Gaming Graveyard

A graveyard full of Wildstar/FFXIV/General Gaming Garbage/FanArt and the occasional community interaction. (Wilder-Weave)

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Just another Duskwight.

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I got distracted and missed most of Elftober. LOL, oh well.

Stay pretty.

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Two brothers reunited after ten years of estrangement.

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Reblog if you’re 30 or older

This is an experiment to see if there really are as few of us as people think.You can also use this to freak out your followers who think you’re 25 or something. Yay!

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Elftober Day 4: Transport

"When you get on the wrong train."

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Elftober Day 3: High Up

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Spooky month, spooky month.

Time to go MAD.

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Elftober Day 3: High Up

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"Knowledge Seeks No Man," the motto of Sharlayan that he's never forgotten, even ten years after running away from home.

Elftober Day 2: Monument

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Spooky month, spooky month.

Time to go MAD.

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Happy October! Spooky month, best month.

Elftober Day 1: H̷̗́̓̈́̅̄̊́͂̋͊̾͝͠e̵̡̧̳̰̩͈̟̹̰̲̙̝̦̗͂͐ļ̷̤͓̱̞͈͈̟͓͈̣̀̀́̉̅̽́̽̌̍̈́̀l̴̙̞̈́̉̍̀̽͐̍̋̇̇̐̌̅͝ȯ̵̡̧̧̱̙̯̩̦͚͍̺͇͇͙̑̋̅̈̈́̓͗͂͋̌̿͘͘ͅ

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Hey Elezen! Elftober starts tomorrow!

Here's the official prompt list borrowed from the Birdsite!

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Viper, viper, viper.

kills my hands

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Hard pill to swallow, maybe, but sometimes you are the problem. You may not have been initially, but people around you can only have so much endurance for understanding why you're "like that" and how you got to where you are now. Even if you were the one who was victimized, hurt, or abused to begin with, your behavior affects those around you. There's a point at which personal responsibility needs to kick in, or you will become toxic. You can become toxic even if you never become an abuser yourself. If other people are constantly having to help dig you out of the holes you made but you keep slapping their hands away, you cannot expect them to have an indefinite amount of patience and energy to keep trying. If you're not putting in the work to recover from what damaged you; if everyone else in your life is consistently the only one making a real effort to effect change for you--you're the problem.

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People can give you love, but can't make you treat yourself like someone you care about.

People can offer you resources, but can't make you reach out and use them.

People can lay down stepping stones, but can't make you put the work in to make progress.

If you're expecting everyone around you to keep making the decisions and making things ok for you, you need to take a step back and some serious time for deep introspection. This doesn't mean that others shouldn't have compassion for you, but as difficult as things are and as tired as you are--others get tired too and can't be expected to carry it all.

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And if you blame everyone else in your life because they "gave up on you" when they reach a limit, you have a victim complex. Having been a victim does not mean you should accept perpetual victimhood.

People are allowed to say "I love you, and my love for you doesn't mean I can sacrifice myself for you." There's a point at which people have to let go because they do not ultimately hold responsibility for whether you live, die, or thrive--you do.

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The long lost sibling, an older brother from ten years ago.

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A handsome and slightly unhinged fellow, as always.

LOOK THERE'S DARK SUNGLASSES AND WE ARE NEVER TAKING THEM OFF.

Happily chugging along. Hooked up with a long lost sibling.

Might post more later.

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Hello.

....My Tumblr is a disorganized mess holy moly.

I'm not sure how long it's been. Um.

I have art to post...eventually.