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Hey thanks for reblogging my post (I'm dypak) I didn't expect that to happen. But wow I really like your blog and I'm really really happy it exists. Thank you so much!! Because I know a lot of people like to just be really abusive and over the top aggressive about their ideas being the right one.
Thank you we all appreciate your support!-JJ
hi, i wanted to report norcalmisogyny and dumbworthlessfucktoys. both believe women exist to be hurt and used and degraded in all ways possible. they also promote things like choking (NEVER safe), scat, breast torture, masking etc. also racism (bbc) and rape of women who are very obviously drugged/out of it.
Thank you!-Jade
Hey, could you post a mass report for this user toppestofcats. I run a blog, problematicfandoms, where I posted that shipping 15 year olds/30 year olds is not good(post here problematicfandoms / post/ 124591899365 / toppestofcats-eternal rewatch) They replied and have just been super creepy about the whole thing--but the icing on the cake is that they identify on their profile as being "pedo/hebe". I reported them to tumblr but they *surprise* haven't done anything. Thanks!
Everyone lets all do the tumblr community a favor and report this asshole.
Tumblr needs to get off its ass and do something about these incidents for once.
Thanks for informing me.
I would like to remind people that it is okay to have sexual fetishes and kinks. It’s okay to have rape fantasies. It’s okay to enjoy power trips. It’s okay to get off to blood and wounds and emotional sadism and whatever. All of that is actually okay, so long as there is full consent between…
if yr a sadist you dont have empathy for other human beings this is literally the definition of a sadist lmao
that’s not the definition of sadism but also you’re implying that a lack of empathy is inherently bad or somehow makes someone an abuser, which is ableist as fuck.
If you don't have empathy that's a common trait of a psychopath. That's not to be rude but that is the FIRST thing they look for. And I don't see that as ableist you really shouldn't throw those words around.
i love this blog! :)
Thank you glad it's helping people! -Jade Personal blog: blametherapistneverthevictim
Um hi as someone who is trying to get into the scene I wanted to say thank you for this blog bc it teaches me and keeps me knowledgeable and safe. I love you guys! Best follow ever!
Thanks so much for this! Makes me happy knowing this blog is helping people! -Jade Personal blog: blametherapistneverthevictim
What is your stance on people in the YouTube community being abusive, like Sam Pepper and Onision? Sorry if you've already been asked this!
I can say my stance on it is that it's disgusting and they shouldn't be in the community... Not enough has been done when it comes to youtubers abusing people. When it comes to light there's an outcry for awhile but then... Pure and utter silence. Kinda sickening actually. -Jade Personal blog: blametherapistneverthevictim
Look at this naughty little thing taking a pic just for daddy. Poor thing will be begging for me the use her tight little hole for my pleasure the minute she gets a taste of my massive dong. I’ll fuck this cute little apple slut all night long and make her swallow every drop of cum I squirt just to show her who’s boss.
Wow, that last ask was incredibly disappointing. I'm really disappointed in your wishy washy stance. In what possible instance could raceplay or forced bisexuality (or ANY forced sexual act for that matter) be anything but bad? You have to ASK if there's more going on?? When on earth would that ever be considered "plain sexy fun"? How can you be so critical of bdsm and yet not think it's terrible? As though there are some good aspects to being tied up and abused in a sexual setting?
TW for sexual subject matterWell I do agree that bdsm is bad, I made the mistake of conflating kink/fetish with bdsm. Where I said "Personally, I’m not anti bdsm" I sould have said "personally, I am not anti-kink." Bdsm usually involves power roles which are definitely things you don't want to play around with. At the same time I think there are certain things that fall under the kink umbrella that are fairly okay. Like, say you have a thing for someone rubbing cake on you, that's something that's pretty harmless. Or maybe you like bondage without power roles, like you just feel safer wearing something that hugs you tightly and you aren't having an unhealthy dynamic to compliment it. In my opinion raceplay and forced things are never ever okay, but a lot of people like to use the whole "fantasy" argument. My point is that if you think it's okay you should really look at it and say "why do I think this is okay, what motivates this behavior?" and be critical before you come to a decision.The reply was very poorly worded, I apologize.
I have a very love hate relationship with your blog. I love your calling out the bullshit and I initially thought you were a probdsm blog that was anti hiding the fact there are predators in our community but you have a lot about how bad bdsm is?
Bdsm is not free from critique. Personally, I'm not anti bdsm, but I believe all sides of an argument should be shown.
There are certain things like raceplay and forced bisexuality where you kind of need to ask if there's more going on there than just sexy fun. Also it is disturbing how many doms come to bdsm to sort of just legally abuse people and don't care about if the sub enjoys it or wholly consents.
What you do in the bedroom is your business, but if we want to make kink mainstream and have a scene we need to take a long hard look at the arguments against it. Its uncomfortable, yes, but bdsm is dangerous and we need to be as safe and critical as possible.
