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and now that my photoshop is working properly again, I can begin to make edits again !!!

#{ ; the trainer speaks }

beben-eleben

Chubby Puppies That Look Like Teddy Bears

im crying

im so happy

While I write up my story, please enjoy the best video I have ever recorded at the greatest concert happening on the planet right now.

#taylor swift

dancingdunphys-blog

modern family meme [4/5] whatever you want ➛ answering the phone

#modern family

nonbinary-totty-blog

I dare you to reblog with your bra size.

kidpxv

#34a #text.

favoriteintheworld

We’re junkies together. That makes us BFFs in my book.

#private practice #amelia shepherd

averagefairy

i like to push my body to the limit but not in the healthy living way more like in the how much pasta can i eat before im unable to physically move way

#text.#relatable.

thepetcollective

d0gbl0g

hmmmmm

essentially-inactive-deactivate

The new How To Train Your Dragon looks great.

#how to train your dragon #puppies

jenniferbarkley-deactivated2015

mrbenjiwyatt-blog

then & now

#parks and recreation

pondnaravit

#parks and recreation

aobas-cumface-deactivated201601

My 13 yearold sister got asked out as a joke today. She’s now locked herself in her room crying. I swear to god this is the most fucked up thing ever. She won’t speak to me or my mom and she’s blasting Taylor Swift but you can still hear her crying.

If you ask someone out as a joke, fuck you, you are literally the scum of the earth.

iceyu

Reblogged after the first sentence

#{ I've had this done to me time and time again. }#{ it's fucking pathetic and gross. }#text.#relatable

Amelia Shepherd ;; every episode → { Private Practice ;; Season 5, Episode 10. }

#amelia shepherd #caterina scorsone #private practice #grey's anatomy #my edits #amelia***

Amelia Shepherd ;; every episode → { Private Practice ;; Season 5, Episode 9. }

#amelia shepherd #caterina scorsone #private practice #grey's anatomy #amelia***#my edits

samandriel

How to give your kids trust issues and anxiety brought to you by privacy invading mormon Dad

crypticcorvid

See Also: How to further endanger people in abusive relationships, brought to you by privacy invading mormon Dad, with control issues.

samandriel

It’s honestly like Christian Grey level micromanaging. Do you wanna fuck up your kid? Because this is how you fuck up your kid.

aellagirl

My parents did this to me as a teenager. Nothing will ever match the horror of being called into your dad’s office at the age of 14 and him showing you screenshots of your own computer from the last several months. Screenshots of private conversations with online friends. Or records of my internet browsing history. And then my fundamentalist christian parents asked, “do you masturbate?” because they found I had signed up for this site called “okcupid” in order to do the fun personality quizzes they had on it. And okcupid was a “sex site.” And they would play mind games with me, pretending that they had been recording more of my activity than they actually had, but refusing to tell me how much, so I never really knew how much they actually knew, or how long they’d been spying on my computer, and I lived in constant fear of them pulling out a “WE KNOW YOU DID THIS, GOTCHA.” at any moment. Sometimes when I left the room they would sneak onto my computer and go through anything I had left open. I’m 23 now, and to this day I have a soul-crippling paranoia of anybody getting near my computer. Not even long term romantic partners. NOBODY touches my computer. Never ever ever ever.

sourcedumal

Because instead of actually communicating with your children, stalk them instead to manipulate them emotionally.

paramourblessings

This is terrifying and my parents did this to me constantly throughout my childhood. My mom hasn’t done it in the past year or so because I’ve been ‘good’ (I kind of just gave up on everything for awhile because of depression caused by my folks so I could do no wrong) and I still delete the history on the computer just in case. She still goes through my phone sometimes, though.

hawkyaly

Phone horror story: my parents went through my phone when I was young and dating this girl, but I didn’t want my parents to know. I was afraid if they would accept me, my mom being religious, and my dad being the most important person to me. So every night, my girlfriend and I would say goodnight and “I love you”. But my parents were suspicious, took my phone, went through it, and then hid it.

They then watched me run around the house in a blind panic trying to find my phone for /hours/. I finally figured out what happened, confronted them, and was sat down for hands down the worst talk I’d ever received. They asked me if I was dating this girl. I said yes. They asked me if I was a lesbian. I said no, I’m bisexual. They then proceeded to tell me that “bisexuality isn’t real, I have to pick, it’s just a phase” ect.

And that’s my coming out story. I didn’t “come out”. I was forced to admit my sexuality under interrogation after they invaded my privacy, and then ridiculed. I have nothing to hide now, but when someone goes through my phone, I freak out. I don’t tell my family when I’m dating someone, even if I’m happy with them.

So yeah. Wanna fuck up your child for life? Wanna cause a major rift in trust between you and your kid? Go through their shit, and wondering why your kid doesn’t tell you when something’s wrong /years/ later.

asdfasdfwef-deactivated20160404

Okay I don’t normally add things to posts but I’m going to tonight. I used to be in a relationship with a cis girl; if I may remind everyone, I, also, am a cis female. I live in the bible belt of the United States and one of the most terrible places you can be in: Texas. That means I was raised with and around people who STILL believe that gays/trans/anything apart from ‘the norm’ is going to hell/condemned/disgusting.

I was crushing on this girl of mine for a couple of years, and my parents took my phone one time because I got in trouble. They’d read all of our texts. All of them. Everything. And they forbid me from ever speaking to her again and ended up taking me to “Christian” therapy. This made me unbelievably depressed and when this happened, I got back into self harm. Still, when you’re forced to grow up doing things that make you happy in secret because your parents are super consesrvative, you get sneaky. Eventually this girl and I ended up in a relationship. So I dated this girl for THREE YEARS, long distance, ENTIRELY in secret. I had to clear my text messages every 5 minutes, couldn’t EVER talk to her on the phone (except for when I finally got my car and was allowed to go our by myself, in which, I still had to be careful) and it made us both MISERABLE. If they found out we were talking not only would we not be able to again, but they wanted to place a restraining order on her just so that it would be IMPOSSIBLE for us talk again. All because they were MORTIFIED of me ‘being gay’.

And I’m not exaggerating. They would check the Verizon bills to see what numbers I’ve texted/called, would SNATCH my phone out of my and RANDOMLY and check through my messages/MSN, and I was subject to ‘random regular computer checks’. The girl I was with at this time had to pay $50 to get an area code that wasn’t the one they’d be looking for just so that we could text back and fourth without questions.

It destroyed me. It destroyed my sense of trust for my parents and even now, long after my relationship with this person has been ended and I am allowed and approved to date my current boyfriend, I still clear my texts out of pure fear and am still scared sometimes. I doubt they’d take my phone now that I’m nearly 21, but I have no idea and I can’t be too careful. I still haven’t come out to them as pansexual and probably wont ever.

If you love your children, don’t do this kind of shit to them. They’ll never trust you again.

backstageleft-deactivated202009

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, if you violate your child’s privacy in this way you’ll never earn their trust, you’re just creating a better liar.

pettydabblerinthedorkarts

This is not something your children will “understand” later; you will not be forgiven, you will not be confided in. You will create trust issues for your children for all of their future relationships. There is nothing about this that is ok.

#text.#psa