Elliot & Esther

🇮🇪Elliot(26) & Esther(24) 🇮🇪 We live under a patriarchal lifestyle. He owns. She obeys. Discipline, devotion, and a dynamic most people only fantasize about.

[elliotnesther]

Hey all, I'm in the mood to have some fun with esther with help from our lovely followers and turn her into the perfect toy.

I want to hear ideas. How I should play with her, fuck her up (mentally and physically), break her in deeper, and improve her until she's the ultimate owned fucktoy and tradwife?

Whether it's daily rituals, training methods, ways to destroy what's left of her "old self", sexual use, mindset shifts, punishments, or creative ways to remind her she's nothing but my property. Hit me with your best ideas. The dirtier, more creative, and more extreme the better. I'll reading and responding to everything. You can send messages, asks or simply respond in the comments.

Doms, what's something brutal but effective you've done to level up your girl?

Girls, what's the most effective training that actually broke you down and made you better for your man?

Don't hold back

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Do you want esther to wear pvc or latex or other shiny stuff? (obviously not always but in addition to whatever else you get)

Hi,

Thanks for the question. I can't say it's something I've thought about specifically. But it could be fun to have her in some PVC or latex. If you have suggestions don't hesitate to send them my way. You can all help make her the perfect toy.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Wardrobe Purge

I had esther do a big wardrobe purge yesterday.

I told her to get rid of anything that doesn't match the lifestyle she actually lives now. So out went all the baggy and boring clothes. Everything left has to be tight, easy access, and hot enough that people turn their heads when she walks by.

She spent the afternoon basically naked except for her collar, going through everything and trying on different outfits for me to get my approval then throwing away anything I didn't approve of. It was pretty great watching her let go of her old wardrobe piece by piece.

Now her wardrobe is almost empty. which means she's got a lot of shopping to do. Feels good seeing her actively getting rid of the old her.

If anyone has any clothing recommendations for esther please do share, with how little she has in her wardrobe now she needs it 😆

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Consistency is everything.

Skip using your property regularly and she'll get complacent, lazy, and no longer ready for you at a moment's notice.

Stop disciplining her and shell slowly push more and more boundaries, thinking she can get away with it.

Fail to start your day properly, by having her waking you with her throat, draining your balls, and serving you breakfast and you're inviting laziness and mediocrity into your home.

It all creeps in slowly. One small slip turns into days, then weeks, then months of “good enough." Before you know it, you're wondering where your obedient, eager woman went.. and it's your own inconsistency that let it happen.

Stay consistent, stay strict, and keep her trained. That's the only way it works long-term.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Any updates on Esther weight loss and training?

Hey there,

Thanks for the ask. esther is 64KG as of yesterday morning. I have her focusing hard on the gym five days a week so of course we're not going to see much change on the scales as far is being replaced by muscle slowly, but of course I'm on this for the long game and results don't happen over night.

As for training esther has been doing very well and shows more and more dedication each day, of course if there are any specifics on her training please don't hesitate to reach out.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

She looks good. Does she get wet when she’s punished, and does she enjoy being shown online? Do you discuss how she feels about it? Does she ever get a choice in the matter?

Hey there thanks for the question,

As far as we're both concerned, she belongs to me. Whether I choose to show her off, use her, humiliate her, etc, etc is up to me. After all, she did want to be owned. She does get wet of the idea of pain as well as being shown off, so I really have chosen the perfect life for her. I hope that answers your question.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Happy Monday E/everyone!

l've been thinking lately about how much happier and more at peace women are when they're fully owned.

Once they stop fighting their nature and drop all that feminist noise, they finally relax and start to glow. They obey cheerfully, keep their man happy, stay ready for him, and build their whole day around serving and pleasing him. Thats where real peace and purpose come from.

esther has never been brighter and more at peace than she is now under my complete control. The more I lead and own her, the softer and happier she gets. So Men, lead confidently and without apology. women, let go and submit fully. You'll be so glad you did.

Men, what's one rule that's really improved your girl?

ladies, what's something you resisted at first but now actually love?

Drop your answers below, I'm reading them all. Have a great Monday and an even better week!.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Last Sunday's maintenance with the leather belt.

She bent over nicely and took her spanking like a good girl. Her ass is still showing some nice light bruising a few days later.

I'm pleased with how she handled it, but next time be going harder. These cheeks need to be properly bruised and marked up. This ass belongs to me, and it's going to look the part

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Does anyone ask about her 24/7 collar? If so, what is her response? A stranger response vs a family response?

I have my sub tell the truth to strangers when asked. That she was a submissive, in love and this is what is required.

Thanks for the question, @muscle-ss454!

esther definitely gets asked about it from time to time. Usually, it's just strangers or close friends /family complimenting her 'cute necklace' and asking where she bought it. She always gives this little knowing smile, if only they knew!

She definitely had some butterflies the first few times we took it out in the wild, but now it’s practically her second skin and she wouldn’t dream of taking it off. I don’t give her a strict script for the general public, I leave it entirely up to her to decide how much of our little secret she wants to spill, depending on the company.

Hope that answers your question!

And as always, feel free to ask us anything you're curious about 🙌

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

How much you revealing of your connection to your families?, did they just think your a couple or that they know more about your special kind of relationship?

Hey there, thanks for the ask!

Right now our families mostly see the “normal couple” in us. They see a loving, committed, slightly old-fashioned dynamic or traditional gender role dynamic. I’m very clearly the head of the household, she’s soft, feminine, and happily lets me lead. They notice she’s extremely attentive to me, that I make most of the decisions, and that she seems genuinely content in that role. Some have lightly joked that she’s “well-trained” (if only they knew how right they are). But the deeper layers? The total power exchange, the ownership, the 24/7 protocols, the fact that she’s my property in every sense of the word… that stays behind closed doors. Only a very small handful of trusted people in the lifestyle know the full truth. I enjoy the contrast, the sweet, polite “yes dear” version they see in public, versus the collared, plugged, eagerly obedient woman who crawls for me at home. Some secrets are hotter when only we know the real story 😈, but then again it would be equally hot showing everyone what a good girl she is for me.

