Rule #1: Donât do it like they do it in porn.
Rule #2: Donât do it like they do it in porn!!!
Rule #3: That stupid tongue-way-out and flicking triple time? They do that in porn.
Rule #4: They do that in porn because if they were licking pussy the right way youâd see a) two thighs and b) the back of a head. In porn they want to see a) pussy and b) as little of the man as possible.
Rule #5: Donât do it like they do it in porn.
Rule #6: Your tongue is not a cock. Sometimes people in porn use their tongues like a cock. But see rules #1-5. Also the second and third sentences of this rule!
Rule #7: Watch how she touches herself. (What, youâve watched how she touches herself, right? If not watch how pretty much _every_ woman touches herself when sheâs legit getting off and not just doing what women do in porn.
Rule #8: Lick her where she touches herself. Because those are the good spots.
Rule #9: Notice how much sheâs fingering inside herself when she touches herself? Yeah, me either usually.
Rule #10: If she does touch herself inside, notice how deep her fingers go? Gene Simmonâs tongue isnât that long, or that strong. See Rule #6.
Rule #11: See her hipbones? See the insides of her thighs almost up by her knees? Unless sheâs ticklish (in which case maybe spend more time kissing face to face and letting her get really warmed up, becauseâŠ
Side Rule #A: Ticklish almost always means not-horny-enough.
Rule #12: Back to Rule #11: Find time to kiss her everywhere between her hipbones and the insides of her thighs almost up to her knees. Then start kissing her kitty.
Rule #13: When sheâs really wound up sheâs very likely to be sensitive everywhere detailed in Rule #11.
Rule #14: Long, soft strokes with the flat of your tongue. From the bottom of her kitty along side her outer lips to the top. Then on the other side.
Rule #15: Which they rarely do in porn. So do that.
Rule #16: gently part her lips with your own lips and tongue and softly slip between her inner lips, tasting her as you go because sheâs going to taste pretty good.
Rule #17: Maybe slurp one of her inner lips between yours, one side at a time, fairly close to the top near her clit, and swirl your tongue on the inside â while gently tugging down just a little bit because that tugs down on her clit a little bit.
Rule #18: Generally speaking donât slide your tongue all the way under her hood because the tip of her clit is sensitive as hell and the top of your tongue is usually pretty rough.
Rule #19: You know how you watched the way she touches herself? Take a minute to think about that again. Bonus points of you remember which side of her clit she favors because almost everyone is more sensitive on one side than the other.
Side Rule #B: For some reason the average womanâs clit is more sensitive on the left side.
Side Rule #C: But goddamn it the woman you are going down on is anything but average! So your her mileage may vary!
Rule #20: Open your mouth over her clit hood â about as wide as you comfortably can (though watch those teeth) â and then apply gentle suction.
Rule #21: Wetly swirl your tongue alongside the hood of her clit, up past the little fold that hides the tip.
Rule #22: Occasionally slide your tongue back and forth across the top of her clit hood.
Rule #23: If sheâs really aroused youâll start to feel a little âstemâ growing underneath her hood. Thatâs good. Very, very good.
Rule #24: This is a very good time to think carefully about what youâre going to do next. Because when you feel that little stem (her clitâs erect) then you might be able to back off a little bit. And go on a little kissing and licking tour from #12, above. Which might help her keep sailing and also help her from âŠ
Rule #25: If you keep doing the same thing change it up a little, because she can go numb. This will frustrate her at least as much as it will you. Â
Rule #25: If you feel her little stem under her clit hood rise, and if she grabs your head or (especially) if she squeaks âdonât stopâ in a tiny little entirely non-porn way (because Rules all-of-the-above if sheâs really getting off sheâs not likely to sound much like anyone in porn) thenâŠ
Rule #26: DONâT STOP WHAT YOUâRE DOING! Because sheâs going to come if you donât stop. And want to grit her teeth, cry, or possibly kill you if you do.
Rule #27: When sheâs done coming (sheâll let you know by releasing pressure on your head with her hands and/or possibly her thighs) go back to #11 and give her soft, gentle kisses there. Because her inner lips and clit will almost certainly be pretty sensitive.
Rule #28: Climb up along side her and hold and kiss her. (If youâre not sure sheâll like her flavor â many women do but quite a few donât at all â then subtly wipe your face on the sheets on your way up.
Rule #29: I didnât say anything about fucking her afterwards, did I? No I didn not. Sometimes sheâll want to after. Sometimes she wonât. Just like sometimes youâre up for it after sheâs gone down on you and blown your socks across the room and other times you couldnât get it up again for lifeboat room on the Titanic! If not thatâs ok. You can jack off later, just like she rubs one out when youâve capsized after coming. But!
Rule #30: Sheâll remember. And rock your fucking socks next time. Because most guys wonât go down on her at all, and the ones that do think porn is an instruction manual. And so she wonât forget you pulling that thorn out of her paw, and sheâll be a lioness next time. Which might not be that long because many (but not all!) women recover and are ready for a nice round two before all that long at all.
Rule #31: Rule #32, below, is the most important rule of all.
In other words donât be a robot. Sheâs not a robot either. Interact, make eye contact, respond to her like sheâs very likely responding to you! Â
And finally, Rule #33: Donât lick anyoneâs pussy like they do it in porn!
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