rot with me

perma15 + chronoadult | m/w @necroandrew

[graves-slut]

Let us rest, deep underground...

permalotus -> graves-slut

Hello! You may refer to me as Ashley, Tiffany, or Lilith, any pronouns are acceptable but if you she/her me and I don't like you I will block you (dw this is only towards bitches).

I'm new to the TransID community as an active participant, but I have lurked now and then for years now. I've truly enjoyed my time here and have met so many special folks I wouldn't have had the honor of being acquainted with had I not taken this chance.

We are trisplural and a chronoadult, but are perma15 and prefer to be treated as such. If you're curious about my other identities, see our rentry here.

Any asks or DMs are acceptable, I don't have any boundaries in this regard. We prefer weird, mean, or promiscuous asks/DMs, but you are welcome to be wholesome and kind with us as well. Genuine affection if we are not close brings us discomfort, please ask before doing so unless we are close. I have no DNI, either.

To any minors, please block " #viva la lotus " ; this is my suggestive/hornyposting tag

m/w big brother @necroandrew

[graves-slut]

Men are allowed to make love in Fort MacLeod.

This information pleases me greatly

[graves-slut]

Welcome to Fort Macleod!

is there gay sex here

[selfwounds]

I wish there were more chronoadult transage people around. I feel lonely in my little permateen space…

[graves-slut]

terribly sorry but whats a chronoadult?

I'm an adult chronologically/my body is the age of an adult. I am Perma15 tho ^^

[alex-the-alterhuman]

I have some questions for the radqueer community

Yes, those are serious questions, not any hateful or joke ones.

I did a not-very-intense reaserch about what radqueer generally means. I'm still uneducated, but I have the general shape of what this could mean.

I feel like some of these transIDs describe my personal experience. But on the other side, I have mixed feelings on things like pedophilia.

So, I have some questions

When you say that you support all paraphilias, like pedophilia, do you support just the fantasies of these people, or do you support the actual actions too? I heard mixed opinoins about this.

Can I identify with transIDs while not supporting some aspects of the radqueer community? (Of course by 'not supporting' I don't mean 'not respecting') . Will I be a part of it or would I be somehow seperate?

Is a "transition" needed when identifying as trandID? How does the transition look like if it's psychically impossible?

I will tag this post as radqueer, so it reaches the right people who have the answers.

Please, be respectful in the comments. If I got something wrong, tell me about it.

Thank you for reading.

[graves-slut]

Might have short answers because I'm going to work in a bit

1 - Paraphilias are just the fantasies someone has. It's their attraction that makes them a paraphile. Of course it depends on the paraphilia, I really don't care if someone acts on their foot fetishism. You've gotten mixed opinions on it because it's a divide in the community as well. You'll see folks with various "contact stances" and some who prefer not to be involved in the discourse. Bottom line: yes, because paraphilias are not actions, they're just an atypical attraction.

2 - I've seen anti-radqueers in the transid community, so I would assume so. It seems sort of...weird to me, since the communities have a lot of overlap, but you do you.

3 - Nope. It's like being transgender, you don't need to transition to "prove" you're trans or anything. Plenty of folks still choose to transition. Regarding "impossible" transitions, you'll see some folks talking about their dysphoria because they can't transition. Others still choose to transition, whatever that looks like for them. It can involve subliminals, affirmations, manifestion, "fake it 'til you make it", and many other strategies.

[thatc0rpsecoining]

hihi! may i req a cis dead / cis corpse flag please? thank you if so!! :3c

CisDead / CisCorpse

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‧₊˚ ┊ Cis-Dead

⟢ A CisID label for those who are bodily dead, and identify as having died.

⟢ This ID could be used by someone for a variety of reasons such as, but not limited to, system member identities, delusions, life events, etc.

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‧₊˚ ┊ Cis-Corpse

⟢ A CisID label for those who are bodily a corpse, and identify as being a corpse.

⟢ This ID could be used by someone for a variety of reasons such as, but not limited to, system member identities, delusions, life events, visual appearance etc.

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Note[s] :

There is no wrong way to use these terms, anyone is allowed to use these terms or labels, just please be respectful of others <3

Anyone is free and encouraged to archive my flags! If you do archive them please try to keep definitions the same, as well as tag, credit, or link back to my account for archiving purposes.

If this term has already been coined already, feel free to use these as alternate flag!

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[transharmful]

I'm looking for chrono adult friends who are proship/fic and radqueer.

[mynameisuranus]

I think I'm transgalaxy... I wish I had stars with their own planets with their own moons....

[graves-slut]

Gonna be so real for a sec this blog/being involved in the transid community has been wonderful, buuuuuut it's also causing us to not be able to do anything else. I unfollowed most of the rq/transid blogs I was following not out of malice, but because I need to take things more slowly. I tend to do this a lot with any community I'm in, but I also run a bah blog and a small handful of others that need my attention sometimes. I also have a life and don't wanna feel like I have to check tumblr all the time to keep up. I can't say if I'll keep using this blog at all, but when I do, it will be less often than I was at the start. Today is the most productive day I've had in awhile and I haven't really touched this blog, so that's a sign for me. Thanks to everyone who has made this community so wonderful for me! You're always welcome to DM me if you wanna chat or be friends!

[80proofvodka-deactivated2025100]

masochist who gets really giddy and excited about being beat x “smile at me one more time and i’ll kick your teeth out” sadist

[graves-slut]

So I've heard mention that there's so many medical-themed blogs in the rq/transid community, so I'm gonna do what any reasonable person would and make a medical-themed blog. I like all of the medical blogs I see and we have medical-esque headmates. stay tuned for that iggggg

also sorry I'm not super active I had a mental breakdown like two days ago and haven't full recovered :p

[cishawk-deactivated20260127]

A TransId where one feels as if they are/should be an angel.

[theslenderversesystem]

By the way, nobody owes anyone an explanation about their identity

Tone: geninue

[lilys-dollhouse]

The nice thing about existing outside of time (at least in a mortal sense) is I can say it's any time whenever

"it's not Halloween!"

Yeah it is :3 time doesn't exist for me

[graves-slut]

Can we actually stop asking people for their chronoage? "But I'm a chronoadult and I don't want to talk to chronominors!" Then...just don't talk to that person. It's not that hard, bud. If not knowing someone's chronoage makes you uncomfortable, you can just not interact with them.

[theslenderversesystem]

I don't care what others say, radqueers are valid as fuck