CIARA GREHAN

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Christopher Esber Resort 2023 Campaign shot by Diana Bartlett

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Nedra Glover Tawwab, Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

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I believe that what we regret most are our failures of courage, whether it’s the courage to be kinder, to show up, to say how we feel, to set boundaries, to be good to ourselves. For that reason, regret can be the birthplace of empathy. When I think of the times when I wasn’t being kind or generous—when I chose being liked over defending someone or something that deserved defending—I feel deep regret, but I’ve also learned something: Regret is what taught me that living outside of my values is not tenable for me. Regrets about not taking chances have made me braver. Regrets about shaming or blaming people I care about have made me more thoughtful. Sometimes the most uncomfortable learning is the most powerful.

Brené Brown, Rising Strong

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so here it is. i loved him, yes. but loving him made me kind of hate myself. and that wasn’t good.

Warsan Shire (via thelovejournals)