Gayscapades

(gay-skah-payds) 💁🏽‍♂️ Black n Beautiful ✊🏽 idk just hope u feel valid and gay 🤎

[gayscapades]

hi! omg it’s been so long since I’ve logged onto this account 👋🏽 so many memories here :)

Huge life update, after all the years I spent here reblogging and obsessing over gay love, using this as my little outlet for my queerness

I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!! My first ever :,)

we’ve been going on v strong for almost 9 months now and I’m so so happy w him. Now I’m living all the gayscapades I possibly dreamed of since high school I started this page in high school 🥹👨🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏽❤️

I lived a lot of my years single and feeling alone, often times wondering where my lover was and why I was single.. I would think it would always happen to others and not me, and even thought I’d be single forever and love wasn’t meant for me.. well all it took was many trials n errors until I found the right guy, and time ( a LOT) lol. So I’m wishing all of you a happy pride month and to not give up on finding love, even if you think it’s too late like I did.

Most of all, in the famous words of RuPaul, if you can’t love yourself, how n the hell are you gonna love somebody else? Now can I get an amen? :)

- Gayscapades 🫶🏽🏳️‍🌈

[gayscapades]

hey. I’m not dead hehe. I moved to another blog. It’s been months since I’ve logged onto this one. Hope you guys are doing ok during this pandemic. At least it’s almost Christmas :)🎄 stay safe and wear your mask please

[sexyblackmens]

[romansroys]

this scene deserved at least 10 emmys 

[scottishtwitter]

[xoperidottea]

Translation: I told this girl sent next to me on the bus that her guide dog was cute and she said "Aw I wouldn't know" and I choked on my coffee

😂😂

[gayscapades]

😂

[dcaj28]

[sinmonger]

Hollywood (2020)

So what are we then? Boyfriends? You’re somebody I tricked twice and didn’t charge. 

[angiethewitch]

If anyone ever thinks that nobody will remember you or miss you if you die:

Today I read about a 17 year old girl who died recently. I didnt recognise her name, but I recognise her face.

I used to work at Subway, and I remember her. She would come in every Friday with her friends and order a tuna sandwich, double cheese and toasted. I knew her order off by heart because it was all she ever ordered, and she would always be very polite. I never knew her name until today.

I haven't seen her since I quit working there, 3 years ago. But I remember her and I remember her voice and her order and how polite she was and how I was always jealous of her hair. Now she will never order another 6 inch tuna sub and that is really upsetting me.

Somebody will miss you. Someone will remember you. The cashier at your local shop. The woman who always likes seeing you walk your dog. Your next door neighbours. A fellow school pupil who always admires your makeup or your hair. You will be missed.

[queensofrap]

words of wisdom

[arigrande-edits]

[gayscapades]

Ari 🥺🤍

[rai-r]

[simoneashley]

black panther + end credits 

[gayscapades]

😍🖤

[thefrozennhorizon-deactivated20]

It’s so lonely being gay. It’s the most lonely fucking thing in the world. I don’t care what people say, it is. Unless you are a white, muscular, movie star looking man who has thousands of Instagram followers you are ignored and lonely. The “fat” gay guys or gay men of color or trans gay men very very rarely get portrayed in the media as people who get a happy ending. We get ignored. We are fighting for equality among straight people but within the community we all treat each other like shit. It’s filled with nothing but labels. We should be a united front. I shouldn’t have fear and severe anxiety of going up and just even talking to another gay guy because I have been rejected so many times by them. I wish I could make you all understand how lonely it is when you come out and face rejection from your family for coming out and then get rejected by gay men for how you look. My heart is broken and I feel like I belong no where. I know I am only one out of millions of other gay guys who feel ignored and rejected by the rest of the community.

Gay men of color matter. Plus size gay men matter. Trans gay men matter. Closeted gay men matter.

Don’t you dare wave that Pride flag if you don’t support the right of every gay man in your community. We are here and we matter. It isn’t all a white muscle contest.

[s-lockhart]

I’ve never agreed with a post so much in my life

[toxic-kombucha]

This is the truest thing I’ve read in this website.

[menloveandsex-deactivated202204]

[batou]

[gayscapades]

Hey guys, I’m not dead lol. Haven’t been here in a while and it was nice to come back to this blog. I hope you’re all safe n healthy during this pandemic and that you find ways to keep positive. Music gets me through everything, as does talking to ppl like friends n family, and having a lot of me time. If you need something to do, maybe respark your old passion you had that never left you, or do something you don’t usually do maybe.. or just keep doing whatever it is you’re doing cuz you like it haha idk. Keep living and looking forward to the better days! Cuz there will be better days :) 🤍

[gayscapades]

Hope y’all are having a great day! Every single one of you are beautiful!! (except the trump supporters, homophobes, racists, nazi’s, etc if any)

xo pooh 😘