[sukinthings]

Request for an aesthetic for Jasper who feels betrayed by everyone.

[everythingsukin]

Aesthetic for a Peach Jasper raised on Earth Lived in Iceland, was a Taurus Mod Ambergris~

[vpandav]

Mendakos

[vpandav]

Find 5 mistakes!

[gentlegiantjasper]

@magicalmerkitten, @sanriosnowkitten, @sacredcat54

[pebblepatch]

shhhhh, the council is meeting..

[ears-awake-eyes-opened]

“Some children decide that accommodating their parents’ wishes is the safest way to survive in a world of powerful adults and best way to win their parents acceptance and love. They try to be good and not make waves. “Good” means what parents want. Their parents may have had high expectations, been critical, had rigid rules, withheld love or approval, or punished them for “mistakes,” dissent, or showing anger. Some children learn to acquiesce merely by observing their parents’ actions with each other or another sibling. When parental discipline is unfair or unpredictable, children learn to be careful and cooperative to avoid it. Many of us are more sensitive and have a low tolerance for conflict or separation from parents due to genetic makeup, early interactions with parents, or a combination of various factors.

Unfortunately, becoming a people-pleaser sets us on a path of becoming alienated from our innate, true self. The underlying belief is that who we are isn’t lovable. Instead, we idealize being loved as a means to self-worth and happiness to the point that we crave it. Our need to be accepted, understood, needed, and loved causes us to be compliant and self-effacing. We conclude, “If you love me, then I’m lovable.”…

Preserving our relationships is our uppermost mandate. We strive to be lovable and charitable and reject character traits that we decide won’t serve that goal. We can end up squelching entire chunks of our personality that are incompatible, like showing anger, winning competitions, exercising power, getting attention, setting boundaries, or disagreeing with others. Even when not asked, we willingly give up separate interests that would mean time away from a loved one. The slightest look of disappointment (which we may inaccurately infer) is enough to deter us from doing something on our own.

Assertiveness feels harsh, setting limits feels rude, and requesting that our needs be met sounds demanding. Some of us don’t believe we have any rights at all. We feel guilty expressing any needs, if we’re even aware of them. We consider it selfish to act in our self-interest. We may even have been called selfish by a selfish parent or spouse. Our guilt and fear of abandonment may be so strong that we stay in an abusive relationship rather than leave…

We’re not aware that each time we hide who we are to please someone else, we give up a little self-respect. In the process, our true self (what we really feel, think, need, and want) retreats a bit more. We become accustomed to sacrificing our needs and wants for so long that we may not know what they are. Decades of conveniently accommodating “just this time” whittles away at our connection to our true self, and our lives and relationships begin to feel empty of joy and passion.

It’s possible to change and find our voice, our power, and our passion. It requires getting reacquainted with that Self we’ve hidden, discovering our feelings and needs, and risking asserting and acting on them. It’s a process of raising our sense of self-worth and self-esteem and healing the shame we may not even know that we carry, but it’s a worthy adventure of self-reclamation.

Darlene Lancer, “Are You a People-Pleaser”

[sukinthings]

positive jasper aesthetic for anon

[sukinthings]

Aesthetic for a happy Jasper!

[aesithetic]

🔶 jasper kin aesthetic 🔶

[gentlegiantjasper]

Reblogging this again cuz it’s nice

[thegoldencelt]

The Wheel of the Year

The Wheel of the Year is an annual cycle of seasonal festivals, observed by many modern Pagans. It consists of either four or eight festivals: either the solstices and equinoxes, known as the “quarter days”, or the four midpoints between, known as the “cross quarter days”.

The festivals celebrated by differing sects of modern Paganism can vary considerably in name and date. Observing the cycle of the seasons has been important to many people, both ancient and modern, and many contemporary Pagan festivals are based to varying degrees on folk traditions.

In many traditions of modern Pagan cosmology, all things are considered to be cyclical, with time as a perpetual cycle of growth and retreat tied to the Sun’s annual death and rebirth.

Yule/Winter Solstice: a festival observed by the historical Germanic peoples, later undergoing Christian reformulation resulting in the now better-known Christmastide. A celebration the beginning of longer days, as this is the shortest day of the year in terms of sunlight. 

Imbolc: the first cross-quarter day following Midwinter this day falls on the first of February and traditionally marks the first stirrings of spring. It is time for purification and spring cleaning in anticipation of the year’s new life.  For Celtic pagans, the festival is dedicated to the goddess Brigid, daughter of The Dagda and one of the Tuatha Dé Danann.

Among witches reclaiming tradition, this is the  time for pledges and dedications for the coming year. Ostara/Spring Equinox: from this point on, days are longer than the nights. Many mythologies, regard this as the time of rebirth or return for vegetation gods and celebrate the spring equinox as a time of great fertility.

