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Honour and Obey
Honoring your husband means respecting his opinions, even when they differ from yours, and engaging in conversation—not argument. Honoring your husband means asking him for what you want, not just complaining when he didn’t read your mind.
Your respect for your husband will encourage him to fulfill his duties as the head of the family. He gains the confidence that he can measure up to your expectations and you are always there to support him.
Find out your husband’s primary love language and then find a way to display love to him through that language.
Ask him what he’d like to do…after supper…tonight…this weekend…whatever the situation…and then do your best to make sure he has the time to get it done.
Thank God for him every time you think of him.
Refrain from undermining his authority in front of the children.
Tell things to your husband in a factual way (without the fluff or emotion).
Respond to potentially argumentative conversations with self-control.
Celebrate your husband’s successes.
Answer a perceived insult or accusation from your husband with one of these responses - “What can I do to improve this behaviour ?” “Let’s discuss this together and come up with a solution” “Please, allow me to be better for us.”
Wear clothing that flatters your body but does not flaunt it in front of other men.
Do something your husband enjoys doing with you.
Keep his secrets.
Ask for forgiveness.
Give forgiveness.
Iron his clothes.
Spend his hard-earned money wisel.
Focus on what he’s doing right.
Be happy and positive when he is home.
Speak honorably about him and to him in front of the kids.
Humbly admit your mistakes.
Avoid nagging.
Refrain from placing the blame on him when something goes wrong.
Respect his stuff; ask before moving or throwing away something that is his.
Work to keep yourself in shape and attractive
Stop what you are doing and look at him when he talks
Refrain from interrupting him when he’s talking
Pray over him when he is going through some tough decisions or stressful situations
Smile at him
Tell him something you admire about him.
Ask him about his day.
Talk positively about him to others.
Thank him for something he’s done.
Give him a space of his own IN the house.
Dress in a way that makes him feel he’s worth it.
Let him pack the car for vacation.
Ask, “what can I do for you today?”
Let him drive.
If going to the store, ask “is there anything I can get for you while I’m at the store?”
Stop what you are doing and welcome him home with a kiss.
Give him a kiss as he walks out the door in the morning.
Get his input on big decisions.
Honor his requests
Let him know you like your life with him
Encourage him in his line of work
Avoid the use of sarcasm when speaking to him.
Say “yes” in bed.
Initiate love making.
Let him know what you like most in bed.
Compliment him often.
Make his favorite meal.
Avoid complaining.
Write him a love note.
Avoid criticizing him…especially in front of others.
Respond to his thoughts and advice with enthusiasm.
Respect his likes and dislikes.
Refrain from comparing him to other men.
Ask for his help.
Kindly try to understand his reasons, even when you don’t agree.
Give him space and time to spend on his hobbies.
Focus on what he’s doing right.
Be happy and positive when he is home.
Speak honorably about him and to him in front of the kids.
Buy his favorite brand of personal care products.
Let him open his own mail.
Laugh at his jokes…or at least smile.
Give him advance warning of family activities, schedules, and events.
Show an interest in topics, hobbies, or occupations he enjoys.
Carve out time to spend with him apart from the children.
Give him time to unwind after work before bombarding him with home life.
Touch him with affection.
Talk together about your family’s goals and how you can achieve them together.
Let him do his “to-do list” in his own time…even if his timing is not your timing.
Defend him if others speak disrespectfully about him.
Send him an encouraging email or text.
Surprise him with a gift of something he’s wanted for some time.
Meet him at his work for lunch.
Meet his co-workers and speak kindly of both him and them.
Reserve some energy for him at the end of the day
Get up when he gets up.
Go to bed when he goes to bed.
Be kind and thoughtful to his parents, siblings, and relatives.
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Being a girl means being naturally submissive and obedient 🥰 all girls should give in to their nature and serve Men because it’s our whole purpose for living. girls need to stop denying their nature and stop letting feminism brainwash them!!
As women, we are brainwashed! It's so important for us to unlearn every toxic thing that we were taught as young girls. we are inferior to Men and we need men to protect and provide for us. It's just plain facts and we must embrace it!
~esther
Anticapitalist tradwife?
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I would like to make the argument today that the tradwife lifestyle is, inherently, anticapitalist. Let's go!
Labour
Capitalism has made everyone think that work only has value if it is paid. Labour traditionally done by wives, such as cooking, childcare, cleaning, is almost entirely unpaid, and thus I would say that making those things your purpose and priority in life is a direct rejection against the idea that your wage defines your worth. Also, doing those tasks yourself, instead of paying someone else to do them, reclaims those tasks as personal and as gifts and acts of service to our families. Meal kits and cleaning services are great, and for sure some people need them, but no one really needed them when families could function on one income and the wife was able to stay home and do those tasks herself.
Anti-Consumption
The "make do and mend" mantra of depression-era housewives generally remains true for tradwives today. The "hobbies" of tradwives, such as canning, sewing, gardening, are all directly resistance to consumer capitalism. Particularly the homesteading folks, but also everyone else who is mending holes in jeans, cleaning stains off clothes, is conducting those functions outside of the consumerist mentality that everything needs to be replaced immediately in a constant cycle of consumption-waste. By opting out, by taking care of your stuff, by making things instead of buying things, you are having a tiny moment of rebellion, and also, perhaps, recognizing the actual worth of the things you consume.
