24 Invaluable Skills To Learn For Free Online This Year
Here’s an easy resolution: This stuff is all free as long as you have access to a computer, and the skills you learn will be invaluable in your career, and/or life in general.
1. Become awesome at Excel.
Chandoo is one of many gracious Excel experts who wants to share their knowledge with the world. Excel excellence is one of those skills that will improve your chances of getting a good job instantly, and it will continue to prove invaluable over the course of your career. What are you waiting for?
2. Learn how to code.
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Perhaps no other skill you can learn for free online has as much potential to lead to a lucrative career. Want to build a site for your startup? Want to build the next big app? Want to get hired at a place like BuzzFeed? You should learn to code. There are a lot of places that offer free or cheap online coding tutorials, but I recommend Code Academy for their breadth and innovative program. If you want to try a more traditional route, Harvard offers its excellent Introduction to Computer Science course online for free.
3. Make a dynamic website.
You could use a pre-existing template or blogging service, or you could learn Ruby on Rails and probably change your life forever. Here’s an extremely helpful long list of free Ruby learning tools that includes everything from Rails for Zombies to Learn Ruby The Hard Way. Go! Ruby! Some basic programming experience, like one of the courses above, might be helpful (but not necessarily required if you’re patient with yourself).
4. Learn to make a mobile game.
If you’re not interested in coding anything other than fun game apps, you could trythis course from the University of Reading. It promises to teach you how to build a game in Java, even if you don’t have programming experience! If you want to make a truly great game, you might want to read/listen up on Game Theory first.
5. Start reading faster.
Spreeder is a free online program that will improve your reading skill and comprehension no matter how old you are. With enough practice, you could learn to double, triple, or even quadruple the speed at which you read passages currently, which is basically like adding years to your life.
6. Learn a language!
With Duolingo, you can learn Spanish, French, Portuguese, Italian, or English (from any of the above or more). There’s a mobile app and a website, and the extensive courses are completely free.
Full disclosure: BuzzFeed and other websites are in a partnership with DuoLingo, but they did not pay or ask for this placement.
7. Pickle your own vegetables.
Tired of your farmer’s market haul going bad before you use it all? Or do you just love tangy pickled veggies? You too can pickle like a pro thanks to SkillShare and Travis Grillo.
8. Improve your public speaking skills.
You can take the University of Washington’s Intro to Public Speaking for free online. Once you learn a few tricks of the trade, you’ll be able to go into situations like being asked to present at a company meeting or giving a presentation in class without nearly as much fear and loathing.
9. Get a basic handle of statistics.
UC Berkeley put a stats intro class on iTunes. Once you know how to understand the numbers yourself, you’ll never read a biased “news” article the same way again — 100% of authors of this post agree!
10. Understand basic psychology.
Knowing the basics of psych will bring context to your understanding of yourself, the dynamics of your family and friendships, what’s really going on with your coworkers, and the woes and wonders of society in general. Yale University has its Intro to Psychology lectures online for free.
11. Make your own music.
Step one: Learn how to play guitar: Justin Guitar is a fine and free place to start learning chords and the basic skills you’ll need to be able to play guitar — from there, it’s up to you, but once you know the basics, just looking up tabs for your favorite songs and learning them on your own is how many young guitar players get their start (plus it’s an excellent party trick).
Step two: A delightful free voice lesson from Berklee College Of Music.
Step three: Have you always thought you had an inner TSwift? Berklee College of Music offers an Introduction to Songwriting course completely for free online. The course is six weeks long, and by the end of the lesson you’ll have at least one completed song.
Step four: Lifehacker’s basics of music production will help you put it all together once you have the skills down! You’ll be recording your own music, ready to share with your valentine or the entire world, in no time!
12. Learn to negotiate.
Let Stanford’s Stan Christensen explain how to negotiate in business and your personal life, managing relationships for your personal gain and not letting yourself be steamrolled. There are a lot of football metaphors and it’s great.
13. Stop hating math.
If you struggled with math throughout school and now have trouble applying it in real-world situations when it crops up, try Saylor.org’s Real World Math course. It will reteach you basic math skills as they apply IRL. Very helpful!
