Defining Allure: “Allure is something that people would want to emulate because it helps foster relationships with others” As an alluring person, others want to be near to you, feel your love, and learn from you. As an alluring person, you draw goodness out of others and that is something many people look for in a friend, family member, or romantic relationship.”
feminine allure is very physical and somewhat spiritual. Of course mental because you cultivate that energy from your mind. But, spiritually you channel your divine feminine energy, you channel your desired self, your future self, your highest self and ask her for guidance.
Physically everything is involved from your hair down to your toes!!
There are many ways to embody and exude femininity. Your allure is your super power. Your ability to seduce men and even women will help you in every area of your life. I am going to expand on the topic of embodying and exuding feminine energy. This will be all physical! Let me know if you would want to know how to be an alluring spiritual being!!
Hair: find out what hairstyles work best for you! Look into what your face shape is and what hairstyles look best with it!
Play with your hair, flip your hair, touch it, and stroke it. This brings attention to how beautiful your hair is. This helps you get in touch with your goddess energy. I know I feel very pretty when I play with my hair and I feel powerful when I flip it. This may seem minor but I promise you it is far from minor. Your hair adds to your beauty and can for sure add to your overall allure.
Eyebrows and your EYES: oh my gosh you guys! If you master the way that you look with your eyes this is your ticket. Take notes from scorpio women! We make people feel like we see deep into their souls. This is a seduction tip for real. Your eyes can really be the ticket!!
Learn how to smile with your eyes. Identify what seductress eyes are for you and just flirtatious. There are different looks for when you are just being playful and flirting with someone on a first date. That is different from how you look when you are trying to seduce someone. This is the same with even those “puppy dog” eyes you may have used to get your way when you were younger! Tap into that! Practice mindfulness so that you can easily assess the energy around you so you know how you should use your alluring eye arsenal! Lol!
Eyebrows can really change how your face is and how it looks!! You should find out which arch would fit your face shape. I would say if you have a more round face, your eyebrows should be more rounded. If you have a more diamond shaped face you should have some nice arches with your eyebrows.
(I am being very specific so sorry if any of this advice is weird lol)
Ears: Put your hair behind your ear when you’re either flirting or talking to someone. Showing people that you are listening is so alluring because it makes you come off as caring. Even if you don’t care and you aren’t listening at all…that eye contact and putting your hair behind your ear can make someone feel great lol! I would recommend actually listening though. If you remember little details about the person you are talking to, that can make you even more alluring.
Mouth: Girl you better smile!! Have an RBF is NOT CUTE! that does not make you alluring if you think it does. You can seduce someone with your eyes and at least slightly smile. Don’t make yourself look unapproachable.
Laughing, showing true joy and excitement is alluring along with just showing your pretty teeth.
Also your voice can really add to your allure. Your voice can be sensual, flirty, kind, and positive. Make sure anytime you speak you should be adding value not tearing people down or anything. Sweetness is your weapon. I am not saying there is anything wrong with having an assertive voice but I am putting an emphasis on the power of the tongue and how your voice can have healing vibrations! You should use that only for good!! Why waste your voice on people or energy that is not adding to your goddess energy. By all means there are also other versions of femininty so figure out what works best for you. I would say if you are a more assertive or masculine lady, practice decorum. Cultivate that. Decorum helps you approach situations from a calm space but still get your point across. Work on that and if you need any help, dm me or comment on this and I can make a short post about it!
Neck: tilting your head to the side can add a lot of allure. This can point out certain features on you that you like! For example, if you life your jawline, cheekbones, or even your clavicle, tilting your head slightly can show off that facial structure.
Shoulders and Clavicle: This is another one of my favs!! Moving your shoulders can give a lot of different impressions but some basic things you should practice is: the way you move your shoulders when you are laughing or when you find something interesting. I do not know how to explain this but I bet you all have seen a woman laugh and push her shoulders forward in a way that was so feminine. That is what I am talking about!
You can ensentuate this area by wearing off the shoulder tops or skinny strap tops or dresses.
Arms: Let your arms be free! Allow them to flow effortlessly. This can add a lot of elegance which is my favorite form and expression of feminine allure.
You can hug people and just bring people in. This is a form of nurturing which is the pure essence of a feminine woman who is alluring. Being nurturing is extremely attractive. Cut out that cold hearted stuff ladies. Its not cute and hey even if you don’t care, at least fake it.
You can also touch your hair (I will add some picture examples of everything I am talking about)
