phallic worship, pt. 9: semen & what to do with it
If you follow my blog, you might have noticed that despite having thousands of posts related to oral sex, there is almost no semen on my blog. That’s because if you can see it, it’s probably been ejaculated onto a woman’s face/body, which is, in my opinion, a damn shame. So I don’t reblog that stuff. And anyone who asks will get the official line, “swallow it!” The other day I was talking to one of you fine Tumblr folk, and he told me that he preferred to come on a woman’s face or body because it was more “humiliating” for her. I didn’t ask for details but I’ve come across that before; I’m sure we all have: the idea that sex is a way for men to humiliate women, and that ejaculating on a woman’s face degrades her and puts her in her (inferior) place. I get it: that’s hot. And there are plenty of men who agree with him; I’ve flaked my fair share of dried cum off my face, to reveal the resultant glowing complexion. (Cue Liz Phair’s single Hot White Cum.)
But I wanted to address two issues as they regard phallic worship specifically. First, the idea that it is humiliating to have semen on a woman’s face. It isn’t. There are plenty of ways to humiliate a woman. Anointing her hungry body with your potent seed is kind of not in the same universe with them.
The second is that swallowing semen is not about degrading myself in front of you, or about suffering for your pleasure. I do it with pleasure and humility because I respect you, I want to absorb this highly erotic and intimate part of you - your masculine essence - into myself completely, I want to feel it inside me, I want to feel closer to you, I want your orgasm to be better, I want your gratification to be more complete.
If we say that it’s humiliating to have a man’s semen touch my face, are we saying that semen is disgusting? Are we saying that oral sex is degrading to women? And if it is, are we saying that men have something unwanted or unclean in their balls?
That’s not how the phallic worshipper’s mind works. Not at all!
To such a woman, it’s nothing short of an honor and a privilege, and there’s no distaste, degradation, or humiliation involved. It might not taste great (it varies pretty widely from man to man, and even a woman like me is perfectly capable of admitting that a lot of men don’t have tasty cum!) but it’s still going down the hatch in any case. And it’s happening whether it’s oral sex, manual sex, or coitus interruptus. If you don’t want me to swallow it, you’d better press that cock up against my cervix and hold me down.
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