14. Start drawing!
All kids draw — so why do we become so afraid of it as adults? Everyone should feel comfortable with a sketchbook and pencil, and sketching is a wonderful way to express your creativity. DrawSpace is a great place to start. (I also highly recommend the book Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain if you can drop a few dollars for a used copy.)
15. Make your own animated GIF.
BuzzFeed’s own Katie Notopoulos has a great, simple guide to making an animated GIF without Photoshop. This is all you need to be the king or queen of Tumblr or your favorite email chains.
16. Appreciate jazz.
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Have you never really “gotten” jazz? If you want to be able to participate in conversations at fancy parties and/or just add some context to your appreciation of all music, try this free online course from UT Austin.
17. Write well.
Macalester College’s lecture series is excellent. If you’re more interested in journalism, try Wikiversity’s course selection.
18. Get better at using Photoshop.
Another invaluable skill that will get you places in your career, learning Photoshop can be as fun as watching the hilarious videos on You Suck At Photoshop or as serious as this extensive Udemy training course (focused on photo retouching).
19. Take decent pictures.
Lifehacker’s basics of photography might be a good place to start. Learn how your camera works, the basic of composition, and editing images in post-production. If you finish that and you’re not sure what to do next, here’s a short course on displaying and sharing your digital photographs.
20. Learn to knit.
Instructables has a great course by a woman who is herself an online-taught knitter. You’ll be making baby hats and cute scarves before this winter’s over!
21. Get started with investing in stocks.
If you are lucky enough to have a regular income, you should start learning about savings and investment now. Investopedia has a ton of online resources, including this free stocks basics course. Invest away!
22. Clean your house in a short amount of time.
Unf$#k Your Habitat has a great emergency cleaning guide for when your mother-in-law springs a surprise visit on you. While you’re over there, the entire blog is good for getting organized and clean in the long term, not just in “emergencies.” You’ll be happier for it.
23. Start practicing yoga.
Most cities have free community classes (try just searching Google or inquiring at your local yoga studio), or if you’re more comfortable trying yoga at home, YogaGlohas a great 15-day trial and Yome is a compendium of 100% free yoga videos. If you’re already familiar with basic yoga positions but you need an easy way to practice at home, I recommend YogaTailor’s free trial as well.
24. Tie your shoelaces more efficiently.
It’s simple and just imagine the minutes of your life you’ll save!
Summary: Jiyong fucked up--bad-- and he needs to fix it.
Kyoto, Japan 2015
The dancers kept to their huddle, stretching and kicking their legs occasionally to keep their limbs warm. Because it was sound check and rehearsal they had to stay close to the stage area, even though they weren't doing anything. The waiting was always the worst part.
At center stage, they could see the concert director drawing diagrams on a clipboard and talking to the present Big Bang members about changes that had to be made to accommodate the stage size. Their leader was noticeably absent.
Bored nearly to tears, Sarang nudged the dancer next to her and nodded towards the side of the stage. The other dancer nodded that she understood and Sarang walked quietly away. She rolled her neck and stretched her shoulders as she opened the creaking exit door, stepping into the sunshine. She sat on the edge of the loading dock, partially hidden by a pillar. While scanning through her Twitter feed and laughing at some of the memes, she heard a car screech to a halt and doors slam. She ignored it. There was a scuffling of feet that sort of captured her attention, but she didn't look up. Then, from the other side of the pillar, she heard yelling that she couldn’t ignore. It was partially in Japanese, some words were in Korean, but mostly the voices spoke in English.
“ . . . Not what I said!”
“Kumanhe! I don't want to fight!”
“If you don’t want to fight, why do you keep bringing it up?!”
That peaked Sarang's interest, but she knew whatever was happening on the other side of that pillar was none of her damn business. Hearing that their voices were getting louder and closer and that she was understanding more and more of what the fight was about, she knew it was time to go. She hastily stood to go back inside. At the door, she fumbled with the sticking latch and dropped her phone. She reached down to get it and looked over to see the absent leader and his model girlfriend looking back at her.
“I was already out here,” she told them with her hands up as if she had been caught. She pulled and pulled until the door opened at last, bowed slightly in their direction and ran inside.
“What took you so long?” one of the Kwon twins asked when she got back to the stage.
“I stepped out for some air and the door got stuck. Sorry.”
“Is that all that happened?” he asked with his eyebrow raised, looking over her shoulder to see Jiyong standing there; seething.
