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im about to pine: i have trauma nightmares a lot i want someone to hold my hand and tell me it's ok im soft

it’s okay, my dear. you’ll be okay and you deserve to be held and reassured of that. ♡

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oh! will u tell us about who you’ve fallen in love with?

you all know him as c, i know him as my best friend, my soulmate, and my boyfriend ♡

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i’ve fallen in love

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“i’m here, i’m here. you’re safe, i promise.”

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My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for two years now. My family and friends get skeptical of him a lot because he has a lot of problems with anxiety preventing him from being present in the relationship, and we live an hour apart so that means I don’t see him a lot. I know he cares about me more than most things in his life but it really does get to me sometimes when the people closest to me doubt me so much because I do love him. I don’t know if there’s anything to say but. Yeah.

i think as long as you do what you think feels right, you should be okay. at the same time, look at the relationship logically and consider if you’re happy with the back and forth going on. you can’t always take care of him, love. he has to learn to take care of himself for his own benefit and that’ll transfer to your relationship. good luck ♡

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i would lose a piece of myself if i lost you

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2nd update!!! from the ~help me shut off my feelings kid~ i told my best friend i have feelings for her this morning!! and she still has feelings!! she’s liked me for two years!! what is my life!!!!! we’re still discussing our feelings and our expectations and what happens now and honestly this whole day has been a haze for both of us, but things are so so good and i am so so damn happy :) life is good :)

i’m happy for you! you took a chance and it paid off pretty well. good luck, my dear. let me know how this progresses for both of you ♡

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I’ve been with my bf for 3 years - since we were 17. I adore him.But it is hard to be in such a longterm relationship from so young, for me anyway. I love the excitement of new crushes etc and recently I met this person that I have mad chemistry with and I know he likes me. I would never do anything to hurt my bf but I can’t stop thinking about new guy, and it’s so nice to feel new crush feels. I want to do the right thing but I feel so close to wanting to just go into the unknown for once..

if the unknown involves hurting your boyfriend with infidelity, it’s best not to do that... but that’s ultimately your decision. i think if i was your boyfriend, i would want to know about your changing feelings so we could come to a decision together

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i’m going to marry this boy

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My best friend was originally home schooled and she recently started going to our public school this year. I mentioned in passing some of the people I've become really good friends with over the years while she's been home schooled and this includes my male best friend (who also happens to be my crush). So she is now acquainted with my friends and has developed a crush on my crush. Today I found out that they were doing some not so kid-friendly things during study hall. 1/2

2/2 Neither of them are aware of my crush but it still hurts to see them like this even though he says he doesn't want to date anyone. I know I'm not exactly being fair but like they've known each other for less than a week.

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there’s nothing else i can tell you other than i’m sorry, my dear. some people just click once they meet and there isn’t much we can do about it. let yourself heal and be safe ♡

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There's this sophomore I met recently. Hes easygoing and funny and can be sweet. He dresses professionally when school calls for it and today we both had worn our suits. I liked his new haircut and applauded him when he spoke up in class. He likes to play video games when he's resting. The issue is I am a senior and I'm concerned about the fact I like a boy so young, and what he might think of me.

my ex-girlfriend and i started dating when i was a sophomore and she was a senior. if C and i had gone to the same high school, i would’ve been a junior when he was a senior, but we still have a 2 year age gap. so i personally don’t see a problem? i’m not the best authority to ask on this, unfortunately. i think this is more up to what you and he think, assuming you share mutual feelings. sorry i couldn’t be of more help, hon

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i've been crazy in love with my best friend for about 6 months. i don't want to stop liking her but i don't think she feels the same towards me. im too scared to make a move too, i value our friendship so much i just don't know what to do. my feelings only grow the more i see her though, and even if she was cool still being friends i would be too embarrassed to see her. what do i do?? p. s. love ur blog ❤

maybe start making it a little more obvious? or shoot your shot and if it doesn’t land, let her know you still want to be friends, you just need some individual time to recover. remember, make the decision that will give you the best closure

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I realized recently that I’ve developed pretty strong feelings for a friend and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m going to school in Nor Cal and he’s going to school in So Cal. I’ve tried to push the feelings down and seek out other people but I can’t make myself be interested in anyone but him. Most of the time I like the idea of being with someone and once I realize that then the feelings go away but I’ve examined these feelings every which way and I just really like him. Help! 🙈

since you’re both moving away, you could shoot your shot and do long distance if it lands, but that would have to be something you’re both comfortable doing and have trust in each other to do. plus, if you get shot down, you have the comfort of knowing you’re going to a different place from where he’s going, so you can start over. either way, good luck, dear ♡

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!! update !! recently i asked how to shut off feelings for my best friend. but things have been so good & we held hands/cuddled at a party last night! im a little nervous things will be weird or stiff when i see her tmrw, or even worse nothing will have changed at all. last night i was so sure she has feelings for me too, but i woke up and it’s hard to believe it even happened. i thought it was a dream for a minute. do u think i should keep pushing the envelope or let it be for a bit?

i would say keep pushing it only if you’re completely prepared to face the consequences if things result less than favorably. otherwise, let it be for a little bit and see if your friend starts to push more towards you. feelings have to be reciprocated. good luck ♡

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I have a boyfriend, and we’ve been together for quite a while now. But I met someone a little while ago and I fell hard. Harder than I ever have for sure. I’ve tried really hard to get over it because it’s not that I don’t still love my s/o, but I can’t manage to keep my mind off this other guy. I feel bad for keeping this a secret, but I can’t bring myself to do that to him and it’s not like I even have a chance with this other friend anyway. Do I talk about it to either of them? And how?

i think you should bring this up to your boyfriend and also make it very, very clear that you have no intention of acting on your feelings for the other person. we’re only human so finding attraction in someone is completely normal, it’s just up to your boyfriend to be understanding and up to you not to break his heart. good luck, dear ♡