- mod j
So angry at libfems and trans activists right now. "If you're a lesbian but won't have sex with a trans woman that has a penis, you're TRANSPHOBIC!!!! Because she says she's a woman, she doesn't have a penis, that's now a female part!!! Lesbians like women and we ARE women so they have to fuck us!!" Do they know how much they sound like straight dude bros?
Unfortunately, I think the online trans community has no self-awareness whatsoever.
You may remember, danggeun was harassed by a disgusting porn blog that reblogged pictures not only of her but of her mother, with gross captions, and refused to remove them only until child pornography was found in their archive. (Sound familiar?)
Well, this asshole is vengeful and has resurrected a gross, fetishizing porn blog with the name whoredannguenwhore.
…It’s pretty fucking apparent what that was directed to. This is a very disgusting attempt at victimizing an Asian woman who was already harassed and fetishized by this repulsive piece of garbage fuck.
I know I asked you guys to boost a post earlier but this one is a bit more important - this is the direct harassment of a WoC.
Report whoredannguenwhore as well as Tumblr user pickle95 who seems to be associated with this garbage.
This is gross. Fucking fucking gross. Please help her out, guys.
WHYYYYYYYYYYY the fuck is this piece of shit pedophile, women harrassing porn blog still up?
Why? Why? I’ve reported it 50 fucking times with more than valid proof of the blatant harassment and it’s still fucking there.
Really Tumblr staff? Really? Do we have to wait for them to post some underage schoolgirls before this one gets deleted too? What the fuck man.
On Coercion, Part One.
This is a running theme I’ve noticed on BDSM blogs: they openly describe psychological coercion, without any apparent recognition that’s what they’re describing. Perhaps they don’t understand what coercion is. Perhaps they don’t care. Perhaps they’ve crafted a worldview where “consent” is the trophy, and coercion is simply the means of winning that trophy.
Regardless of their motivations, I want to draw some attention to this behavior, because it can be extremely pernicious. Pictures of bloodied/bruised women are obvious indications of how twisted and dangerous the BDSM world is, but coercion is often covert—to such an extent that it may escape notice at first glance. But make no mistake: coercion is dangerous, toxic, abusive, and a deep reflection of how BDSM practitioners (and especially doms) distort the concept of consent, while hypocritically claiming that ‘consent’ is paramount to their lifestyle.
Example One: ‘Dom with Pen’
This man hosts a BDSM “advice” blog, where he casually shares techniques on “how to manipulate women into being submissive.” He is married, older than the majority of the tumblr population, and generally grammatically correct, so his predatory nature may escape detection when there are so many violently degrading blogs on here. However—since he uses language to facilitate psychological coercion, and is *incredibly* calculating, he reeks of sociopathic tendencies. He confuses his own literacy with intelligence, and consistently treats people like pawns to be used for his own self-aggrandizement. Like all doms, he is a coward who *must* control other people to feel “big.” Bottom line: he is dangerous.
Here’s his description of how he initiated a BDSM relationship with his wife:
"I decided that a 24/7 D/s arrangement was what I really wanted…I tried to approach it verbally at first […] but girl was put off and freaked out. She didn’t want us to “change,” didn’t want things to be different. […] Thanks to some great advice from a friend (sgg), I essentially just moved forward without expressed boundaries.”
"Though she doesn’t care for this particular word now, she will soon. I wanted her to understand how good it feels, how free and loved and special it feels—to be my PROPERTY.”
His blog is filled with similar anecdotes—casually dropped lines about how his wife “doesn’t want to” do something, but how he’ll “make her” do it anyway. It’s important to note that the language is casual, since the tone is deliberately crafted to avoid drawing attention. It’s not loud, it’s not profane, it’s not overtly aggressive. But take a look at the quotes again. Look at what he’s saying.
"She didn’t want to. I did it anyway."
"She doesn’t like it. I’m going to do it anyway."
This man initiated a BDSM lifestyle by telling his wife he wants to dominate her, and she said no. Despite this—despite the fact that she openly expressed that she wasn’t interested—he completely disrespected her, ignored her boundary, and began implementing a BDSM lifestyle without her consent. He started setting rules to control her, then escalated to hitting her.
Like a true predator, he manipulated her and pressured her, making small changes to her life to see what he could “get away with,” before pushing it even further until he got exactly what he wanted.
This is not consent.
Let me say that again.
THIS IS **NOT** CONSENT.
This is the “frog in boiling water” scenario. If he’d immediately jumped to hitting her, she may have protested. She may have left him. She may have called him out for being the abusive fuck that he is. But instead, he gradually implemented changes *after* she was already legally committed to him, until her own boundaries and sense of self had shifted or dissolved. She is not a human being, to him. She is a toy to be manipulated. A “thing” for him to exploit.
It does not matter if this woman is staying in a relationship with him. It does not matter if she has her own psychological issues that include a willingness to be physically assaulted. It doesn’t matter how many times he insists she “wants it.” It doesn’t matter what details he actively emphasizes in his narratives to try to “dress things up,” while quickly skimming over (or completely omitting) her protests and disagreement. She said no from the start, that she didn’t want to practice BDSM—and he ignored it. The entire premise of their BDSM relationship is manipulation, gaslighting, and grooming.
