One Nice Bug Per Day
sheepfilms
hello vonnie
đ©” avery cochrane đ©”

Product Placement
art blog(derogatory)
đ
KIROKAZE
The Stonewall Inn

Andulka

#extradirty
I'd rather be in outer space đž

titsay
NASA
RMH

No title available
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open

tannertan36
Aqua Utopiaïœæ”·ăźćșă§èšæ¶ă玥ă

if i look back, i am lost

seen from TĂŒrkiye

seen from United States

seen from China
seen from United States

seen from Sweden

seen from Malaysia

seen from Chile
seen from United States

seen from United Kingdom
seen from Malaysia

seen from Germany

seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from Spain
seen from China
seen from Philippines
seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from Colombia
seen from United States
@fuiniloka
You may think you want to die when all you really want is to start living.
far-far-awayy (via nitrogen)
ok losers itâs your girl polcry here to run you through the basics of what the darn heck to bring with you to university to cover your naked bodyÂ
B A S I C SÂ
If youâre edgy and ~minimalist~ theseâll probably comprise the majority of your wardrobe. Regardless, youâre going to want to bring at least a few each of these.
LEGGINGS: at least one black pair, possibly more if youâve accepted the inevitability of not giving a shit how you look at for 9ams. You can also get funky and bring patterned ones if you so desire, you maverick.
JEANS: I prefer jeggings for the comfort feel and ability to do spontaneous high kicks, but if youâre a fashionista boyfriend or bootcut jeans are cool too. Trust me, the freshman fifteen is real and if you have to choose between a lilâ too big and a lilâ too small, go big. Belts exist for a reason.
T-SHIRTS: you can get a wide array of fits of tees, so bring a few of your favourite style in simple colours like white/black/grey/striped. I find slightly wearing a slightly oversized tee gives off a certain effortless vibe, especially if you tuck the front in to the waistband of jeans to give it an IDGAF drape and pair with cute AF shoes. Hella cute with no effort.Â
SWEATSHIRTS/JUMPERS/SWEATERS: I live in jumpers. Iâm not going to lie. Go oversized with leggings or skinny jeans, maybe add a layer underneath if itâs a lilâ chilly. If you live somewhere that feels like the depths of Antartica, you might want to go with a finer knit and layer under and above. The struggle of getting a thick coat over a chunky jumper is real, guys. Turtlenecks, crew necks, V-necks. Theyâre all good. Avoid collecting too many sweatshirts with your universityâs name on it, though - you will look over-enthusiastic.Â
SHOES: one word: COMFORT. Campuses are big places. Chances are, youâll be walking a fair bit. I love trainers - I have a pair of black Nikes, a pair of white Reeboks and a black slip-on pair. Converse, Adidas, New Balance are all popular. They crop up on the feet of almost everyone. Look down, and I guarantee the vast majority of any university class are wearing trainers.Â
If youâre like me and enjoy torturing yourself, you can also wear heeled boots. I find them weirdly comfortable, probably due to my excessively hyperextended knees. Pointy ankle boots always look chic, but frankly people will be so surprised that youâve made an effort that any type will impress. Zaraâs always a good choice for cute boots.Â
Iâd avoid opened-toed or flats that expose a lot of your foot during autumn/winter/spring. Itâll probably rain, and then youâll be cold and miserable and have soggy feet. Wellies (or rainboots for you strange Yanks) are a good choice if youâll be in a wet climate (hello England), but they can be a bit cumbersome. Try and get some lower-cut ones to reduce the weight and to stop you from stomping excessively.Â
COATS: this is pretty personal. Again, if itâs wet, Iâd recommend something at least water-resistant. I have a North Face windbreaker that I keep in my car in case it starts tipping it down, but itâs not particularly warm. Leather/suede jackets look cute but are not a good choice if it looks like it might rain. Other than that, anything goes. I have a cute beige pea coat from ASOS that I love, and a shearling jacket from Bershka which is far too cool for a dork like me.
L O U N G E W E A RÂ
PJs: buy yourself some new ones. Please. Your flatmates donât want to see your lady parts through that ever-expanding hole in the crotch. Some university flats feel like the pits of hell, so it might be a good idea to bring a few pair of short PJs too. You can always swap them out for joggers or leggings when youâre not snoozinâ. I can always find cute pyjamas in Tesco, Sainsburyâs and Primark.Â
SWEATPANTS: as comfy as PJs but with the added bonus of being socially acceptable. Whether you prefer a tapered, slim fit or big ânâ baggy, make sure theyâre stain-free and donât smell funky. Bring a couple of pairs and rotate through as necessary.Â
BRAS: regardless of whether you have the athletic capabilities of a sloth or Michael Phelps, you will want to bring sports bras. Hides the nips with basically no discomfort. Bralettes are cute too, but Iâm an advocate of sports bras if youâre just slugging out in front of Netflix and nobody is going to see it. Forever 21 do a massive selection of surprisingly pretty sports bras with all sorts of fancy backs. Not so good for exercising, but really the majority of people donât wear sports bras to exercise.Â
F A N C YÂ
PARTYING: this will depend a little on where you attend university. For me, going out outfits are high-waisted jeans, a fancy-ish crop top and flat shoes of some description. Club floors get hella slippery. More casual dresses are fine too, but make sure you gauge what your friends are going to be wearing so you donât look too overdressed.