If there are any other aspects of our life you're curious about, please don't hesitate to ask.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Its important for us girls to receive maintenance spanks to ensure we don't forget our place in the world Xx

~esther

[elliotnesther]

Curious - how did you celebrate Esther's birthday after? 🙂

Hey there and apologies to you and everyone else for not letting you all know how it went. I took my now 24-year-old slave out to celebrate her birthday properly with a night of wining and dining. I had also bought her a brand new tight black dress for the occasion. It was dangerously low-cut with a plunging neckline and made of a fabric that clung to her body. It barely contained her tits, every time she moved, leaned forward, or even breathed, they were on full display. I had an incredible view all night and caught several others staring. She was clearly embarrassed of being on display like that in public, but also proud to be shown off like that by her Owner. I also surprised her with early birthday gifts, tickets to the show she’s been wanting to see for months, plus a romantic weekend away together. She was genuinely happy and thankful. But the real celebration began the moment we got home. Before I even had the front door unlocked, I had her dress hiked up around her waist and my fingers in her wet little pussy. I fingered her right there on the doorstep like the eager owned slut she is, making sure she was dripping and desperate for everything I had planned for the rest of her birthday night. She spent the night being used hard, exactly how a good slave should celebrate turning a year older. Because at the end of the day, the best gift I can give esther is reminding her exactly what she is: my property, my fucktoy, and my cherished girl.

[elliotnesther]

With me having shared how I handle maintenance with esther in my last ask, I thought I'd share her ass after this morning's maintenance spanks. She was a good girl this week so it's not too painful for her. But they still serve as a good reminder of her place.

If anyone is ever curious on other ways I teach esther or would like advice for their own subs/master, as always please feel free to reach out. I'd happily teach men on how they should train their women.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Question for Elliot. How did you go about training your property. I am engaged to a woman that I am trying to turn into the perfect pet. She's already free use but she can be disobedient. She says she hates men and is a feminist. How do I correct this?

Hey there Kugekivibes,

If you're finding that your slave/pet/property is being disobedient its very important that you reinforce your control/ownership. Earlier on it's definitely something I struggled with while training esther as I was new to the lifestyle.

What you'll want to do is introduce maintenance spankings. These can either be daily or weekly whatever suits your schedule best. A lot of people have a set number of spanks they'll give and that's it for maintenance but, what I like to do to encourage her best behavior is to add or subtract spanks depending on how she performed in all aspects for the week. This way she'll keep her behavior in mind throughout the week otherwise she'll find it hard to sit for the week after.

Now of course I wouldn't limit spanking to just maintenance, any minor infractions that happen at home during the day etc can be corrected then and there with a few swift spanks.

Fixing this disobedience will hopefully have her become more dependent on you as well as making her care much more deeply about pleasing you, whether that's sexually or with other service throughout the day, which can help her betray some of those feminist mindsets/ideas she's having. After that once you improve her obedience it will be a case of implementing specific rituals, etc to help completely kill the feminist mindset.

I hope my experience will help you with your property and if there is anything else you'd like help with, please feel free to reach out.

- Elliot

[bwfemininebeauties]

Reblogged from @the-frenchdom

[elliotnesther]

An excellent way for a woman to welcome her man home after a long day of work. He can drop his pants at the door and give you the perfect thank you gift deep within you to thank you for all you do for him.

- Elliot

[mis0gynycage]

Women's Guide To Marriage

1.Kneel and suck daily 2.Clean his house 3.Cook his meals 4.Never talk back 5.Always Say "Yes" with a smile. 6.Be soft and feminine. 7.Obey and respect his commands.

[elliotnesther]

What rights have you taken away from Esther?

Hey there, thanks for your question.

I'll give you a comprehensive list of rights or privileges esther(without the capitalisation as she's my property) has lost.

- Household decisions: Any decisions regarding the home are made by me. In the home the only things that she does make decisions over within the home is cleaning, cooking, decorating and buying groceries.

- Her Body: As can be seen on our blog, I have set her a weight goal. This is just one of the ways she has lost the right to do what she pleases with her body. I decide how she grooms, how she dresses and what modifications are made of any.

- Reproductive Rights: Right now she is on a birth control pill which I dispense to her each day. So whenever the day comes that I've decided to breed her it will be my choice, not hers.

- Finances: esther works right now, as much as I would like her to not work at all, in Ireland for younger people like ourselves it's not really an option if you want to live a comfortable lifestyle. But any money that she brings into the home is managed by myself, this is used to pay bills, put savings away etc, but she does get a monthly allowance with the option to add more depending on the use case. The only card she has access to is the one I put her allowance on and another that we use for household supplies/groceries.

- Leaving the home: Before esther even thinks about leaving the home(without me) she must ask my permission and tell me where she is going and with who. This of course is more so for safety, and she generally hangs out with other female friends that I have met.

- Sexual Autonomy: As esther is my property she is mine to use in any way I see fit, whenever I may need it. This is a right she has lost, but it's one that she couldn't be happier with as when I do decide to use her, it makes her happier than you could even imagine, she is proud to be owned by me and proud to be seen as useful to me.

I hope this answers your question, but if there is anything else you are curious about, or would even like to hear/see esther's thoughts on some of these please do let me know.

- Elliot

[elliotnesther]

Hmm, maybe we remove even more of her rights, what do you think?

- Elliot