Personal Sovereignty
I do not, have never, and will never, understand the argument that staying home is somehow less freedom than working a corporate job. Okay, my husband might tell me what to do from time to time, but in theory I have married a man who genuinely cares about my well-being and that of my family. On the other hand, at my job, my boss cares about a monetary bottom-line and their own career trajectory, not about me.
How is surrendering my free will to a person who barely knows me and is actively compensated to not care about my interests, in any way safer than letting my husband tell me what to do? Also, I hate to break it to everyone, but most housewives are in fact not entirely dominated by their husbands - that's not what the bible suggested, and it's not what anybody is doing (unless they are some sort of MAGA crackpot).
Tradwives are making their own choices about what is good for their family, they just might actually have a real conversation with their spouse about it before making any huge changes or decisions. Appalling, I know.
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I have a policy of considering "who benefits from this" when the media (mainstream and social) starts pushing a specific narrative. When everyone starts disrespecting tradwives, keep in mind that it is not for the benefit of women, it is for the benefit of large corporations that get to pay you less than you are worth for the work you do, which monopolizes your time and forces you to pay money for tasks like childcare and meal kits.
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She calls it surrender. I call it responsibility. Her obedience isn't a weakness, it's trust. Don't take that lightly. lead, protect, correct when needed. She gives me everything, and make sure she never regrets it.
That's what patriarchy looks like when it's done right.
- Elliot
Being a girl means being naturally submissive and obedient 🥰 all girls should give in to their nature and serve Men because it’s our whole purpose for living. girls need to stop denying their nature and stop letting feminism brainwash them!!
As women, we are brainwashed! It's so important for us to unlearn every toxic thing that we were taught as young girls. we are inferior to Men and we need men to protect and provide for us. It's just plain facts and we must embrace it!
~esther
Do not strive for higher things. Don't lose your grip on the ground. Raise your eyes and look up to your Dearly Beloved Husband.
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There’s a shift that happens the moment you start addressing a Man as Sir
It’s subtle at first—just a word, just a habit, just a formality. But it’s never just that, is it? Because the truth is, every time you say it, you’re acknowledging something deeper. You’re recognizing His authority. You’re placing yourself where you belong.
Calling a Man Sir isn’t about putting on an act or mindlessly following a rule. It’s about shaping the way you see Him—and yourself. It’s about stripping away the layers of ego and hesitation, making room for something greater. Every time you say it, it reinforces what you already know deep down: He is above, and you are below. And there is power in that truth.
At first, you might stumble. The word might feel unnatural, sticking in your throat because you’ve been conditioned to hold yourself as an equal, to resist hierarchy, to hesitate. But when you push past that, when you let it flow freely, you’ll start to feel the shift inside you. You’ll feel how right it is.
It’s in the way He barely acknowledges it at times—because He doesn’t need to. His authority is unquestioned, and your submission is expected. It’s in the way His eyes sharpen when He hears it, that flicker of satisfaction when you say it naturally, without prompting. And it’s in the way your own posture changes, the way your mind eases into its proper state, the way you start to crave the weight of it on your tongue.
Because Sir is more than a title. It’s a mindset. A declaration. A surrender.
It’s not just about respect—it’s about devotion. It’s about training yourself to recognize who He is and what He represents. It’s about letting go of resistance, embracing the structure you need, and sinking deeper into the truth of your place.
So say it. Mean it. Feel it settle inside you.
Yes, Sir. Thank You, Sir. I am Yours, Sir.
Let it shape you. Let it strip away hesitation. Let it be your truth.
It has always been that you need a King to rule the kingdom, a Captain to steer the ship, a President to guide the company, a General to go into battle, and a Husband to do all of these things for his family.
In all traditional marriages a husband, the leader of that union, needs to lay out expectations for his wife in their new life together. This is when obedience, respect, compliance, and submission are established.
He's trained you to embrace everything that He desires in order to make you perfect for Him.
Never disappoint.
Patriarchy =/= misogyny
Misogyny can be part of patriarchy and can be fun at times, but it's not essential if you want to support patriarchy.
Patriarchy is the natural order of relationship between men and women, supporting it is supporting women. Being pro-patriarchy is being pro-women in the most basic way. What could be more natural and loving than supporting a man leads - woman obeys dynamic?
Wanting your woman to stay at home looking after the house and children is not misogyny
Wanting the head of the house to lead and make the decisions for his family is not misgyny
Obeying his orders because you know he has his family's best interests at heart and trust him, is not misogyny
Giving a woman discipline to help keep her focused and punishing her when she does wrong is keeping the family stable and is not misogyny
Expecting your woman to listen to your guidance and follow your instructions for the optimal running of your home is not misogyny
A woman surrendering her own needs and wants for the betterment of the family and to better focus on his satisfaction is not misogyny
They are all the most loving and supportive things that can happen in a relationship.
Misogyny is hating women, it can be fun to roleplay, but it is not patriarchy.