Zen (they/them), body 28, pf-DID and other shit
you wont like us, trust me.
we don't have a partner, went through a breakup but remained as friends, so ignore all the "gf" posts. anyway we're very mono. i have a disability, had recent surgery for it, probably made it worse. we rarely follow first because of vague DNIs. we use desktop and dont spend 24/7 on here, so reply speeds are unpredictable.
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we don't want to interact too much with endo or tulpa folks bc we dont relate to them, and we dont want to see what misinfo / disinfo nonsense is going around. this goes for trauma folks spreading info to harm endo and tulpa folks.
anti harassment goes both ways. be nice. stay in your own lane until you can respect the other side. remember not a handful of people represent the entire community as a whole. we dont trust trans-ids or trans-race people bc its not a transgender identity or an aesthetic. please let disabled and minorities speak first and loud.
we're pro kink and bdsm. for ALL kinks. yeah even the unsanitary ones. doesnt mean we're into it. we're all for supporting you. we dont think fictional characters need to be protected from anything because they're not alive, they're not real, thoughts and attractions are not actions. find more important problems to worry about. we're pro cluster b, and we dont believe any disorder makes you evil or disgusting.
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we support recovery from trauma and disorders, this involves ALL disorders, even the stigmatized "scary" ones involving attractions*. recovery doesnt mean get rid of it completely bc that's not possible, itll only create more self-hate and disgust and guilt. this involves people who have committed offense, we just hope they find the proper resources to not commit again. getting rid of stigma and providing tools and treatment programs will help to reduce offenses even before they happen. ** that said, we don't want pro contact or repeat offenders interacting with us.
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questions about anything, feel free to ask

















