jam1rra

26 talk-to-myself-er, lover of girlz

[goddessactuality]

[cloevr]

Joel Hopkinson, Reverie Saw 2014 (?)

[bideogaymes]

i got unceremoniously laid off from my case management job this past Wednesday 11/12/25 (ironically my position was helping chronically homeless tenants keep their housing). All this within the same month of the sudden passing of my grandma and barely 5 days after her funeral. I’m going through an incredibly difficult time that I’ve gotten no time to adjust to.

i have to raise m*ney for rent & bills until i can get my unemployment claim opened and re-examined, seeing as im still in the process of disputing a false denial of firing from my last employer before this one, which caused a benefit overpayment judgement in January of this year.

UPDATE 12/09/25: i was denied unemployment benefits.

if you have the ability to donate, please send to:

venmo: sleepisforlovers

paypal.me/sleepisforlovers

Chip in to "Laid Off Job & Lost Grandma In The Same Month" until Dec 31, 2025

Chip in to "Laid Off Job & Lost Grandma In The Same Month" until Dec 31, 2025

$294.04/$2,500

(as of 12/27/25)

[bideogaymes]

i had to buy cat food and litter on a payment plan and i still haven’t raised enough to make rent on January 1st.

please, if you are able, share and d*nate so i can stay housed and pay my bills until i can find at least part time work in the midst of this hiring freeze. i also need help getting to my grandma’s home to begin packing up/throwing away her belongings bc we are losing her house she’s been living in since i was in middle school.

the turnaround time for everything has been really tight, & continues to be so.

thank you to everybody who has pitched in thus far, i wouldn’t have been able to get through this grief and breakdown of my family without yall collective kindness. im still hurting and trying to honor her memory by not giving up and moving forward in my journey to security and living a life worth loving.

venmo: sleepisforlovers

paypal.me/sleepisforlovers

[witch-breaker]

[friend-crow]

Apparently ICE now has agents posing as utility workers to get into people's homes. The electric and gas companies have posted information on how to tell if it's one of their workers, and numbers to call to confirm whether they've sent someone to do utility work on your house.

Stay safe, friends.

[alexwrekk]

ICE posing as utility workers to detain immigrants, Gresham lawmaker warns

Oregon state Rep. Ricki Ruiz said three people were detained in his district after ICE agents posed as utility workers.

[parsio]

Some people have shared stories of suspicious “sales representatives” knocking on homes, asking about the home owners and who lives there, fishing for phone numbers, but do not provide business cards, company id, company phone numbers, etc when asked.

They come in pairs, never one person though one may hag back a bit. They have been seen using cars with significantly tinted windows, no business logos anywhere on the vehicle, or parking close to the home they walked up to only to drive away right after without visiting other homes, almost as if they’re not real sales people.

True door to door salespeople need a sort of peddler’s license, subject to city and county law, to solicit at your door. You can ask to see this permit. If they don’t provide one or make an excuse, they are likely bogus.

They wear a jacket with a company logo but likely don’t wear name tags and the Don’t provide id.

Tell them you’ll call the company about a noncompliant representative. Make them leave. Better yet not to open the door to them, and tell them nothing.

Actual sales reps also generally do follow “no soliciting” signs. Be aware, be safe, don’t give out your information or that of others under duplicitous means.

[silentnoiseee]

Tolu Oye Lagos, Nigeria 2025.

[kitsunetsuki-deactivated2026051]

Gianni Penati - Revlon Ad (Vogue 1970)

[pro-royalty]

Adit Priscilla for Rhode Skin

[doechiisource]

[ortut]

Robert DuGrenier - Pound It! (blown glass and metal), 2018

[lamignonette]

[prettycolors]

[iamheavymeta-lll]

[lamignonette]

[wintercorrybriea]

Handmade BRUSSELS MIXED LACE WEDDING VEIL, 1860-1890

via augusta auctions

[card-of-the-day]

Today's Card Is: Run Away Together

[femme-4-butches]

"When It's All Said n' Done", Olivia Morgan, 2024.

The series, titled "When It's All Said n' Done," seeks to depict an intimate scene between two Black masc lesbians, showcasing the romance, vulnerability, and femininity that exists between them. It also captures the moment after they have shared their most sacred parts, questioning whether they need to resume the facade of heteronormative masculinity and revert to the gender-normative roles imposed on them by others.

There is tension, there is ease, there are these moments in between where time is lost and the word masculinity and femininity don’t easily exist, there is only gentility and care moments where we feel bare and full all at the same time! When it’s all said and done we just screaming and reaching to be felt, reaching for some sense of our unbiased selves, pure and in love.

[iamheavymeta-lll]

Brenda Skyes.