sooo i love bimbo kink, always have, but after a long break im returning to it post-transition and actually trying to practice it (!!) with the support of my wife (The Boss around here)
the thing is, i can do my nails, dye my hair, wear short skirts and high heels, do my makeup perfect, edge myself stupid... but theres stuff i can never change about myself.... and anyway its stuff that the Boss finds hot or cute or just neutral anyway, that didnt bother me so much until i dove back into Bimboland
just lately ive started looking for content with the bimbo aesthetic but more agnostic about bodies; still plenty of classic hourglass blondes, but also chubby sluts, disabled babes, trans cuties, nonbinary hotties... people i can see myself in, if i put in the work
i guess my question to You, as someone who helped me define my idea of what a bimbo is way back when... is this still bimbo? Or do i call it something else? (hyperfemme? femmebo?)
thanks for your smart Man thoughts on this😉💖✨
First off congratulations on finding your way back to bimbo land, all that you have achieved in your own bimboification, and certainly not least finding a loving partner who supports you in your bimbo journey. May we all be so lucky.
As for your question, what you are really asking is "What is a bimbo?" "Is there anything that disqualifies someone from being a bimbo?" This is not an easy question to answer. Plenty of blogs have dedicated many posts, and many many words trying to answer this question. I usually find that I agree with some to most of their definitions but they always feel incomplete or partially incorrect. What about this? Or What about that? Etc.
The idea of coming up with one definition of what is and is a bimbo has always appealed to me, but is also so daunting I have never done it. (I may have tried. This blog has been around a LOOOOONG time. But I don't remember ever coming up with a definition I was happy with.) But you are in luck. I think I may have hit on a good definition of what qualifies as a "bimbo".
Let's be clear. I love bimbos. Obviously! Bimbos are awesome. but to define "bimbo" we need to go back to its roots, which is unfortunately an insult. "Bimbo" was originally an insult that women used against other women. 😢
If you look carefully at who was the target of this insult it wasn't always dumb women, or younger women, or women with bigger boobs. Sometimes it was, sure, but those qualities were not the common denominator. "Bimbo" was used against any woman that the woman using the term felt threatened by, with the objective of invalidating her worth by labeling her a bimbo.
You're at a backyard BBQ, your best friend shows up in a bikini top and a thin wrap around skirt, so predictably, all the Men are swarming around her not giving you the time of day. "What a bimbo!" (This was your best friend remember.)
Your Husband has a new 20 something secretary? "What a bimbo!"
You're at the gym and a girl walks by and all the Men's heads turn? "What a bimbo!" Never mind that she kills herself at the gym 5 days a week for that body. That she would work so hard for something so superficial, that just makes her MORE of a bimbo!
You're at a cocktail party and your date can't tear Himself away from a conversation with the astrophysicist who just wrote a book redefining the age of the universe. It can't be that everyone else at the party is a complete bore. She must be a bimbo. Is she dumb? Obviously not (see her 2 PHd.'s). Big boobs? No pert little B cups at best. Dressed overly sexy? Sorta but this is a cocktail party after all, the point is kinda to dress fancy, and if you're honest with yourself your dress shows more cleavage. Heels? Half an inch taller than yours. There it is! "What a bimbo!"
So how does "bimbo" as an insult get us to a positive definition for those of us that love bimbos? Well here it is "A bimbo is anyone who prioritizes being sexually &/or romantically appealing over being respected &/or accepted by other women."
Have you noticed that Men tend to go after the dumb and ditzy type so you have chosen to down play your intelligence and just giggle instead, even though your girlfriends try to shame you for it? "Good girl! What a bimbo!"
Do you love the looks you get from Men when you wear tight fitting clothes more than you care about the disapproving stares you get from other women? "Good girl! What a bimbo!"
Did you get a boob job (or are thinking about getting a boob job) even though you know that most women will never take you seriously ever again? "Good girl! What a bimbo!"
And that's what I personally find so attractive about bimbos. That Pleasing Me, being attractive to Me, is so important to a girl that she would willingly, happily even, suffer the disapproval of the sisterhood, That I find highly erotic.
So let's get back to your question... "Are chubby sluts, disabled babes, trans cuties, and non-binary hotties bimbos?" Well they can be. But strange as this will sound, since we're talking about bimbos, you've got to look in their minds. What do they care about? If it's pleasing their partner, or potential partners, then they absolutely are bimbos. If not, If they care about other stuff, that's okay too, but In that case we would need to find another term for them.
Lastly, this is for all the dumb bimbos out there in bimbo land. I know this has had a lot of words and you probably tuned out a long time ago. If not I apologize for the headache. Here is the bimbo friendly summary
"A bimbo is a girl who cares more about being sexy than she cares what a bunch or boing ol' biddies think about her."
