So I keep getting messages from Female Dominates. This really isnt a big deal to me. Yet it is.
I spent almost 15 years in my local BDSM community. I hosted and ran a munch group with my wife. We also hosted a yearly weekend education getaway, for that munch group. I have gone to and taught at some very large and well known BDSM event. My wife has gone to and taught at somevery large and well known event. I have met some of the biggest names in the BDSM, Leather, an LBGTQ world, and I call them my friends. That is a little part of my resume.
Here is what some of the messages start out as.
"Hey slave, Hey sissy."
Now in this self this wouldn't be to concerning. This is concerning, you see in the BDSM world if a male does the we call that predatory behavior. Now if it comes from a female its fine. This is what me call a double standard. An one of the many reasons my wife and I walked away from our local BDSM community. This also goes against any so called Dom/Domme blowhard who has some bullshit."This is how you properly contact me." On their profile. How can you have that and they say some assumptions ass bullshit to someone else? Its pretty simple we call those folks hypocrites.
Look I am a pretty laid back guy. Well ok I am a laid back horny pervert. I am bisexual and male. I know that's a difficult concept for some folks to grasp. Its really pretty simple. I like cock (real or rubber I like to say) and I like pussy. I dont like full time submission or full time slave activities for me(hard limit). I also don't like crossdressing for me(hard limit). In other words its not for me but if others do it. That's cool.
I like a good bottoming session every once and awhile. I also have a metric fuck ton of sexual things and acts. That turn me on and get me off. I post about them here. I enjoy talking to other here about all of those things in a respectful manner. An if things go well I am even up for the possibility of a meet and greet and maybe some play time. With folks I meet here, with my wife and my self(we only play as a team).
To close lets try a different approach when communicating with folks. You wouldn't like it if someone DM'd you, with "Hey fake whore" or something to that effect.
