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gray-melody:
Gregorian chanting for sure. I’d say nightcore, too. Or any type of parody music, though that’s just more because I know what types of people listen to those and I’m not into the vibe they give off.
I was about to ask what nightcore was, but then remembered Google is a thing, so all I have to say is that I am slightly terrified of that style. More power to the people who produce such music, but I don’t see myself listening to it for enjoyment.
honeysucklesub:
There’s nothing better than walking past a local bakery on your way to work and smelling all the delights on sale is there? Yes, I make almost anything that I can get my hands on. I’m a particular fan of cinnamon rolls and Japanese fuffy cheesecake at the moment. Some of them would rather be ballerinas, but they’re going through a bit of phase at the moment of just putting teacher in front of any career they fancy. So racing teacher, pop star teacher etc. It must be nice to get to teach a variety of ages and seeing the progress. I think it’s definitely the point to see them enjoy it and to fall in love with the thing that you’re passionate about.
I have to admit, doing so always puts a smile on my face, even if I don’t stop in. I don’t believe I know what a Japanese fluffy cheesecake is, but none of those words sound like negative things. Oh! Well in that case, I would be happy to welcome them to the ranks of us teachers. It is. I don’t think I could only do one age group. They’re so different, and it keeps me on my toes to try and figure out what works best- Sorry, I’m rambling a bit. But yes, I would ideally like to take a few of them to competitions, if they were interested. But I don’t think I’m there yet with the studio I work at.
genevieve-morales:
You’d be surprised. It seems you happen to be in that small percentage of genuine, kind people. It’s perhaps the only thing I don’t love about my career. What do you do? I mean, if you don’t mind me asking- if so feel free to ignore that.
Well, those are two things that I strive to be, so I’m glad it shows. I’m a ballet instructor. Nothing all that glamorous as being a celebrity. But it’s simple, and I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t dance, so I can’t complain.
lacomtesse:
Perhaps. It’s impossible to know how the world will be like 50 years from now. As things stand today, I sincerely doubt it. Obviously there are people in the world trying to make it a better place, but even them measure their success in how much money they raise, and very often it ends in competition with somebody else. But then again, this is mindset I was raised to have, so it is possible that my feelings on this subject are a reflection of that. Mother is… cutthroat.
And you. If this service is as good as advertised, I’m sure you’ll find a partner in no time. Ha, yes, bold does describe me rather well. I have sat through horrible conversations before, and there have been times the dinner was cut short, but I also feel this is necessary. If I’m going to find what hopefully will be a lifelong partner, I want to dedicate that time to know about the other woman. What kind of judgement can I pass on someone after fifteen minutes? Thirty? I feel like making an effort to know someone is the very least thing I can do.
Yeah... yeah, that sounds more realistic than the image in my head. But if not for the dreamers, I suppose things would never change. Just stay the same forever, and I think that’s worse than things getting harder than they already are. Ah, yeah, I know the feeling. About a mother that is never satisfied, I mean. I think her preference would have been if I thought more like you.
I’ll take that as a vote of confidence then. That’s... actually not a bad way to put it. I suppose though that things are slightly easier when you are only focused on women. Men tend to be... much more hit or miss. But it’s a good quality, not being quick to judge or make assumptions. Most things would go smoother if more people were like that. But now you have to answer the ever cliche question, what’s the worst date you’ve been on?
gray-melody:
Yeah, for real. It’s nice having the training. You’d think all types of music would be a good bonding tool, but I’ve found that some genres are just no gos for that.
Yes, exactly. Just... let your brain go and let instinct take over. What genres do you think are the no gos? Country? Rap? Gregorian chanting?
lacomtesse:
There’s place for idealism, sure, but that place is usually far from where the money is made the power is held. I don’t think anyone would disagree that it would be better to live in a perfect world, bu to bring that world into existence requires sacrifices people aren’t willing to make. We’re not looking to catch flies, we’re looking to make money for our companies.
I’ve met people far more jaded than you in this website, dear. But I have to say I feel very similarly to you. I might not believe in soulmates in the classical meaning of the world, but I can put up with a website that will help me find a suitable partner if I pay them enough. A nice dinner, maybe a good exhibition. Still focused on conversation but far more interesting than drinking coffee.
Do you think it will always be that way? Where compassion and money are bitter enemies and you can’t have both at the same time? Perhaps it’s that pesky idealism showing through, but I feel like.. if there were at least a few companies who are willing to include that in their meetings. Not just how much money is made, but the good bestowed on people. I wonder if that would be a better way to measure success.