“That's all,” she answered as she moved to her spot. All of the dancers knew very well what wasn’t their business and to never speak, even among themselves, about things they saw in passing.
Standing in formation under the lights, Sarang couldn’t stop her brain from replaying that scene from outside. She had nothing personal against Kiko. From all that she could tell, Kiko was a perfectly fine human being. But Jiyong was obviously unhappy. It showed through in his lyrics, it was written all over his face, could be seen in his posture when the cameras weren't rolling. Kiko might not have been making him unhappy, but the relationship sure was.
Not that it was any of Sarang’s business.
* * * * *
Sarang finished dressing for the stage and fastened her heels. She hated dancing in heels, but it was part of the uniform. And because she was slightly shorter than the other dancers, her shoes were taller to even things out. One of the stylists walked over to her and thrust her chin up to make sure her makeup was complete. With a nod, the stylist walked away and Sarang took a deep breath. Though she was 'only' a backup dancer there were strict standards for her appearance which surprised her. Who watched the dancers?
It had been eight months since she joined the team and she still got nervous before every performance. Touring with Big Bang could easily be considered the highlight of her life. No one could prepare her for the immensity of the crowds and the electricity when Big Bang stepped on stage. It continuously shocked her night after night. Along with the nerves, the excitement was always present.
Tired of standing still in the small dressing room, Sarang let herself out quietly. Heading nowhere, in particular, Sarang walked down the corridor until she found a quiet corner. She prayed for a safe and successful show for herself, and everyone involved. She did a few squats and practiced the steps she had had trouble with during practice. She was understandably tense-no, excited- but overall she felt good.
“Stupid and immature! . . . .” she heard from farther down the hall. Sarang rolled her eyes and laughed quietly at the fact that she had stumbled into yet another argument. “You're about to go on stage. Give me the bottle, JiYong!” She heard his manager yell. Shaking her head, Sarang walked away from the sound of raised voices and went to rejoin the other dancers.
Again, none of her business.
* * * * *
During the concert, the dancers remarked among themselves on G-Dragon’s performance. He was all over the place; screaming randomly into the microphone, wandering around the stage, rudely interrupting the other members’ solo moments. He was a mess, but no one knew what was wrong or dared to ask. Sarang knew.
'Crooked' had always been one of her favorite songs to dance to. It was upbeat despite the lyrics, and the choreography was fun and relatively simple. She could sail through it with little concentration, allowing her to fully enjoy being in the moment.
But on that night, Jiyong was even wilder during the song than usual. From the start, he staggered and stumbled around the stage doing his raps. He missed large portions of the lyrics and would just stop and smile charmingly at the crowd from time to time. And because Sarang knew what was wrong with him, she felt compelled to keep an eye on him.
During the second verse, he walked backward on the catwalk, away from the main platform. The dancers were lined up on either side of the slim stage hyping the crowd. Sarang should have been doing that too but her conscious screamed at her, so she broke from the formation to stay near to him. The other dancers shot her questioning or dirty looks, seeing that she wasn’t where she was supposed to be. She ignored them, keeping close to the secretly inebriated rapper.
Sarang saw it coming before it happened. Jiyong had his head tipped back, screaming nonsense into the mic while spinning in circles. Closer, and closer to the edge he went. Sarang ran at him, grabbed the back of his jacket and swung him away from the edge. Still singing obliviously, Jiyong threw his arm out and pushed away the hands that touched him.
Her heel caught on the side of the stage. . . . . . . .There was no way to right herself; nothing to grab onto. .
. . . . . . . So Sarang met the fate from which she had just saved Jiyong.
Sarang could remember the feeling of weightlessness. Then the wave of intense pain as she hit something solid. She remembered nothing else after that.
* * * * *
Jiyong finished the song and stood on the platform. With the crowd still cheering his name he sank below the stage, grinning stupidly and waving. He took a deep breath as the platform stopped and smiled as he stepped off. There was nothing like the high he got from standing on stage.
Still immersed in that heady sensation, he didn’t immediately notice the charged atmosphere as he walked down the corridor. He passed clusters of dancers and crew members; some were crying, some were glaring at him. Looking around in confusion, his eyes landed on his manager who looked just as livid as the rest. The manager grabbed Jiyong by the collar of his shirt and roughly pulled him to a dressing room.
