jay, i'm 27, i'm TME nonbinary and this is my horny blog. i had top surgery in 2019, on a low dose of T since 2020. i'm queer, every gender is hot to me, but especially if you're not cis or you're doing some gender nonconformity. i'm, despite the blog name, definitely a vers switch at this point.

the kinks, in approximate order of intensity - into giving + receiving/domming + subbing unless otherwise specified:

cnc

bondage - restraints, gags, blindfolds

domestic servitude, consensual enslavement

abduction/stalking

pain - biting, clawing, impact

degradation/humiliation

breeding

somnophilia and intoxication

objectification and i mean that in many ways

cock warming

wrestling

calling my dom 'daddy', no analysis necessary there i swear (sub)

forced feminization/misgendering

gender essentialism, misogyny, transphobia, patriarchy (when subbing for men)

group/sharing

fantasy - which includes elves, orcs, vampires, werewolves, minotaurs, medieval nonsense, viking nonsense, you know what i should do a post about this tbh

religious figures, supernatural entities as doms, worshippers as subs

hard limits:

kink around weight gain/loss

scat

underage (outside adult, consenting AP or just like talking about real trauma) AGAIN IF YOU'RE UNDER 18 DO NOT READ THIS BLOG, DO NOT INTERACT, DO NOT PASS GO, IT'S NOT FOR YOU. Also ACAB but if I see you posting content sexualizing minors I'm calling a SWAT team on you.

raceplay (i am white and Do Not feel comfortable doing kinks about it lol)

me roleplaying having titties, simply a big turn-off

other navigation:

asks selfies

if you're still reading and you dream of fucking a trans boy while we're roleplaying that we're in ancient greece and i'm your catamite and you can lift my chiton to use me whenever you desire or something like that please god hit me up

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

I honestly think the most galling thing is that the people running the site are just nakedly extracting a resource from us.

we are to be good trannies and post in a way that can be screenshotted and posted to reddit. new users is a key performance indicator, people are accountable for that number and that's their only consideration. the queerest website on the internet views us as a product.

if you threaten that, fuck off goodbye. feel free to post gay men fucking though!

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

sorry I forget that I have to explain it

it's just very obvious to me. these people exist and have made themselves known to me.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

I honestly think the most galling thing is that the people running the site are just nakedly extracting a resource from us.

we are to be good trannies and post in a way that can be screenshotted and posted to reddit. new users is a key performance indicator, people are accountable for that number and that's their only consideration. the queerest website on the internet views us as a product.

if you threaten that, fuck off goodbye. feel free to post gay men fucking though!

[ftm-sub]

it is truly astounding that over and over i'll mention to someone irl that i'm on tumblr and they're like 'oh didn't that site basically disappear with the porn ban?' and i have to explain that 'actually i run a nsfw blog, but yes textually there is indeed still a universal porn ban. and the initial ban did downsize the website significantly. but it's only actually applied to sex workers and trans women, even when they're not posting explicit content, to get them off the site, but everyone else is functionally allowed to post literal pornography and go about their business as it was before the ban'

so like. the moderation and targeted lack of moderation towards everyone else is constantly front and centre whenever i mention it. i wonder how much of the userbase is unaware of how this has shaken out? how many tme people post explicitly and don't understand the grey area they exist within? while i'm sure nearly every trans woman on here has read through the content rules, has seen the disparity, and grasps exactly what's happening and to whom. there is. and call me optimistic. there is no way i can imagine this is deniable when the issue is examined legally. which is most certainly in the works. genuinely, what is the plan?

[analog-delight]

Forcefem isn't a fucking kink to me, it hasn't been for a while now. In a world so dead set against letting trans women even think for a second that they can be women, forcefem is about letting those girls know that it isn't wrong or shameful or just a kink to want to be a woman.

I'm sure a lot of the forcefem posters on this website, both of the original flavor and the new and improved formula, do get sexual gratification out of it.

But the thing that I don't think TME forcemasc and/or detrans kink posters understand is that for a lot of us girls, we would've given anything in the world to have someone genuinely look at us and go "Hey. You're a girl. I see it, and I'm going to make it reality."

Forcefem may have started out as a kink rooted in misogyny, but that isn't all it is anymore.

[analog-delight]

Forcefem is praxis

[mikumiotics]

its funny how these people have basically reinvented respectability politics from thin air. this post is from the last few DAYS! Anyway good post for blocking people

sidenote: I really notice how cissies so so so desperately want to claim the aesthetics of being a "freak" but will say shit like this. no 'friendlyfreakazoid' you aren't actually a freak just because you like gothic shit or whatever the fuck your stupid blog is about

[queeranarchism]

Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:

Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

Thank you for coming to me ted talk.