It’s nice to know that I’m not alone in that thought process at least. I hope it works out for you, and that you are able to find the kind of person you’re looking for. You’re a dinner for the first date kind of woman? Bold. You’re committing to at least two hours of potentially horrible conversation.
honeysucklesub:
Not really, I find the whole process really satisfying and it makes the whole house smell amazing. Wow! A ballet instructor, I’m pretty sure that’s the dream job of like half the little girls in my class at school. Do you teach kids or adults?
That’s very understandable. I bet it does smell very nice, like the bakeries you walk past. Do you make things other than bread? No, I think they’d probably rather be ballerinas, but hopefully they still love the art. Both, mostly children. There aren’t a lot of adults who are looking to learn, but I do enjoy the teen classes. Kids who never got into it when they were young, the ones who don’t care about perfect technique and form, but are smiling when they dance. Isn’t that the point, after all?
luca-ortiz-fernandez:
See, it’s all a matter of perspective, right? Hm, depends on the context. Like, going out for a drink or a coffee or something? Sure! But, for like, tying me up or me pegging them? I don’t want to lie to you- those options tend to take a couple more DMs than a girl might send on just one Friday night.
Hey, no worries! We all start somewhere, right? I’m Luca, by the way. Or, la carmesí, if you want to be formal.
Oh! Okay, yes that makes much more sense. I don’t.. I don’t know if I could have sex with someone that soon after meeting them. But that’s just me! No judgment on anyone else who likes that. I think I’m still a little too shy for that.
La... carmesi? Is that.. a title? I’m Mac. No.. other name. Just Mac.
genevieve-morales:
It is… but the public wants what the public wants and there are plenty of people in the industry more than willing to cash in on it. Saying no is career suicide in most cases. There’s a clause in my contract. I’m allowed relationships as long as they are kept quiet. The contract renews every half season unless I or he end up in a serious relationship. Or if the show gets canceled.
Is that really what the public wants though? I dunno... I feel like, if I really liked someone famous, I’d want them to be happy, whatever that meant, not some show that an executive thinks I’d enjoy. It seems kind of.. well, controlling. And not in a good way.
EROS TASK #001
- How would you describe your desired relationship?
My desired relationship would be with someone who can see the real me. Not the one attached to the name or the family, but the me that has always felt like I don’t fit in there. Someone who treats me with kindness and respect, who chooses compassion over cruelty. Mostly, I want someone who puts in the effort, without expecting something extra in return.
- In addition to love and affection, what are your main reasons for wanting a relationship?
Part of it is vanity and insecurity. I am... reaching an age where being single is no longer acceptable, at least to the people in my circles. While part of me would love a prince(ss) to sweep me off my feet, I have to be pragmatic about this sort of thing. At least this way, with the anonymity, I can almost pretend it’s like the fairytales.
- What is most likely to make you interested in someone?
A willingness to treat a relationship as a balance. When a person gives just as much as they take. Being able to admit mistakes, even if it’s just to themselves. Someone who is genuine. The sneaky ones think that we can’t tell, but I have a sixth sense about that sort of thing.
- Let’s say you and your partner have been invited to a friend’s wedding. As you get ready for the party, which thoughts are you most likely to be thinking?
That I hope my friend is happy, and that nothing ruins the day for her. And yes, I would be thinking about when it would be my chance to have my day. I don’t imagine other people wouldn’t. But I also wouldn’t be selfish enough to ruin my friend’s day with that.
- Why do you think you’re single?
Ha, would you like the long version or the short version? My upbringing played a part, not being able to step out on my own until far later than I should have, a very unpleasant end to my last relationship. There are many reasons why I’m single, but I would say it’s more relevant to ask what I’m doing about it. And that’s what signing up on this website was supposed to do.
- If you find a book or article particularly interesting, do you want your partner to read it as well?
I wouldn’t force anyone to do something if they really don’t want to, but at least some general interest would be... considerate. But I’m quite used to having my interests dismissed so I really wouldn’t be missing anything I suppose.
- What do you think about cheating in a relationship?
Well... this is complicated. Because while I’d like to say that I would never, that would just make me a hypocrite. I suppose the answer is.. I wouldn’t ever again. While I didn’t cheat on someone, I.. was willingly the other woman. Blinded by an older man, the same tragic story. I’ve seen firsthand the pain that cheating causes and I never want to be a part of that again.
- What do you want your partner to like about you?
Is it cheesy if I say everything? I want them to like the little things, the way I laugh or the type of tv shows I like. I just don’t want to have to pretend to be someone else, just to get them to like me. I’ve been doing that for too long.
- In BDSM, do you see yourself as a specific subtype (brat, sadist, pet, rigger…) or do you prefer exploration?