“Yah, let go!”
“Do you know what you’ve done?!” his manager screamed while furiously shaking him.
Drunk Jiyong shrugged his shoulders and took off his sweat-soaked shirt. He noted the ill-shaped neckline and frowned at it. He liked that shirt, dammit.
He sank down into the couch and opened a bottle of water. Halfway through a gulp, his manager snatched the bottle from his hand and pushed his head until he could see an iPad on the table.
“What’s wrong with you?!”
“Shut up and watch.”
Jiyong rolled his eyes but did just that. He watched himself on the stage, not really remembering how the performance had gone. He could feel the manager’s eyes burning into the side of his head and looked at him again.
“Pay attention!” he shouted.
Jiyong rolled his eyes again and watched as the second verse started. Everything looked normal to him until he noticed the dancer out of line. He stopped watching himself and focused on her. He saw the way she watched him, creeping close, eyes tracking his movement while still dancing. He watched himself spinning and saw the moment when she grabbed him to stop him from teetering over the edge.
And then he watched himself push her off the stage and dance away without a backward glance.
He gasped and held his hands over his mouth to stifle a scream. He sobered instantly. “Is . . . is she okay?”
“She’s not dead, or at least she wasn’t when the ambulance picked her up,” the manager explained. He sighed and rubbed a hand over his face. Looking at a monitor in the corner, both he and Jiyong watched as Seungri and Youngbae stood on the stage to apologize to the crowd. His limited Japanese allowed him to understand that they would be praying for the fallen dancer and that she would want them to continue to show. So they would, and Daesung’s solo stage started.
The manager turned the TV off and silence spread thickly over the room. They could hear the cheering crowd, muted by the thick walls. Jiyong couldn’t move. Silent tears streamed down his face as a ball of anxiety and regret formed in his chest.
He heard his manager move to the door. The other man had his hand on the knob but didn’t open it. After a few seconds, he turned back to look at the weeping star. “You need to fix this. I don’t care how but you will fix this. That girl saved your life.”
* * * * *
As soon as the concert was over Jiyong wanted to go to the hospital, but no one would let him. They didn’t want him to cause a scene where she was healing, so on they went to the next tour stop. They made him perform, do interviews, and smile like nothing was wrong. That wasn’t the case.
Jiyong was guilt-ridden. He barely ate. He tortured himself watching the performance over and over again. Every time his eyes closed, he saw himself pushing her. In his dreams, it was the other way around and he was the one falling. He often woke up screaming.
The other Big Bang members did their best to keep him encouraged. YoungBae though, always a straight shooter, chastised him first for the drinking and his general irresponsibility that led to the accident, and then for all the weeping. ‘You aren’t in the hospital, you are not injured; what are you crying about? Don’t cry, do better.’
The dancers, who he didn’t socialize with much on a normal day, gave him the coldest of cold shoulders. They barely danced through his performances; no smiles and minimal energy. When he asked about her well-being, he was met with immediate hostility by the team leader. ‘Her name is Sarang. Not Sora.’
And then he felt even worse.
Finally, after three agonizing days, Jiyong overheard a group of dancers saying that Sarang had woken up. So he waited and waited until the managers had gone to their rooms for the night and snuck out of the hotel in the wee hours of the morning. He took the train from Nagoya back to Kyoto.
As luck would have it, the night nurse in the hospital recognized him even with a hoodie, a beanie, and sunglasses on. She knew about the dancer who had fallen, so she walked Jiyong to her room for the cost of a hug and an autograph, even though it was way, way before visiting hours.
Jiyong was scared to walk in the room, afraid of what he would see, afraid to see the damage his carelessness had caused. But he went in any way. And immediately teared up. She was covered in wrappings, braces, hard casts, and several visible bruises. He felt physically ill as he sat down in the chair beside her bed. Jiyong took hold of her uninjured hand and gripped her fingers lightly.
“I am so sorry,” he whispered as the tears came in earnest. He tried to muffle the sobs, but was louder than he intended and woke her up. Sarang shifted uncomfortably to see who was touching her. “Hey, hey, don’t move. Sorry I woke you.”
“Who are you?” she asked the primarily dark room.