[queeranarchism]

And please don't describe your interest in a marginalized human body shape as 'kinky' or 'being into some freaky shit'.

Imagine what it means to tell a person that sexual attraction to their body isn't normal.

I love kink but liking a type of body is NOT kinky and it sure as hell isn't freaky. It's regular human-to-human attraction. It's as vanilla as it gets.

[leshermes]

June 1st is TOMORROW. It means that GAY PEOPLE will exist, but only for ONE MONTH. Do not forget to buy your tickets to see them NOW, or else you will have to wait AN ENTIRE YEAR to be able to meet them AGAIN.

[lioncourtz]

Lestat's possession confirmed, et cetera x

[cuntcurator]

[education-for-cunts-deactivated]

Don’t forget to keep the recording and blackmail her with it later.

[bumpintheroad]

there isn’t cum dripping out of my pussy right now but i’m being so brave about it

[illyadolatry]

oh it really is just miss sienna's version that's. crazy

[angremlin]

For the uninitiated this is demonstrating that a post with over 15000 notes gets flagged as explicit WHEN AND ONLY WHEN one particular trans woman who has been repeatedly targeted by staff reblogs it without any additions. She has deleted the post and reblogged it again like 20 times and they flag it every single time.

[dark-spirit-tamamoland]

it was over 100 attempts btw

[analog-delight]

maybe this is a hot take but the transmasc equivalent of forcefem isn't forcemasc it's detrans kink

If we're talking forcefem the humiliation kink, you're absolutely right. Because transmasc detrans (that is to say, forcing someone masculine to be a woman/girl) is rooted in the same degradation and misogyny that traditional, non-reclaimed forcefem is.

As far as I'm concerned, there is no positive affirmative detrans, there can't be. At least not in the same way trans women (particularly on this website) have turned forcefem into something positive and affirmative.

I've already expressed my thoughts on detransitioning. It's either an act of violence by uncaring medical professionals denying life-saving care, putting one's self back in the closet for a variety of reasons, or someone who experimented with their gender and decided that they actually are what they were assigned at birth. You can have whatever surgeries or hormone treatments you want, and you can regret them all you want, but if you do a bunch of shit to your own body and then decide "actually no I'm not that, I'm the thing I was first" there's a word for that. and it's cisgender.

[plentyaurum]

the closest thing to forcemasc i can think of is fuckin bootcamp

[analog-delight]

maybe this is a hot take but the transmasc equivalent of forcefem isn't forcemasc it's detrans kink

If we're talking forcefem the humiliation kink, you're absolutely right. Because transmasc detrans (that is to say, forcing someone masculine to be a woman/girl) is rooted in the same degradation and misogyny that traditional, non-reclaimed forcefem is.

As far as I'm concerned, there is no positive affirmative detrans, there can't be. At least not in the same way trans women (particularly on this website) have turned forcefem into something positive and affirmative.

I've already expressed my thoughts on detransitioning. It's either an act of violence by uncaring medical professionals denying life-saving care, putting one's self back in the closet for a variety of reasons, or someone who experimented with their gender and decided that they actually are what they were assigned at birth. You can have whatever surgeries or hormone treatments you want, and you can regret them all you want, but if you do a bunch of shit to your own body and then decide "actually no I'm not that, I'm the thing I was first" there's a word for that. and it's cisgender.

[milk5]

The science behind THC + alcohol as a combination is literally soo interesting because it basically causes the crimson red duckling in your body to confront the serpent in the bronze vessel of your heart. Basically you feel good because the duckling is able to eat the harmonious seeds stored within the vessel and transfer these positive energies into your body. You can have bad highs when this happens if the duckling awakens the serpent and it bites the duckling. The interesting part is when you ingest alcohol after THC because it floods the vessel and causes the serpent to fall into a deep sleep. The duckling never gets attacked by the serpent when this happens because it is unconscious and the duckling is actually able to get fat from the harmonious seed, which causes an enjoyable sensation.

[aphel1on]

Affirmations before posting:

The freaks who follow me understand my vision

The freaks who follow me understand my vision

The freaks who follow me understand my vision

[transgothmog]

(Seer, 2021)

anyway à propos nothing this is my favourite painting i've done to date. check rb if you want lore.

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cw: rape

I painted this soon after a particularly traumatic sexual assault. The possibility of pregnancy felt parasitic, and I needed to communicate the visceral way I was feeling. Flesh, intestinal, and the single eye unable to close. The macro-horror of the flesh and the microscopic, unthinking horrors of biology. Maybe a little silly, but I drew from the magic anomalies in Skyrim (predatory, luminescent, intangible) in stylising sperm, and paisley and fractals stylising zygotes.