I don’t really know. Maybe pet? Or slave maybe? I like the idea of giving up total control but.. not all the time. I would lean into exploring though. I try to be open to new experiences.
- What draws your to your preferred BDSM role?
The fact that I don’t have a single Dominant bone in my body? I was raised not to ask for things. That if I wasn’t allowed to want. In some ways, I guess it turned into a thing where... I don’t know how to find pleasure if someone isn’t there to tell me I want it.
gray-melody:
Yup, structure– Totally get that. There’s a reason I’m a violinist. It can be rigid as fuck learning until you learn to move out of it within reason. I figure the same’s with ballet. Because you want every dancer to have their own flavor– if they’re a soloist, I mean. Music makes the world go ‘round, doesn’t it?
Exactly. And when you feel off or otherwise like something isn’t clicking, there’s always something to fall back on. Like riding a bicycle, or at least that’s what people say. It does. Lyrics, no lyrics, regardless of the instrument. I think it transcends most barriers.
luca-ortiz-fernandez:
Hey, it never hurts to scream into the void every now and again. Friday nights are for sliding into DMs, you know? So that your Saturday nights can be more fun. That’s my theory, anyway.
If you don’t find any takers for next weekend, I’m always down for new friends and new hang outs.
I... have literally never thought about it like that before, but I suppose there is something to be said about planning ahead? Do you normally find that people are interested in moving that quickly?
Oh- I.. yes? Sorry, I don’t... know exactly what the protocol is for such things.
genevieve-morales:
It will certainly be interesting to see how things unfold.
Yes, they do. For instance- did you follow that relationship between the two lead stars on that television show Glee? It was a PR stunt to cover up the fact that she was sleeping with one of the other actresses. Mine is simply to promote for the series I’m in, get more people excited about our on screen chemistry and invested far more than they should be.
I... did not know that, no. I think that was a bit after my time. But that’s... rather complicated and unfortunate that people are exploiting romance like that. Especially with all the prejudice against people who are different. Can you say no? Like, if you found someone on this app, what would happen?
lacomtesse:
In a perfect world, you’re probably right. As things stand today, you’re going to be more respected by sticking to your convictions, even if you’re wrong. If not, you’re soft, a pushover. Are you fit to be a leader if the people under you are making the decisions? I don’t disagree that this kind of behavior is childish at best, but these have been the rules for a long time now. I would be lying if I said it didn’t work for me as well.
You mention fairy dust but you seem to take a very logical approach to a website offering you a soulmate. It’s curious. I will say, however, I share the same hopes you do. Honesty, I think, is the best this platform has to offer, even if we’re hiding our names when we talk. You are old fashioned, and you have a terrible taste in first dates — I can’t possibly think of a more boring location to spend time with someone. …But I haven’t exactly have many good first dates, so maybe I shouldn’t be saying much on the subject.
Even if we don’t live in a perfect world, shouldn’t we still strive to try and make it the best one we can? But... you probably have more expertise in this than I do, so I will defer to that. I will say though, despite what others might think, there’s nothing wrong with being soft. Honey and vinegar and flies and all that.
Fairy dust is a luxury I can afford, but I don’t go purposely deluding myself about things in the world. Or at least, I try to not do that anymore. Are soulmates real? Maybe, but there’s no way to know for sure. I do know for sure, however, that some people would seek to capitalize on people like me and our romantic ideals. You can call me jaded in that way. What would your ideal first date setting be then?
gray-melody:
Dance, huh? Nice. Like ballet or modern..? Walking stereotype or no, people really exist like that.. obviously, so you’re not alone in that, at least. But one thing we have in common, I’m not a native either.
Ballet. It was on the list of approved activities and I liked the structure it gave me. It just seems... nice to be able to live like that. Anonymously and having fun like no one is looking. Usually my anxiety doesn’t relax about that kind of thing, but I’m trying. We have more than one, I think. I saw that you are a violinist. I danced to some of the composers you mentioned.
gray-melody:
Nope. Fun thing about being me is that no one wants to live with the school bike. As if they expect I don’t have decency or common courtesy. Don’t worry about it, though. I’m sure she’ll wake up tomorrow and realize what a bitch she is and everything will be hunky dory.
I- oh. That’s... I fail to see what having a healthy sex life is so shameful but I suppose I have more of a brain than most. Will... that actually happen, or are you just saying that?
genevieve-morales:
I do! At least I want to believe in it. Do you? Plus, it’ll be a nice change from the current PR relationship I’m in. It’s a total nightmare.
I want to believe in it, but I don’t think I do, not really. I don’t think you can program an app to find soulmates. Oh.. wow, people actually do that? I thought that was just in the movies...