“Oh, um. It’s- It’s me,” Jiyong stuttered and fumbled with the light. His watery eyes met hers and they hardened in recognition. “I-I, uh, I wanted to check on you. See how you were doing.”
“And how does it look like I’m doing?” she asked coldly.
“I-um, uh, I--”
“Just leave,” she ordered. When he continued to stand and stare at her, she added, “Seriously. Get out.”
Jiyong bowed his head and stood his ground. “I owe you for what you did for me. I would have fallen if you hadn’t grabbed me--”
“And I wouldn’t have fallen if you hadn’t pushed me. Get. Out,” she repeated.
Jiyong knew he deserved her anger, so he persisted. “I’m so sorry that I hurt you. It was an accident--”
“That probably wouldn’t have happened if you weren’t drunk,” Sarang spat the words at him. When his eyes went wide, she chuckled humorlessly. “Yeah, I know.”
“I am so--”
“Save it, I don’t care,” Sarang cut in cruelly. She tried to adjust her position in the bed, wincing at every movement.
“Here, let me--” he said as he moved forward to help.
Sarang gave him a glacial scowl. “What do you not understand?! I don’t want you here! I don’t want to look at you! I don’t want your fucking pity! Just get the fuck out!”
The machines around her started beeping loudly and Jiyong backed away with his hands up. “Okay, okay. I’m sorry. I’m so sorry.” And fled the room.
He staggered to a bench not far away, shaken by the force of her truly understandable rage. He drew his knees up to his chest and held himself tightly, rocking slowly back and forth. A nurse ran into the room he had just gone out of and he heard distinctly Sarang’s order for him to never be allowed in again.
So he kept rocking, and praying, and thinking about how to fix the situation. He didn’t know what to do. What could he do? How was he supposed to help someone who obviously didn’t want his help?
He wasn’t sure how long he sat there but eventually, he heard footsteps coming at him. A male doctor and an older woman came around the corner. When the woman stopped and looked into Sarang’s room, it made Jiyong sit up. The woman closed the door softly and wiped a tear from her cheek. Can it be . . . ?
“Thank you for waiting, Mrs. Im. I’m sorry I couldn't speak to you sooner,” the doctor spoke in Korean as they sat just close enough for Jiyong to hear.
“It’s fine. This is what I get for not taking my Japanese lessons more seriously,” the woman replied with a dry laugh.
“Was your flight okay?”
“It’s a long way from Melbourne to here, but the flight crew was sweet about me crying the entire time and pacing the aisle.” It was quiet between them as she wiped her cheeks again. “So how bad is she? Please just tell me all of it.”
The young doctor rubbed his hands together as he prepared to deliver bad news. “Because of the position she landed in, all of the damage is on her left side. Because of the force of the landing, it knocked three vertebrae in her lower back out of place. Nothing disconnected, but it was close.
“Her leg was broken in several places. Her knee . . . came apart entirely. We did a complete knee replacement the first night she was here. We’re going to have to replace the hip as well. It’s a ball-and-socket joint, you know?” he asked and demonstrated with his hand wrapped around his fist. The mother nodded. “The ball pushed through the socket and shattered it. We’ll need to have the part specially made because of the damage to the pelvic bone. Her left arm is broken also, and we’ll need to do surgery on her rotator cuff eventually.”
“What does all that even mean?” her mother said with a sad laugh.
“It means that for the next month, we’ll be doing several rounds of surgery to correct the damage done from the fall. It means that for the back and pelvis to set properly, she will have to be immobile for at least three months. It means there will be intense and torturous physical therapy when the body cast comes off. It means that she’s going to have to learn to walk again, . . . and will very likely never dance.”
Her mother made an anguished sound and held her hands over her heart. She took a minute to compose herself. Jiyong could hear the stifled tears in her voice when she spoke again. “That’s going to be the worst part, you know. Not dancing. She’s always danced. All she’s ever wanted to do was dance. She refused to go to university in Australia and went to entertainment company auditions behind my back. Dancing was it for her; there was no backup plan.”
“Another part of her treatment . . . “ he began hesitantly, “will be pain management. I’ve seen it happen with athletes and people who use their bodies in their careers, where depression sets in. Not being able to do the one thing they love is very hard to adjust to. It’s going to be a constant balance between managing her pain and not getting her addicted to the medication.