EVENTS: bring a nice dress or trousers/shirt. There will be fancier events (sports balls, end of term balls, society balls). They donât always require black tie, so a cocktail dress is a good choice. Boys, bring a suit jacket. It doesnât have to be tails or a tux, but bringing a tailored blazer thatâll match or compliment a pair of trousers you own will come in handy. And absolutely NO JEANS. Along the same lines, bring at least one pair of smart shoes/heels. Ladies, flats are more than acceptable for fancy events. Just make sure theyâre cute.Â
BUSINESSWEAR: âBut Isabelle!â I hear you cry, âIâm in college! I donât need businesswear!â Yes, my friend, yes you do. Interviews happen. You might need a part-time job, or get a spontaneous interview for an internship. Bring an office-appropriate skirt/trousers and a blouse/shirt, and some simple, smart shoes. You donât have to go full-on Olivia Pope, but make sure you have one suitable outfit in your repertoire.Â
Q U I C K Â T I P SÂ
Accessories make an outfit: bring a choice of belts, scarves and miscellaneous wraps or shawls. By throwing on a buckled belt and a cute layered necklace, you can go from meh to a-meh-zing.Â
Sign up for student discounts: British students, that means unidays. Register with your university email for discounts ranging from 10-25%. Theyâll notify you when retailers that donât have a permanent discount (like H&M) run promotions as well. Make sure you use your discount for eating out and going to the cinema, too!
Quality > quantity: the capsule wardrobe trend is real, folks. Iâm an advocate of having a smaller, but better-made and better-fitting, wardrobe over one thatâs overflowing and filled with cheap, low-quality clothing thatâll last a couple of wears. If youâre wearing pieces day-in day-out, make sure theyâre flattering and of good quality. Having a smaller wardrobe makes moving in and out easier, too, and youâll spend less time staring at all your clothes trying to mentally piece together something cute.Â
Expensive =/= good quality: along the same lines, just because something is pricy doesnât automatically make it of good quality. You can get really good basics at affordable shops. Feel the material (and make sure itâs relatively opaque), make sure the stitching is solid, and that it doesnât have pulls or piling or holes. I like New Look and ASOS for simple pieces.Â
Make an effort: it sounds silly, but lecturers and tutors do appreciate it when you donât turn up looking like youâve just rolled out of bed. Looking presentable makes them feel like you want to be there, which can make them a) like you more and b) more inclined to want to help you out if you need it. It isnât that hard to put a pair of jeans and a blouse on instead of throwing a pair of joggers on under the T-shirt with ramen stains on that you slept in the night before, is it?
Thatâs pretty much it. University is a place to explore your own personal style, and youâll see a massive variety in how people dress. Express yourself, learn what you like on, and donât feel under pressure to dress a certain way! Style is definitely a creative outlet, so if you want to - use it and enjoy yourself!!
But 7 Cups of Tea is actually a godsend when you need to talk your feelings out to someone unbiased or you need to rant or ask for some type of help itâs anonymous itâs free please use it
http://www.7cups.com/13587792
please use it friends.
If your in need of someone to talk to or for support go to 7cups! http://www.7cups.com/13587792
FTM Trans Resources.
I wanted to make a post with some quick resources and websites that might help some of you. So please, check them out.
Suicide prevention/help services:
http://www.lauras-playground.com/chat.htm
866 4-U-Trevor (866-488-7386) OR http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
http://www.7cupsoftea.com/
http://www.translifeline.org/
Each of these are different, but iâll go ahead and give you a quick description of each so you can choose which is best for you. All links and phone numbers are places where you can go to seek help, whether itâs to simply talk to someone about whatâs on your mind, or suicide prevention. Theyâll connect you with someone whoâll help and listen. Lauraâs Playground(link 1) is more of a website where Trans folk and their loved ones can connect in chat rooms or forums to talk about different subjects. You donât need to be depressed or suicidal to join in! The Trevor Project(link 2/phone number) is a suicide prevention site and hotline for the LGBT community. 7 Cups of Tea (link 3) is a site that I work closely with. You can connect with a listener anonymously via web chat. They will listen to whatever you need to talk to you about and help accordingly. You can even connect with me! Finally, Trans Life Line (link 4)Â is a non-profit dedicated to the well being of transgender people. They run a hotline staffed by transgender people for transgender people, to talk and help about whatever your problems are. All of the services listed above are FREE.
Hudsonâs FTM Resource Guide:
Hudsonâs FTM Resource guide is basically everything you need to know about FTMâs and everything FTMâs need to know about surviving with helpful tricks, links, and stories.
http://www.ftmguide.org/
Self Made Men:
Self Made Men offerâs a website that includes tips and tricks for transmen, written by transmen. Thereâs even a store with FTM products and items.
http://www.theselfmademen.com/
FTM Garage Sale:
This site is basically a place where transmen can sell and buy FTM products and items. It has a little bit of everything and is relatively cheap!
http://ftmgaragesale.livejournal.com/
I hope some of these links and resources help you and let me know if you check them out! Have a great day!
-Lynn