Germanic pagans dedicate the holiday to their fertility goddess, Ostara. She is notably associated with the symbols of the hare and egg. Her Teutonic name may be etymological ancestor of the words east and Easter. Beltrane: traditionally the first day of summer in Ireland, in Rome the earliest celebrations appeared in pre-Christian times with the festival of Flora, the Roman goddess of flowers, and the Walpurgis Night celebrations of the Germanic countries. 

Since the Christianization of Europe, a more secular version of the festival has continued in Europe and America. In this form, it is well known for maypole dancing and the crowning of the Queen of the May.

Litha/Summer Solstice: one of the four solar holidays, and is considered the turning point at which summer reaches its height and the sun shines longest.

Luchnassad/Lammas: It is marked the holiday by baking a figure of the god in bread and eating it, to symbolize the sanctity and importance of the harvest. Celebrations vary, as not all Pagans are Wiccans.  

The name Lammas (contraction of loaf mass) implies it is an agrarian-based festival and feast of thanksgiving for grain and bread, which symbolizes the first fruits of the harvest. Christian festivals may incorporate elements from the Pagan Ritual.

Mabon/Autumn Equinox: a Pagan ritual of thanksgiving for the fruits of the earth and a recognition of the need to share them to secure the blessings of the Goddess and the God during the coming winter months. The name Mabon was coined by Aidan Kelly around 1970 as a reference to Mabon ap Modron, a character from Welsh mythology. Among the sabbats, it is the second of the three Pagan harvest festivals, preceded by Lammas / Lughnasadh and followed by Samhain.

Samhain: considered by some as a time to celebrate the lives of those who have passed on, and it often involves paying respect to ancestors, family members, elders of the faith, friends, pets, and other loved ones who have died. In some rituals the spirits of the departed are invited to attend the festivities. It is seen as a festival of darkness, which is balanced at the opposite point of the wheel by the festival of Beltane, which is celebrated as a festival of light and fertility.

[occultduality]

I’ve got another quick and easy tarot trick for y’all! The featured card for this one is The Hermit because I always associate it with taking time to care for yourself. 1. Find The Hermit in your deck. 2. The card below is what’s stressing or draining you. 3. The card above is something you can do for yourself.

hope it helps make somebody’s day a bit better!

[meridianriver]

Send me a number (song edition!)

[gentlegiantjasper]

1. Your current favorite song

2. A song that used to be your favorite, but now you don't like

3. A song that used to be your favorite that you still like

4. A song that you're embarrassed to like

5. A song that reminds you of another period in your life

6. A song that reminds you of a place you've been

7. A song from a genre you don't usually listen to

8. A song you loved when you were a little kid

9. A song you loved 5 years ago

10. A song that reminds you of your childhood

11. A song that reminds you of your best friend

12. A song that reminds you of someone you hate

13. A song that reminds you of your current partner/crush

14. A song that reminds you of an ex

15. A song that makes you want to fall in love

16. A song that makes you want to cry

17. A song that makes you want to slay your enemies

18. A song that you work out to

19. A song that you've seen performed live

20. A song that you've listened to on repeat recently

21. Your top most played song on iTunes

22. A song that motivates you to work/helps you focus

23. A song from the soundtrack of your favorite video game/movie/TV show

24. A song that you think is really overplayed

25. A song that you listened to ironically, but now you genuinely love

26. A song that reminds you of your favorite fictional character

27. A song that best describes your personality

28. A song that represents "your aesthetic"

29. A song that cheers you up when you're sad

30. A song from a band that you've grown up loving

31. A song that you want to cover (regardless of how much talent you have)

32. A song that you think has an important message

33. A song whose message you don't like

34. Your favorite song that's a cover of another song

35. A song that sends chills down your spine

36. A song that best describes your current emotion

37. A song that helped you through a difficult time in your life

38. A song that you think is underrated

39. Your favorite instrumental (no lyrics/singing) song

40. A song by a band from your hometown

41. A song from the year you were born

42. Your favorite "old" song (pre-90s)

43. A song that makes you laugh

44. A song from your favorite musical

45. Your favorite Disney song

46. A song that you wish more people knew about

47. A song that you love to dance to

48. A song that you can't help but sing along

49. A song whose lyrics you have memorized

50. Free slot! Any song you want to share!

[gnine2]

[cayennecrush]

yeeeees, pearl can be very soft and gentle with jasper, and despite jasper LOVING fighting… maybe sometimes its nice to be treated gently u know 💕 

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[cayennecrush]

@dog-dick-tier sent me a pic of some hella cute panties to draw jasp in i may have taken some artistic liberties hhhhrghhrhg

[howlsofhome]