“This whole process, the constant surgeries, the closing and opening of skin and muscles . . . it won’t be pleasant. It might even be unbearable at times.”
“So what you’re saying is, my daughter has months of excruciating pain to look forward to.”
“More like years,” he corrected slowly. “And I hate to say this, but she’s lucky to be alive. She won’t feel that way initially, but it will be true.”
“Years? I can’t--I have a business, a husband and a young son in Melbourne. I can’t be here for that long to take care of her. And we can't afford that kind care.”
“Conservatively, I say it’ll be three to four months before she can even leave the hospital bed. Maybe another month after that for recovery and observation. Then the physical therapy will start, and she can be moved to Australia for that.”
“But how? How am I supposed to take care of her?” she asked herself more than the man beside her.
The doctor’s pager went off before he could give her any further assurances. “I’m needed in surgery. We can finish this conversation later? We can talk more at that time about the recovery process and plan for her care.”
Her mother nodded and thanked the doctor again for taking the time to explain things to her. Not long after the doctor walked away, Jiyong watched Mrs. Im cry into her hands. When she settled a bit, he knocked softly on the wall to get her attention.
“Yes?” she asked, both curious and annoyed.
“I . . .” Jiyong paused to take a deep breath. “I want to help your daughter, Sarang.”
“What do you know about my daughter?” she asks, looking at him suspiciously. Jiyong knelt down and pressed his forehead to the floor at her feet. He heard it when she gasped, but held the pose for a few seconds before sitting back on his heels. He took another breath before looking up at her. ”I am so sorry. This was all my fault.”
Mrs. Im’s eyes narrowed as she looked down at him. “It’s you then. You’re the careless boy that pushed my daughter.”
Jiyong bowed again, partially to hide his eyes that were near to tears again. “It was an accident, I swear. I thought it was part of the choreography and I didn’t realize we were so close to the edge. I am sorry. I am truly sorry. I want to make this right.”
She glared at him, scanning him up and down, trying to gauge his sincerity. “How?”
* * * * *
One day bled into the next for Sarang. Time became meaningless. For five months she was tethered to a bed with nice but impersonal nurses, TV she couldn't fully understand, and occasional visitors to occupy her time. She ate meals that she didn’t remember tasting. She slept, or she stared at the wall, or she was in pain and wished she was asleep. The whole experience was a painfilled and depressing blur.
Her mother visited monthly for two or three days at a time. The police came to visit and asked if she wanted to press charges. She told them no. A few YG dancers stopped in, which she had mixed feelings about. She was on the team, but they never made her feel like a part of the team. After being passed over so many times for minor mistakes, she didn’t trust them. A few she outright disliked because they had made her life hell in general. But she was polite enough when they were there. Any company beat no company.
The most surprising visit was when YG himself came to check on her. He vowed to pay for all of her medical expenses and continued care. He also slyly asked if she was planning on suing the company or Jiyong directly. She had no such plans. Once she said that he offered her an obscenely large sum of money as a settlement. She agreed.
On the day of her release, her mother was with her. Sarang expected to go home to Melbourne with her family but instead, they flew to Korea. Upon arrival, two large men in a luxurious black van, equipped to carry a wheelchair, picked them up from the airport. Sarang’s pain medication kicked in not long after the ride started, so she had no idea where they were headed. Nor did she particularly care.
The next time she woke, she was in an elevator going up with just the two men. “Where’s my mom?”
Neither man responded. At the 17th floor of some anonymous building, they pushed her chair to the end of the hall and knocked loudly on a door. Kwon Jiyong answered it.
“Please, come in,” he spoke politely and gave room for them to enter.
“No,” Sarang said with a voice filled with venom. She put her good hand down to stop the wheels from moving. “I’m not going in there. Where’s my mom?” she asked again.
“Your mom will be up in a little while. She wanted to get some things to make dinner tonight,” Jiyong explained quietly.
“This has to be a joke,” she replied with a snort. She knew in her gut that it wasn't though. Her mother had been unusually tight-lipped about what would happen to her. Now she understood why. “Unbelievable.”
“I’ll take it from here,” Jiyong told the men and took his position behind the wheelchair. After bowing to the men, Jiyong pushed her around his well-appointed apartment for a tour. Sarang never said a word.