I’ll revisit this subject later on with other examples, but for now I just want to drive this home: psychological coercion is one of the most dangerous tools that a predator has in his arsenal. It is how they lay the foundation for abuse, mistreatment, and control, often without detection, while convincing their victims that they’re “ok” with their own mistreatment. People like this man are attracted to vulnerability, exploit insecurity, and redraw the lines of their victims lives and identities, simply because they can. They are a poisonous menace. Without exception.
I’m reblogging this again because with all the current discussion about BDSM prompted by the 50 shades of shit trailer, I’ve seen a lot of people use the excuse that 50 shades is a bad example of BDSM again. And you know what? That’s just kinksters trying to save face. 50 shades is mild compared to the average shit I’ve seen from the kink community, shit you get told you aren’t allowed to criticize because that would be kinkshaming (GASP!) and you just can’t do that. That guy is flat out saying he wants to force his wife into a ”24/7” D/s relationship. add to this their fucked up concept of ”sub drop” (basically: if you’re depressed, have anxiety and are traumatized even weeks after a ”session?” the BDSM community has the answer: ”you know you wanted it.” ) and how they glorify and sexualize rape, misogyny and pedophilia and the kink community is rife with abusive fuckery that goes unquestioned until someone speaks out, then get ready for the ”it wasn’t ~*true BDSM~* excuse.
And let us just remember that domwithpen is someone who the tumblr kink community holds in high esteem and regard, someone who they look up to, when they use the phrase “true BDSM” they are talking about him, which is fucking hilarious and tl;dr i agree 100% with the above!
— I found “vivid anecdotes of individual victimization”, “I felt violated because even though I had the power to stop and everyone talked about it all the time I never used it because of reasons and...
The National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF), a BDSM Scene front (i.e., public relations) group, recently published results from a survey about consent. According to the group’s Executive Director and recently-hired FetLife.com Community Manager, Susan Wright, one of its…
Bdsm is full of slimy, predatory creeps. If you were hurt in the scene, know that you are not alone. And it is not your fault. If you're still involved in bdsm, work on making it a safer place. Hold doms accountable.
A scene revolving around the objectification and abuse of other human beings can never be 100% safe, but it can be a lot better.
Do kink-shamers not realize how offensive it is to abuse survivors to compare a playful, consensual sexual act to real abuse and trauma? BDSM is always done with consent and good intentions and you’re trying to compare that to sexual assault and abuse - and no one seems to realize how belittling that is to abuse survivors and how it downplays what they’ve been through?
BDSM normalises abuse
Kink culture eroticises rape and blames rape victims.
Kink culture trivialises sexual violence by making sexual abuse ‘sexy’.
Kink culture is racist.
Kink culture reaffirms the gender binary and misogynistic power imbalances.
Kink culture benefits from degrading and humiliating women.
Femdoms still perpetuate misogyny [luarens post]
It appropriates consent [luarens post]
As for BDSM ‘always being done with consent and good intentions’
"In April 2006, British national Adrian Exley suffocated to death in the closet of a Rhode Island man whom he had met online. Exley was wrapped tightly in heavy plastic and bound with duct tape, and a leather hood was over his head." [x]
"A Canadian college professor spent three days in a coma over the weekend after losing consciousness in a New York sex club where he was left alone with a dog collar around his neck and a leather hood over his face, according to a report in the New York Post."[x]
BDSM also kills women
Since when was it acceptable to argue that orgasms trump analysis? Why are these points always ignored by kinksters and all they can reply is ‘BUT EVERYONE HAS PREFERENCES, WE’RE 2 CONSENTING ADULTS FUCKK OFFFF’
Kinksters are ignorant, selfish, sadistic and manipulative. Kinks are masked as therapy for sexual abuse survivors only to exploit their trauma for the deviants that lurk the fucking community. Kink culture brainwashes society into thinking that sex is completely exempt from analysis and anyone who disagrees is boring. It’s bully tactics to silence the opposition, because they know what they’re doing isn’t morally right. So they resort to insults and harrassment, because being told their abusive orgasms aren’t more important than ending oppression is very frustrating for them. I could not give two fucks about kinksters. Their kinks aren’t innate and in need of protecting. Their kinks are not worth fighting for. The fact we even live in a world which celebrates kinks more than it analyses it is absolutely disgusting. An erect dick does not limit your intellectual capacity FUCK.
Lol your a bitch. I'm only 14 but Im intulectul enough to see feminism is stupid. Like when I "raped" a girl I had to explain to her that its only rape if u dont want it. She was wet so she wanted it.(like u would be if you saw me. Check my fb on my profile girl ;) ) Its that simple. Women are worse and stupider and guys are stronger and smarter
Warning to everyone who lives in Perth, West Australia. This guy is a rapist. His Tumblr page has a link to his Facebook account, here: https://www.facebook.com/james.parnell.39395
If anyone can find out where this kid goes to school, please report him to the administration as a danger to the other students. Take screenshots of this and his Tumblr account as evidence.
