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Because Bat-brat does not like to share.

Did this just for fun because why not.

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Bad day?

I know some of you have been having a bad day, how do I know this? Because I’ve had said bad days as well. I mean, who hasn’t honestly? Some bounce back, and some don’t. Some let those misfortunes keep them down, but why? Do you not want to win? Do you want those who put you down to have that power? Know what I’d say about them?

“Fuck you”

That’s right, fuck them. Why would you let yourself continue to feel bad for pieces of shit that don’t matter? Feeling pity for those who need help can only go so far, realistically speaking. By giving them the time of day, the thought, you’re taking away precious energy you could be using on yourself (Spirit Bomb reference or something). That’s precious energy wasted. You could be finishing a book, finishing up that book you could have started writing but we’re too busy worrying over pieces of shit. You could have gone to the gym and finally lost all that weight you’ve been talking about, but no, cause pieces of shit got you worried and distracted over them.

I suffered the same problem and still do, because not all problems are solved overnight. But the first step is realizing the problem, then finding the solution, and then taking steps towards that solution. Become a gardener, put those pieces of shit in the ground and watch your plants grow and flourish. (Do not actually put anyone in the ground, least not on my authority.

Bottom line, put your energy to good use. Start something new and fresh or finish something you started before. Just convert your energy into something positive instead of giving it to things that don’t matter.

I’m out y’all. Peace.

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It’s been a while.....

Hey guys, it’s honestly been a while and I get distracted wayyy too easily. I hope everyone is doing just peachy, wish I was. But I’m gonna honestly try to stay consistent. Time for new stuff.

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Relationship Advice

I know I’m still new to this blogging thing, and I may not be the best person to give advice on this, seeing as I’ve been alone for a while, but I’ve spent enough time in my own relationships, observing others in their’s, watching media and thinking to myself, to have an understanding of how these things generally should go.

If you two don’t click, and you’ve tried communicating and you’re getting nowhere, and there’s nothing holding you two (or whatever number your dynamic holds) together, then I’d say call it quits. I’ve recently been in a friends with benefits relationship that really stressed me the fuck out. I tried communicating all the problems that would stop it from working and honestly, I felt like I was wasting my time. Problems kept reappearing and it felt more like a relationship than just friends who partake in some coitus here and there. And even that we couldn’t do on the regular like most others probably do. I have a thing where if I see early problems that could manifest themselves as bigger issues, I stop and get out early. But a bro of mine recently inspired the fuck out of me and made me want to try a little harder at making things work with your partner. So I respected him for it and gave it my all. Shit was life draining. I should have gotten out when I had the chance earlier. She literally refused to listen to any facts I lay on the table and constantly accuse me of shit I didn’t know I did or could do.

I barely got away with my life force still intact. Basically, you have to acknowledge a lost cause when you see it and conserve your energy and time to use for someone who’ll be worth it, whether that be fwb or future wifey/hubby. If there’s no communication, and the problems still persist, please kindly dub that. I’m a realist and an optimist, a contradiction, I know. But I’m also a nihilist with certain things. Sometimes I feel it’s pointless to even try with certain things because they’ll ultimately fail or just prove more disadvantageous than what it’s worth. This was one of them. I climbed out of my dark hole to warn others, stop wasting time on those who are dead set on wasting your time. Especially when all they seem to care about is themselves.

But be reasonable. It’s always worth communicating what’s going on, give people chances because all in all, humans aren’t perfect. If someone messes up and they’ve shown actual remorse and they value you, why not give them another chance? You never know when fate will deal you the “fuck up” card and you yourself will end up on your hands and knees begging for forgiveness. If relationships aren’t your thing, please relay that to the one you’re on the conquest for so you two either don’t end up wasting your time, or coming to an understanding and getting the fun underway. But don’t be a true asshole with it, cause that’ll just make things worse. Unless you’re the type to not give a shit who you hurt or how you treat them, then by all means, do you but be prepared for the return on the shit you’ve invested in people. If you give them shit, expect shit in return. That’s how karma works.

I do humbly apologize, this has turned into a rant which is sorta kinda/not the aim, butt fuck it, let’s go with it. The message should be clear enough. Don’t waste your time or the time of others, and you should get that treatment back. Be the right person for someone, not the wrong choice.

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Love Yourself

It's not easy, especially if your self-esteem is as low as mine. But just because it's not easy, doesn't mean it's impossible. Firstly, if you're the type to always seek or absorb the opinions of others, I'd say cut back on that or stop being so dependant on it. You won't gain a voice of your own by using others as your crutch. Sometimes you gotta put pressure on that leg and try walking on your own. From those coming out of the closet about a secret, to those looking for a change for themselves by asking others without first finding out what you think you need to change.

If you like something, you should be able to embrace it wholeheartedly as long as it isn't directly hurting someone else. You are the master of your own fate. Doesn't mean that the usual things in life won't happen, just means that you can control the things you actually have power over. Believe in yourself, and belief in other things will follow. And even if they don't, you still hold the power to choose what you want to do. It took me some time before I was able to learn this, and funny enough, the two biggest sources of inspiration for them was anime and playing MOBA games like League Of Legends and Overwatch.

Watching anime and reading manga gave me a little bit of hope for myself. Main characters from most mainstream anime focus on working hard and earning all of their results. They believe in grasping your own happiness, and protecting what you believe in and those you love. Be honest with yourself and don’t let others beat you down. I took my message from it and I’m still building on it bit by bit. It's cheesy, I know, but it's quite effective. I used to get made fun of for looking such things, for singing the Japanese intros and whatnot but to be perfectly honest, I didn't give a fuck. I'm being so blunt with you all, I quite literally gave 0% of any actual fucks I had stored up towards that negativity. It's what made me smile at the end of the day so why change it because I get made fun of for it? I had friends who accepted me for who I was, and some of them watched anime, read manga and played games just like I did so we got along fine. Any girls who didn't like a guy who was into all of that could kick the biggest rocks on the planet. Like what you love.

Like I said in the beginning, it's not easy learning not to give a fuck. But hang with me, and you'll pick up quick. Get some tough skin and love yourself and you should be alright. Come back soon, m'kay?