My words live on ;

If u know me, u dont. This is my personal space.

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

[maviyenot]

[sophsun1]

The Office – 5.14: Stress Relief

[kainatsstuff]

Main Characters

Who Actually stole the Show

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

Bakit feeling ko isa din ako sa umalis sa hometown nila. Want more shows like this.

[diariodeunpoeta]

[inanotherunivrse]

in another universe, we talked about it

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

“I took you with me because I was vain. Because I wanted to be adored. Look at you—glorious Pond. The girl who waited for me. I’m not a hero. I really am just a madman in a box. And it’s time we saw each other as we really are.”

[weltenwellen]

Joy Sullivan, from “Culpable”, Instructions for Traveling West

[weltenwellen]

Joy Sullivan, Instructions for Traveling West

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

uhh siri

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

You said you wanted me raw

But when I stripped my flesh from skin to bones, you didn’t like what you saw.

Grief, confusion and longing.

On the first sight of my demons your first thought was to run.

Maybe anger was all I could muster up. Maybe peace is all I could feed it.

Your demons would’ve love me too if they’d decided to play nicely.

Your memories are scattered all over the place again and I just have enough strength to embrace them, tightly this time.

And just like the way our story always goes— I am lost again without my home.

[weltenwellen]

Margarita Karapanou, tr. by Karen Emmerich, Rien ne va plus

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

‘till I run out of gas. I’m so insane. And I’m so good at it.

I want to scream this all out.

[system-of-a-feather]

Oh man is it ever good to hear from another system that's primarily avoidant attached. We always felt kinda.. on the sidelines compared to other systems because we have a track record of stonewalling (moreso had for this one) and being able to competently mask vulnerability just enough. The whole "If we can't control our surroundings, we can at least control our reaction which is to give nothing" etc. It's something we've done a lot of work on as well, but it does feel lonely when extending a pinky towards others makes them feel like you hate them because you didn't extend your whole hand at the drop of a hat. At least take me out to dinner first (joke)

GOD RELATABLE MAN FUCK. Like look I'm giving you my pinky as a sign that I trust and love you and I KNOW most people offer their hand every time they meet you and a lot of the other traumatized folk here have an issue of jumping into your arms and we've kinda all grown used to that but its not cause I dont TRUST you thst you get just a pinky, its just that my baseline of openness and vulnerability is just that much higher ;=;

This pinky of mine means so much trust and its pathetic compared to others but please appreciate my attempt before I tie my hands behind my back ;;=;; (half joking and being melodramatic)

But honestly like, I know a lot of us with more avoidant attachment get sidelined by the nature of avoidant attachment making it so "we all look totally fine, have no notable attachment issues, dont look over here everythings normal and good nothing to see here" but yesterday I was really wanting to strangle my stubborn brain and went "MAN REAL TALK TIME ON TUMBLR DOT COM CAUSE IM GONNA THROW A BRICK OUT A WINDOW NOT CALLING THIS MALADAPTIVE BITCH HABIT OUT FOR BEING FRUSTRATING AS SHIT"

But yeah, solidarity among the avoidant attached fucks. We're quiet and definitely don't have issues at all but you know, solidarity over totally not having an issues what so ever. /j

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

If I lie against your chest with your hands lightly tracing down my bones, I will appreciate your modesty if you like what you saw— A rotten wood that cannot be carved into something valuable. You exhaust all your efforts yet will always be bound to misunderstand.

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

Something changed.

[givevoicetoyourthoughts]

I wish to be forgotten.