The devotional blowjob...A lingual offering of appreciation. You know I love the esoteric, the divine realms, the high temple arts... And I extra love calling down the heavens to saturate the mundane. For most of my life as a sexual being, I hated fellatio. It felt performative, pornographic, and derogatory - I avoided it. Through my healing journey, I came to a point where I decided that I didn’t want to say no to something just because I’d never had access to a different relationship with it. I read interviews by the professionals (wink), I looked for tips and tricks, and I reached out to a friend of mine who had a much better relationship with this skill to teach me. We had several Zoom meetings where she allowed me to share how I felt, and she taught me the logistics. I sought out my own healing. I wanted to change my mind. And change my mind I have. Oral devotion as an incredible gift, for the giver and receiver. It is deeply bonding. It is a powerful way for a man to receive love, attention, appreciation. I have had clients that struggle to receive in this way in their intimate relationships - they themselves have bought into the lie that women don't enjoy it. If this is your man, I invite you to show sweet enthusiasm that you'd like to continue. Imagine the narratives that he has running that would lead him to that place - be patient and persistent. There is a deep devotion in the act of oral worship. It is an act of love. Depending on the position you prefer, it can be a clear act of worship. Bow before you begin. For many men, having a woman willingly and reverently worship their c--k without manipulation, expectation, or performance, is almost too much to take in. It can trigger self-worth wounds. It can awaken long-buried shame and crack open the heart. It is also play - it's a moment where cock can be free to do as it pleases... for the giver to explore and celebrate all the stages of size, texture and color. It can be slow and gentle, or deep and hungry, or reverent and adoring, or spicy and assertive. Allow yourself to delight in it, and for him to witness your delight. It dances across the line of devotional service and being in control. Physiologically the giver can play with being in control vs having the receiver be in control. The giver can offer their body in devotion, or they can command stillness in the receiver and 'take' what they want. There is a wide spectrum of power dynamics. Devotional oral devotion doesn’t follow the porn script. It’s not about power-over nor about technique alone. It’s about reprogramming the body to know that pleasure and reverence can coexist. The cock is not a nuisance or a liability. It is a living, breathing wand of life force. And when honored in devotion, it can awaken something primal, sacred, and tender in both giver and receiver. Let’s also speak to the historical wound: For centuries, simply having a cock placed a person higher in the hierarchy. It meant power, status, voice, safety. That history lives in the collective feminine body. In the deepest layers of the psyche, there can be a quiet resistance to physically worshipping something that has been used to dominate, exclude, or silence. Allow this to be in your awareness - you have the power, nay the privilege, to shift the tide of your lineage. To engage in cock worship from a place of sovereignty is to reclaim it as not only a sexual act but as a conscious choice to meet the masculine not in hierarchy, but in holiness. It is so simple for men. They love it - it's a gift for them. Don't buy them flowers. Give enthusiastic worship. ~ Amber Kelly
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