- How would you describe your desired relationship?
A partnership. One where we can grow together, learn from one another, and enjoy each other to the fullest. Supporting one another through good and bad times. Finding balance together. D/s would be part of day to day life in some fashion.
- In addition to love and affection, what are your main reasons for wanting a relationship?
I feel that it’s the one area of my life that’s truly lacking. I feel fulfilled with my family and my career but finding a partner to share my life with would be incredible.
- What is most likely to make you interested in someone?
Assertiveness. Attractiveness of both the physical and intellectual kind. Eyes, nice eyes, I have a thing for them. Speaking voice.
- Let's say you and your partner have been invited to a friend's wedding. As you get ready for the party, which thoughts are you most likely to be thinking?
First and foremost I’d be thinking about my friend. I’d be hoping that their day would be beautiful and memorable and perfect for them. I’d just be happy to be part of that special moment and grateful that they wanted my partner to be there to share it with them. Secondly, I’d be worried about my appearance- that I’m dressed appropriately for the event. No one wants an eye sore in their photos.
- Why do you think you're single?
I know exactly why. My career. According to the Media I’m in a happy relationship but in reality I am very much as single as I’ve always been. I’m part of a business contract not a partnership. I’ve been too busy with going after my goals as an actress to have time to truly form a relationship. Sex is one thing but I’ve never really experienced emotions or strings being attached.
- If you find a book or article particularly interesting, do you want your partner to read it as well?
Only if they want to. I’ll probably tell them about it but if they aren’t interested then I wouldn’t expect them to read it.
- What do you think about cheating in a relationship?
- What do you want your partner to like about you?
I want them to like the me that the public doesn’t see before they like the me that’s won all the awards. I want them to like the girl with the books, who speaks three languages, and scrunches her nose at the mention of her full name, I want them to like the freckles that I often hide from the world, I want them to just like me.
- In BDSM, do you see yourself as a specific subtype (brat, sadist, pet, rigger...) or do you prefer exploration?
I prefer to explore but from the few encounters I’ve had and the many fantasies I do know I like pain. Probably a masochist? I also know I’m interested in someone taking control outside the bedroom.
- What draws your to your preferred BDSM role?
I have to constantly be in control of myself and my emotions day to day. I’m attracted to letting go and letting someone else take the reigns.