“This will be your bedroom, the master bedroom. I put in one of those adjustable beds so that you can rest comfortably. And this is the bathroom. I had rails installed to keep you stable while you move around. You can go right into the shower in your wheelchair. That long string is a panic button in case you need help,” he explained. “It will ring inside the apartment first and if no one responds in a minute, an ambulance will be called.”
He parked her at the foot of the bed and sat in one of the chairs nearby. “My mom and sister are going to make sure you have meals and help you with dressing and stuff. You have physical therapy every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. I’ll take you whenever I can. I’ll help you however I can.” Jiyong waited for her to speak, but again, she said nothing. Just looked out the window to the park below. “I’ll . . . go. Call out if you need anything. I’ll be in the living room.”
Jiyong had just opened the door when she finally spoke.
“When can I leave?” she asked, still not looking at him.
“When you can walk out of here,” he responded with a short bow of his head and closed the door behind him.
FYI it’s not the job of the black community to educate a grown ass, twenty-four year old woman. Wendy is an adult, she is fluent in English and spent her formative years in Canada and America. She is a fucking adult with access to the internet and a western education. She even had black friends. She’s not the victim of ignorance, she is the propagator of it. There’s no FUCKING excuse for her behavior.
How dare any of you ask for us to educate a grown woman, on why it’s dangerous to portray black men and women as aggressive, loud, and uncouth. Stereotypes and micro-aggressions influence and shape our perception of reality- even when it may be completely false and negative. Black men and women have been murdered over snide jokes which later blossom into overt racism. Black men have hanged from the branches of trees, all because a white man learned how “vicious he was” through racist jokes and stereotyping. Black women have been denied employment due to untrue “attitude problems” and “sass.” These are all the symptoms of a greater plot to frame Africans as an inferior race and culture. Are you too, part of this plot? Or will you actually do something about it?
How dare any of you expect or ask us to forgive a grown woman for not one, BUT TWO instances of explicit racism. All of you fake woke stans defending this woman need to seriously reevaluate yourselves, or fucking choke. But go ahead, keep condoning her but still managing to write cute messages of support and love, and hope that she can, “educate” herself. Your words help me to seek out the cockroaches that I need to block and tag as racism enablers.
Black men and women have been “educating” and attempting to dispel ignorance for hundreds of years, through genocide, slavery, torture, and rape. Africans and African-Americans are spit on for doing anything with ourselves. We are done. It’s not our job to do anything in 2018 of all goddamn years. You want change? White and non-black people of color, this is your opportunity. Get up and make some damn noise. As a mixed black woman, I an through being at the forefront of the “educational” movement to correct and alleviate the issues of IGNORANT FOOLS. Even, after all of this- she isn’t racist, that still doesn’t change the fact that she threw an entire damn race under the bus for humor points.
At what point do we stop stanning and see someone for who they really are. When is enough, enough? She knew exactly what she was doing. This will likely not be the last time she embarrasses herself like this.
Uncle Toms need not reply to this post, your self-hatred and willingness to be trampled on does not excuse her racism.
Anyone else go through that occasional phase where toast and butter is just the tastiest fucking creation on the planet and you have to restrain yourself from eating an entire loaf of bread in ten minutes
Me trying to work: this is so boring, I have fanfiction to write
Me trying to write: I suck at this. I should just go read some more fanfic instead.
Me trying to read: *falls asleep at keyboard*
*wakes up at 3 am*
Me trying to sleep then: Why are you trying to sleep? You have 8 fanfics planned, 16 things to do for work, you've bookmarked and promised feedback for 5 other fics, and there's that book you bought you haven't read yet, and you've got movies to watch and...
Me when the alarm clock goes off: ugh. Go away, I'm sleepy.
At this point in my journey as a fan, I have realized that: 1-We are never getting a Korean album out of Daesung. 2-We are never getting a TOP solo album because his lyrics are too deep for dance tracks and that's all YG does well. 3- There will likely not be another Taeyang album UNDER YG. I have a feeling he won't renew his contract. IJS. 4- Before enlisting there will be another GD album because it will sell. #EverybodyKnows 5- Seungri, my little love, will probably get an album after GDYB go in because a) he's the last one going in and b) someone has to keep the Big Bang torch burning and c) ...refer to #1. I need YG to get his life together and stop collecting talent then wasting it.
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